Well, you both need to get tested again to confirm your results. Her result could have been a false positive or yours could have been a false negative. Either way you need to make sure. Also, being HIV positive is not the end of the world. For starters there's no need to terminate the pregnancy because of the mother's HIV status alone. There are drugs which can be taken to prevent transmission of the disease from mother to child. If turns out, she's truly HIV positive, then she will need to start taking the drugs immediately.

Whether or not you choose to go ahead and marry her is entirely up to you. It's possible for you 2 to be married and have a normal sex life as long as you practice safe sex and take the necessary precautions.

Hope this is somewhat helpful. Good luck!

@poster
marry the girl OR terminate the pregnancy?! may i ask what has one got to do with the other?!

couldnt you marry her AND terminate the pregnancy?! or not marrying her and keeping the baby for that matter.

Hiv test could be screening or confirmatory.ELISA is a screening test and commonly done in most centres.pregnancy,tuberculosis,malaria etc could be false positives to elisa hiv test.to be sure,go for western blot and PCR,both are confirmatory.u may still marry her,u need to have sex with hiv positive for 1000 times b4 u can get infected.though there is no absolute law in medicine.

Laalamed:

Hiv test could be screening or confirmatory.ELISA is a screening test and commonly done in most centres.pregnancy,tuberculosis,malaria etc could be false positives to elisa hiv test.to be sure,go for western blot and PCR,both are confirmatory.u may still marry her,u need to Be Intimate with hiv positive for 1000 times b4 u can get infected.though there is no absolute law in medicine.

Intimate 1000 times? what are you going on about. How did you work that out? Better stop misleading people. Why don't you look for someone who's HIV positive and have sex with them and stop after the 999th time.

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yomijnr, this is good advice!

Well, you both need to get tested again to confirm your results. Her result could have been a false positive or yours could have been a false negative. Either way you need to make sure. Also, being HIV positive is not the end of the world. For starters there's no need to terminate the pregnancy because of the mother's HIV status alone. There are drugs which can be taken to prevent transmission of the disease from mother to child. If turns out, she's truly HIV positive, then she will need to start taking the drugs immediately.

Whether or not you choose to go ahead and marry her is entirely up to you. It's possible for you 2 to be married and have a normal sex life as long as you practice safe sex and take the necessary precautions.

Hope this is somewhat helpful. Good luck!

May I add my own encouragement to have safe sex?
And all my best wishes.

Thank you guys, i really appreciate all your contributions.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you

Hello I will advise you to get a professional counseling fast since your girls pregnancy is still young so they can place her on drugs immediately if need be but I will tell you that there has been tremendous improvement on HIV/AIDS treatment,
I can tell you that a HIV+ woman can have a child through the natural way and breast feed with the right treatment.

You can call off the relationship for so many other reasons but not for one been +,get some counsel and u ll see am right besides she REALLY do need you now.PLS DNT LET HER DOWN.

@tishat,are U sure abt wat U said on giving birth the natural way and bossom feeding, if yes that means they are really trying on this Hiv thing.

Yeah am very sure abt giving birth d natural way nd breast feeding like i earlier said they ve really improved on †ђξ treatment nd still improving.

stand by her if u love her