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Why Are Nigerian Men Always Jealous Of Successful Nigerian Women? by Chintua: 9:48am On Jul 30, 2011 |
If any man starts getting jealous of my progress, he gets kicked to the curb ASAP. For one, my personality is waaaaaaaaaaay to strong to be dominated by ANY man. So, this is a reflective topic. I have seen a lot of Nigerian men beat/kill their wives out of jealousy. The most recent case of Titi Arowolo comes to mind. When a woman is progressing, does the man not benefit? This happens all over the world, especially in societies dominated by male chauvinists with 'Sharia-Chrislamic' mentalities who believe women have "designated" roles like men. Why is it that when a Nigerian woman is succeeding and filling the 'bread-winning' role of a home a typical 'bush' Nigerian man is not happy, especially if the man is the jobless one? Why can't all Nigerian couples be like Omotola Jalade and Mathew Ekeinde? I am looking for role models of Nigerian men who support their wives. My husband used to be like that, but has since learned a lot from the American culture. He stays employed and does not bother with my paychecks(not that he can reach them anyhoo). He is supportive of my decisions in what I choose to do with or without him. He does NOT cater to gossip about me or our family members. Just to keep the 'busy-bodies' informed so they do no think this thread is about me. I work with a lot of Nigerian women and the story is the same. I know a lot of Nigerian families with women who do not feel that their husbands are supportive them. My role models? The winner is Omotola Jalade and Mathew Ekeinde. I love the way this couple work with each other. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Always Jealous Of Successful Nigerian Women? by Chintua: 10:03am On Jul 30, 2011 |
http://www.businessdayonline.com/NG/index.php/family/23561-its-your-duty-not-mine
Gosh! 2 more hours to close. . . Yippppeeee!!!! |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Always Jealous Of Successful Nigerian Women? by Chintua: 10:10am On Jul 30, 2011 |
http://www.gamji.com/article4000/NEWS4559.htm Haven digressed a bit, I return to the issue of Nigerian men and their foreign wives. [size=20pt] I am stunned, perplexed, taken aback by the transformation Nigerian men, married to non-Nigerian women,[/size] have gone through in the United States (and perhaps all over the Western world). My goodness, here are a group of macho men, fiercely independent, with a burgeoning sense of entitlement who thinks the world belongs to them; and that women are made to be at their beck-and-call. Here they are; they have suddenly or gradually gone soft and sensitive and romantic and wide-eyed. How did these groups of men become “oh baby, oh baby” kind of guys? How did they become “yes honey, yes sweetheart, yes darling” kind of fellas? What has happened to them? What got to their hearts and soul? Why do Nigerian men become 'women-wrappers' to foreign women? Is it because the Nigerian woman do not know how to suck? Why don't they like to 'suck' us like they suck foreign women. . . even with shyte in their bottoms? |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Always Jealous Of Successful Nigerian Women? by r231(m): 12:15pm On Jul 30, 2011 |
on your own |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Always Jealous Of Successful Nigerian Women? by Chintua: 7:09pm On Jul 30, 2011 |
Always on my own. I dun wanno see any cyber riff-raff on ma thread o! Make dem dress go one corner abeg. Abi I dey go dem dem ye-ye threads? Shiooooooor!!!! More stories to come. I dey for my bed. Make I reassssh wor f'o'rst. Not easy to type from this I-Phone of a business. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Always Jealous Of Successful Nigerian Women? by clemcykul(f): 11:48am On Aug 01, 2011 |
hey chintua keep it coming , am a fan of this thread already. kudos** |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Always Jealous Of Successful Nigerian Women? by blank(f): 4:47pm On Aug 01, 2011 |
Subscribed. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Always Jealous Of Successful Nigerian Women? by vislabraye(m): 4:31pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
Find a man that is not jealous, cool. |
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