The choices we make, the patterns we observe in our lives are sometimes not random.

We usually tilt towards what is familiar. And sometimes, familiar may not necessarily be helpful to us.

Two individual's choice to be with each other can be a wonderful decision; maybe even the best decision.

However, if individually they have accumulated unhelpful belief systems about themselves, or about other people or about the world around them through the years, this can impact the way they interact with themselves or with others in ways that may not be helpful.

The choice of the person you're with may not be the challenge in the relationship. Maybe it might simply be what you're doing, or what you're not doing in the relationship, or what they're doing, or what they're not doing towards gaining harmony within the relationship.

Professional couples counseling/therapy will help you sit together as two consenting adults, to honestly explore critical areas upon which, if positive change happens, couples can start developing the will to trust again, and the will to open up to be loved and to love back, the will and courage to explore mutual vulnerability, trusting that each person would be secure in doing so.

This requires you to be intentional and to take action.

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