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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by slan87(m): 7:22am On Jul 23, 2022
Carcholce:
Based on the fact that humans are not predictable, She can decide to become a good wife or become worse after marriage. I’ll advise you marry her and see what happens after.

But if I were you, I don’t see why I’ll even think of dating her talk more of marrying a girl I met through one night stand. I mean we are all different but I am not stupid. I’m not saying you are stupid, but I am not mad. I didn’t say you are mad either.


Lmao, comrade I salute you
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Fahdiga(m): 8:06am On Jul 23, 2022
Born2winnx:


you get sense and very matured response..

not some lowlife scumbag when won try show person sense..
like say their sisters nor dey do runs.... people like DriverX

and no be people go marry them
You know that everyone's sisters do runs and you are still asking questions here. Why don't you go and marry her peacefully and see if she will make a good wife or not. You asked a question in a public forum and someone shared his opinion and you start insulting the person. You shouldn't have brought the question here man. Go ahead and marry her and don't even bother to share with us what she turns out to be tomorrow.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by eazzzy1(m): 9:11am On Jul 23, 2022
What’s a good wife to you? If your question is would she stop sleeping with people for money? The answer is NO, she won’t.

Marriage won’t change her, if she was a retired prostitute that would be a different thing as she would have voluntarily left the profession.

She will continue sleeping with people for money and she will continue catching feelings for her clients.
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by hpk(m): 9:22am On Jul 23, 2022
Proverbs 23 vs 27

"Prostitutes and immoral women are a deadly trap."

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by jmoore(m): 12:06pm On Jul 23, 2022
A prostitute fornicates same way a girlfriend fornicates with her boyfriend.

All fornicators.

Why should fornicators discriminate against each other when it comes to marriage?

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by musiliyukayode(m): 2:32pm On Jul 23, 2022
Who is a prostitute and Who is a Wife?
I need to know
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Missionaire: 3:13pm On Jul 23, 2022
Carcholce:
Based on the fact that humans are not predictable, She can decide to become a good wife or become worse after marriage. I’ll advise you marry her and see what happens after.

But if I were you, I don’t see why I’ll even think of dating her talk more of marrying a girl I met through one night stand. I mean we are all different but I am not stupid. I’m not saying you are stupid, but I am not mad. I didn’t say you are mad either.
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Missionaire: 3:14pm On Jul 23, 2022
DriverX:
Yes, if the sun rises in the west.

You put the M in mumu.

She's opened to you and also opened to the other 82 guys on her contact. The idea is to be like a gf to you all so that when she asks you and your fellow 81 mugus for 10k, you all will send. It's all about the next client for prostitute s. Ever wondered why they never stop prostituting even after making enough money to start a decent business? Yeah, that's right. Fools like you.

Your erect penis and penile feelings have replaced the function of your brain.
You should be tied to a palm tree and flogged
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 4:13pm On Jul 23, 2022
Don’t let your emotions carry u go where u no know.

Okpo No fit change bruh. save yourself from future drama



Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Lighthouse50: 5:20pm On Jul 23, 2022
Mindlog:


But in reality, he can't be all that to her because he also has his own life to live.

You should have to consider that overwhelming majority of those into prostitution struggle with depersonalization, where they are disassociated from self in order to live through such life....there are mental health issues associated with prostitution and for many, even if you give them N10m, they will still continue prostituting.
Still my point. Those who will return to prostitution after doing your best for them have spiritual problem. Then i think Olukoya will have to work on them.
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by BigYash: 7:04pm On Jul 23, 2022
Op marry her,so that from your experiences others can learn. Experienced girl like that dey manipulate you,and you say she dey opened to you? Someone rightly said,that's how she is opened to the many male contacts on her phone.. I no doubt am.
She gat win clients hearts somehow, so that she go benefit wella.

No worry,she go do you well grin

Try go see her parents next week abrosky.

Can't wait to see your pre wedding pics on FP undecided

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by baralatie(m): 7:24pm On Jul 23, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala
Wait let me understand

You met a stranger and without restraint phoocked in one night and after or during the phoooocking you fell in love?
And you want me to advise you if she can become born again so you can marry her?
undecided

Okay she can become born again and you can marry her
undecided

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by NerdyAboki(m): 8:13pm On Jul 23, 2022
People change but it's seldom the case that they change dramatically overnight. Old habits die hard and it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks.
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by jasper83: 9:17pm On Jul 23, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala



My own advice is a smart one. If you fancy her that much and you vibe together just do only engagement for her otherwise called traditional marriage, pay her bride price that's all. Don't ever do a court marriage, please don't. This is to shield you from legal fireworks and entanglement if things go down south.

You will just quietly walk away. I never wish for that anyways. Its just being smart since she's unpredictable and of the street, so wise up and plan the strategy right from onset.

