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Re: Couples Not Staying Together by Str8talk21: 6:54pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Na small boy mentality dey worry u. Better grow up 2 Likes |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by Cutehector(m): 6:55pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Men sometimes need space. Women will never understand this |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by pharmaking: 6:56pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
What nonsense introvert bullshit. Sometimes u just need a bit of maturity and you and done and over with the initial lack of interest in some things. I am also an introvert, I got no problem living with a woman I love or taking crucial decisions that will benefit all. This guy no tell us the GAY part of his story. |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by newcommer: 7:00pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
kwasoly: You know you're right. it's very possible he's gay |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by Hassanmaye(m): 7:02pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
KemeticPrince:Haha |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by chris51(f): 7:03pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
KemeticPrince: Then you have a serious mental problem 2 Likes |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by chris51(f): 7:03pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
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Re: Couples Not Staying Together by Anaya4life: 7:07pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
You should have had a baby mama Instead of deceiving the poor woman into marriage. Kindly stop being selfish and do better 3 Likes |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by Elidrisy20: 7:10pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
How will you couplet |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by kwasoly(m): 7:10pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
newcommer: No normal man will marry and leave in separate apartment with his wife, instead they will have separate rooms The guy na gay him no want make the wife know but one day monkey go go market him no go return. |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by Ayanya(f): 7:14pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Op needs therapy,you need a change of mindset. The purpose of marriage is abused here,marriage done the proper way is for partnership, companionship,procreation. If you are not ds way due to a past traumatic experience then you need a change of mindset as to what a proper marriage is about(i suggest you get professional help from Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo). Seems you ddnt tell your wife ds arrangement b4 u went ahead,you will only hurt her and trust me u don't want her raising your kids in such state of heart,it will take the grace of God to have stable children in ds kind of arrangement. I also like my personal space but i gave room for another when i decided on getting married. Get help pls don't hurt the people that love you,it's no longer about "YOU" alone 1 Like |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by Magenta232: 7:21pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
KemeticPrince: Just incase you need someone to further talk to, don't hesitate to reach out ... Send a DM to my IG handle @essyisa232 |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by newcommer: 7:28pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
kwasoly: |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by SoapQueen(f): 7:30pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
rickpat: I'm so shell-shocked. Wow. |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by NaBanga: 7:31pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
iomoge2: In the United States, most of what you described would likely put you under the umbrella of Autism spectrum disorder. However Nigeria is a different place. The op may have the same or be a homosexual. He needs to let his wife know his feelings so she can make a choice about her future. Eventually she will get a lover if the op continues to push her away. Unfortunately that could place her and her kids in a harm's way. It's best for him to be honest. |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by SoapQueen(f): 7:32pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
JBriel: I'm not sure. It's Aquarius men that possess this sort of selfish, cold-hearted, and mean blooded traits... |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by JBriel: 7:33pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
SoapQueen: He isn't selfish. Instead he is a jello within. He isn't cold hearted either, he just wants his space and do live there unperturbed. |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by SoapQueen(f): 7:35pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
JBriel: If he wasn't selfish, he wouldn't have married to please his parents. Speaking of parents, I'm wondering why he's denying his child of complete fatherly love. It's only a cold-blooded person who wouldn't want to compromise. To hell with him. 3 Likes |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by JBriel: 7:35pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
SoapQueen: Lol. Easy. He needs to discover himself and he will do better. He's actually an amazing person and the kind that won't hurt anyone but go about his business privately. With some correctional talks he'll do better If he reaches out, I can talk with him for a one year period and help him achieve completeness he currently lacks |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by efficiencie(m): 7:35pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
KemeticPrince: Dude! No offense ehn but you sick oh! Who raises a family but wants to be alone. Why are parents forcing children into marriages for goodness sake. You want to be alone and the best way to be alone is for you to get married. Everyday people just keep pushing the bar of craziness. Guy divorce that woman if you cannot live with her. Find a lady will to do baby mama crap and run your shit with her. See as you damage another person life. 3 Likes |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by SoapQueen(f): 7:38pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
MagicBishop: You took the words out of my mouth. Imagine bringing a child to this world and allowing his wife to deal with his demonic acts. The crazy thing is that he'd cry foul if his wife steps out on him. I know his type, selfish, hypocritical, and wicked. 3 Likes |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by SoapQueen(f): 7:40pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
JBriel: Abeg make I hear word. I've seen his type before and whenever I remember him, I go dey happy say I dodged the bullet that was a selfish soul. Amazing person that cannot consider the well-being of his son. I hear you. |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by JBriel: 7:40pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
SoapQueen: He isn't wicked. It's his genetic wiring and natural orientation. If he doesn't get the right information about himself he can't change it. You would think he is evil bit he is far from an evil person. I'm reality you might be speaking with a pastor |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by JBriel: 7:41pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
SoapQueen: I'm sorry but you're wrong. This isn't a bad person |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by SoapQueen(f): 7:45pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
JBriel: Lol. Okay. I've heard you. He isn't bad, truly.. he's plain evil. I hope you read my harsh words @Op and go cry about it. *Dodges Bathroom slippers* 2 Likes |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by iomoge2(f): 7:47pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
NaBanga: Wow |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by JBriel: 7:49pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
SoapQueen: Hahaha. Now I understand.. He isn't who you think he is. He isn't your ex |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by jelel6: 8:02pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
SoapQueen: You say this with so much authority that I had to check to see whether I'm Aquarius . Turns out I am indeed. But common, you can't possibly and wholly believe this zodiac myths do you? I share in the OP's desire for solitude and control but I think the poster is quite extreme about the way he handles it. It really is a self-centered and selfish move on his part. Totally unprovoked and unjustifiable since he's not claiming his wife has a role in his decision. |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by SoapQueen(f): 8:03pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
JBriel: Na, he can never be. I always repay my debts, trust me *winks* Op...if you read this...nvm.. |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by SoapQueen(f): 8:04pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
jelel6: Lol. Don't mind me. Truth is they aren't bad. I never used to believe this Zodiac signs but when I encountered Aquarius people and my own sign, I was like wtf?? |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by JBriel: 8:06pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
SoapQueen: Ogbome. Sha take it easy |
Re: Couples Not Staying Together by Jeezuzpick(m): 8:07pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
KemeticPrince: You should have remained alone instead of bringing the poor lady and child into a home without a resident husband and father. Why do you think your wife will like to stay alone? If she did, would she have married you? Maybe if she gets someone else, to warm her bed at night, you would understand that a wife has needs other than monthly cash. 3 Likes |
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