The mindset behind any relationship should have an underlying positive attitude as that would become a fundamental component of that relationship. It could take some getting used to, especially with the constant barrage of difficulties we encounter daily as it is often challenging to keep to the vows of always loving your partner, being kind, and above all, sticking to the commitments you both made to value and cherish one another.
The unfortunate reality is that when things go wrong, everything falls apart, and we are prone to forgetting our spouse’s positive traits in the heat of the moment. This isn’t always intentional; life just has a way of doing that.
Ever find yourself in such a precarious situation, rather than saying nasty and hurtful words that can’t be taken back or even being confrontational with your spouse; verbally or physically.
Why not get a pen and paper in that bad mood and write out a sort of reminder, listing why you love them as a partner, we call it the “I love you because…” list.
Do this often and watch your anger dissipates as you rediscover renewed love for your partner and how to love them better.
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