All the very best man.

Cheers
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by frozen70(f): 8:26pm On Jul 27, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala

Being a prostitute doesn't make her a bad woman

Have you ever asked her about her family and what led her to such wayward life
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Kelechi009: 9:14pm On Jul 27, 2022
Mindlog:


But in reality, he can't be all that to her because he also has his own life to live.

You should have to consider that overwhelming majority of those into prostitution struggle with depersonalization, where they are disassociated from self in order to live through such life....there are mental health issues associated with prostitution and for many, even if you give them N10m, they will still continue prostituting.

I think men and especially women should be honest about this conversations, let's stop blaming our problems on depersonalization, depression and devil or any spiritual thing like some people have been doing on this thread, not you though.

Prostitution is easy money for people, It is simply high risk and high reward journey. The reason you give them 10M & they continue is because of the amount of brain work and commitment that is required to function in 9-5 environment or become a legit entrepreneur. Sex is a dumb activity, anybody can perform it and It requires the most minimal brain work.

In advanced societies like America, Russia, Czech Republic and Hungary have the world largest porn stars. I did this research years ago. As someone who has some family members in America, I can tell you that there are jobs every where that pays way above minimum wage but women still troop into the Porn and OnlyFans industry. America is not a place like Nigeria where there are few jobs to feed as long you can work, but women still flood porn industry in drones.

And yes, men also flood the porn industry too. It simply means they go where the money is, just like the women.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Mindlog: 9:25pm On Jul 27, 2022
Kelechi009:


I think men and especially women should be honest about this conversations, let's stop blaming our problems on depersonalization, depression and devil or any spiritual thing like some people have been doing on this thread, not you though.

Prostitution is easy money for people, It is simply high risk and high reward journey. The reason you give them 10M & they continue is because of the amount of brain work and commitment that is required to function in 9-5 environment or become a legit entrepreneur. Sex is a dumb activity, anybody can perform it and It requires the most minimal brain work.

In advanced societies like America, Russia, Czech Republic and Hungary have the world largest porn stars. I did this research years ago. As someone who has some family members in America, I can tell you that there are jobs every where that pays way above minimum wage but women still troop into the Porn and OnlyFans industry. America is not a place like Nigeria where there are few jobs to feed as long you can work, but women still flood porn industry in drones.

And yes, men also flood the porn industry too. It simply means they go where the money is, just like the women.

Sex? Nah, not everyone can. wink

Let's not forget we have people who are asexual, amongst us.
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Kelechi009: 11:24pm On Jul 27, 2022
Mindlog:


Sex? Nah, not everyone can. wink

Let's not forget we have people who are asexual, amongst us.

That's the major point you are missing, the person hired to have sex is not attracted to their client. Prostitution is just a job like any other type of job or entrepreneurship that could have emotion/personal relationship has a side attraction but not really the vocal point.

We are paid to do a job, do it & keep it moving. That is what porn stars do, a lot of cameras while they are filming. Once the film is over, the male & female actors go their way. End of contract.
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by emmaodet: 8:31am On Jul 29, 2022
Carcholce:
Based on the fact that humans are not predictable, She can decide to become a good wife or become worse after marriage. I’ll advise you marry her and see what happens after.

But if I were you, I don’t see why I’ll even think of dating her talk more of marrying a girl I met through one night stand. I mean we are all different but I am not stupid. I’m not saying you are stupid, but I am not mad. I didn’t say you are mad either.

grin. grin

Chaiiii
Nairalanders have bad mouth abeg.
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by emmaodet: 9:18am On Jul 29, 2022
DriverX:
Yes, if the sun rises in the west.

You put the M in mumu.

She's opened to you and also opened to the other 82 guys on her contact. The idea is to be like a gf to you all so that when she asks you and your fellow 81 mugus for 10k, you all will send. It's all about the next client for prostitute s. Ever wondered why they never stop prostituting even after making enough money to start a decent business? Yeah, that's right. Fools like you.

Your erect penis and penile feelings have replaced the function of your brain.
You should be tied to a palm tree and flogged

grin
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Dbrawllm0098(f): 7:27am On Sep 15, 2022
Yes of course, she can.
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by NeckingNgulping(m): 10:20am On Sep 15, 2022
A leopard can never shed its spots..

You can take a b*tch out of the street, but you can never take the street out of her.

Don't ever make a hoe a house wife..
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by opeyy(f): 11:02am On Sep 15, 2022
I am sorry for your destiny cheesy You have already been given the grace to see the tendencies, you better believe it and either accept that club is her middle name or you vamoose. What you cannot accept when you're rich, don't accept it when you're poor abeg.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Helpout12345: 4:07pm On Sep 15, 2022
The way the OP is fighting and insulting people that have contrary opinions to hers here shows she was on a mission to advocate for prostitution.

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