If you can't handle their past. This is very important.
I keep counseling men who are deeply hurt and find it difficult forgiving their wives for not giving them their virginity when they gave her their own. The husband is mad his wife has had multiple sex partners before marriage while he kept himself all these while.
Some guys told me the moment their partner revealed her past, they became disappointed, frustrated, very bitter and highly irritable.
One lady told me her fiance's attitude towards her changed dramatically since she revealed her past to him.
These men's action may sound immature or irrational but it is not, you can't understand them if you are not a virgin.
Keeping one's virginity till marriageable age is not a child's play! It's not easy burning with strong sexual desire, refusing to yield to it, shunning all sexual advances/temptation, keeping yourself pure - untouched, brand new only to give it all to a lady/man who had engaged in all manner of sexual escapades before marriage.
The blood of Jesus is what makes the difference.
When the lady who has engaged in sexual sins in the past asks God for forgiveness and repents, to God she is a new creature (2 Corinthians 5:17) and deserves God's best in marriage.
Since God has forgiven her (For all have sinned is what the Bible says -we all need forgiveness), you should forgive her and ask God for grace to forget about her past.
You can only do this if she is God's will for you. If she is not, forgetting her past will be difficult and marriage with her will be hell. Each love making session with her in marriage will leave you bitter, jealous and resentful as you keep imagining the men she had had sex with. This can lead to serious sex issues like erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation.
I tell guys with this feelings to end the relationship!
I told the lady whose fiance couldn't accept her past to forget about him and pray for her own husband.
Some ladies use this antagonistic reaction from men to hide their past so they will be accepted in marriage. That is sitting on a time bomb! One way or the other, your past will come to light and the trust your husband had for you will be buried!
Let your partner know about your past so they can make their decision either to accept or forget about you. Do not lie or pretend so someone can marry you!
God loves you unconditionally. He will give you a man who will accept you the way you are and love you unconditionally regardless of your past mistakes if you will trust him and wait for his time.
Nothing destroys a man's trust for you faster than tempting him sexually in courtship despite having a past. The man will do simple calculation. If you could throw yourself cheaply at him, how many men have you thrown yourself at? Is this the way you were tempting all the men that had sex with you? What is the guarantee you won't throw yourself at men after marriage?
If you have truly changed please remain so.
Shun every form of sexual temptation, advances and remain sexually pure.
Your God ordained husband will respect you, honour you, trust you and cherish you for life!
It takes character to keep your virginity.
It takes lack of character to lose it.
It takes character to ask God for forgiveness despite your past, it takes lack of character to go back to your vomit.
If you have really changed , remain so and God and men will honour you.
May you not lose your dignity before God and men.
© Seun Oladele, 2022.

Do this ladies change genuinely or just pretend to settle down

Virgin guys please you must look for virgin ladies. Dont settle for less

Virgin guys and non virgin guys shouldn't settle for less(non virgin)...
If a girl doesn't give you her prime, her virginity and her best years,then dont give her your time, attention,energy and finance..

She had 5 ex- boyfriends, they all fvvked and dumped her.. Why should a reputable man be f00lish to fvvk her and now keep her.. In stead add to her cooch!e mileage

I love this post...
Virgin ladies please don't marry a prostitute like future Hendrix.... Leave them to their respective partners,the Street prostitute [ birds of same feather flock together ]..


Go for virgin if you are one

Op this your post is almost useless because we don't even have virgin men in nigeria,almost are nigeria men are brostitutes,so this your topic should be directed to the females not males.

virginprincess:
Op this your post is almost useless because we don't even have virgin men in nigeria,almost are nigeria men are brostitutes,so this your topic should be directed to the females not males.

It's stupid... Many Nigerian men lost their virginity to 5 hundred naira prostitutes as teenagers... Have caught countless STDs... Spent money their friends and parents loaned them to treat their infections... Can't last a hour without drinking agbo or bitters... Are porn and mastubation addicts battling with depression...

Overall pathetic creatures who don't deserve a woman... Too bad they can't fu** themselves... Do the world a favour...

Are there male virgins?

The ones who decided to abstain? Not the timid losers who are involuntary celibates...

Datboredberri:



It's stupid... Many Nigerian men lost their virginity to 5 hundred naira prostitutes as teenagers... Have caught countless STDs... Spent money their friends and parents loaned them to treat their infections... Can't last a hour without drinking agbo or bitters... Are porn and mastubation addicts battling with depression...

Overall pathetic creatures who don't deserve a woman... Too bad they can't fu** themselves... Do the world a favour...

Are there male virgins?

The ones who decided to abstain? Not the timid losers who are involuntary celibates...

,you are very correct,but they will always decieve themselves by not accepting the truth,there are no male virgins in nigeria,like you said most lost their virginity to common cheap hoes, what a pity .