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How Do You Explain This? by lavylilly: 3:55am On Jun 25, 2022 |
Do not judge please! I am married and live in Ilorin with my husband and two girls. However,I have a son whom I had before I got married. My Son lives with my mother in another part of the town in Ilorin and he is now a teenager. The story we told him was that I got pregnant for a boyfriend who didnt want the pregnancy. I was sixteen years old and we were both young and foolish. It is true that we were sixteen at the time,young and foolish but I didnt get pregnant by any boyfriend. I got pregnant by my Uncle whom I was living with in Lagos. When it happened,I was rushed home to avoid anyone finding out and causing the family a huge scandal. We tried to have an abortion but that failed as I was far too long into the pregnancy,it was almost six months. I didnt know as I was like i said,young and foolish. My Uncle actually convinced me to sleep with him several times so I could continue to live with them in Lagos and not be chased back to the village. I did that until I got pregnant |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by Boogyman557: 4:03am On Jun 25, 2022 |
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Re: How Do You Explain This? by NotBeenPaid: 4:54am On Jun 25, 2022 |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by Venymen(m): 5:07am On Jun 25, 2022 |
So for 6 months u did not see ur period and u did not know,ur blaming being naive,lols even the kids that have not started menstruation know better than u 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by boxer022(m): 6:48am On Jun 25, 2022 |
This issue is a very painful one, but the deed has been done and there is nothing anyone can do about it. You need to focus on yourself and your current marriage, trying from time to time to see him (your son). Goodluck. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by Higgies(m): 7:19am On Jun 25, 2022 |
boxer022:She said you should not judge. Are you blind or just st** Mr questioner. Over sabi Now you won't let us hear the full story. |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by boxer022(m): 7:23am On Jun 25, 2022 |
Higgies:I wasn't asking the question so as to judge her, only to be able to answer her questions. |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by odinson1(m): 7:27am On Jun 25, 2022 |
boxer022:She probably wont reply or post again because your questions are Judgemental. This is why therapists don't shout at,scold or judge their clients. |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by Profmetoo: 9:11am On Jun 25, 2022 |
Is your husband aware of the true story? |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by Ningen(m): 9:54am On Jun 25, 2022 |
What a he-goat. Men never disappoint. Anyway, moving forward, be a better person than your parents. Tell your son the truth and protect your daughters fiercely. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by Nobody: 10:09am On Jun 25, 2022 |
Nonscence op carry your cross |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by lavylilly: 11:25am On Jun 25, 2022 |
Ningen:Thank you |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by ImaIma1(f): 1:22pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
boxer022: You should never try delving into counselling whether in church or elsewhere. Because your non stop and prying questions are enough to send the person back into a shell. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by Emma2Seconds: 2:14pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
https://www.nairaland.com/7076933/being-unnecessarily-paranoid#111912451. Check the link Guys, the OP is just attention Seeker . |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by boxer022(m): 9:30pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
ImaIma1:It seems these questions I asked her might put me in trouble. How can I withdraw it? |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by ImaIma1(f): 9:48pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
boxer022: I don't know how. Maybe you could quote her and let her understand that you meant no harm. |
Re: How Do You Explain This? by lavylilly: 6:59am On Jun 26, 2022 |
ImaIma1:Fact |
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