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Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 3:36pm On Aug 05, 2022
I am a married man with 2kids but their is one big lady that I met she loves me very much ....since I Bleep that lady I can't get my eyes of her ....I have been thinking about her since after the marathon sex we hard last month .... honestly I want to make her my second wife....she has agreed that she will b my second....but some of my family' n friends are not in support of it....she is a very cool lady and very Supportive.....
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Nobody: 4:06pm On Aug 05, 2022
I don’t think it’s bad to take a second wife but there are rules and regulations you have to strictly follow.

1. You need your wife’s permission

2. You must keep on giving your first wife and kids the same allowance or even more.

3. You must provide equally for both wives.

4. You must love your wives equally. Treat them equally and do not make any feel less loved.

These are some basic rules and I don’t think any mortal man can live up to them truthfully.


POLYGAMY IS UNREALISTIC.

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Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Blunttruth: 5:27pm On Aug 05, 2022
Trustedapparel:
I am a married man with 2kids but their is one big lady that I met she loves me very much ....since I Bleep that lady I can't get my eyes of her ....I have been thinking about her since after the marathon sex we hard last month .... honestly I want to make her my second wife....she has agreed that she will b my second....but some of my family' n friends are not in support of it....she is a very cool lady and very Supportive.....
You want to arry second wife after committing adultery, you are basing your decision to ruin your life on sex. I hope the woman has not used kanyamata on you. You better snap out of your foolishness.
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by lyndaway(f): 5:36pm On Aug 05, 2022
Not good my brother,na your children go suffer the implications

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Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by tayo60(f): 6:08pm On Aug 05, 2022
Yoruba adage says " orisha je n pe meji obinrin o denu" which means no woman wants a rival in her home. Think it twice before you go into polygamy, d experience isn't always sweet.

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Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 6:09pm On Aug 05, 2022
Blunttruth:

You want to arry second wife after committing adultery, you are basing your decision to ruin your life on sex. I hope the woman has not used kanyamata on you. You better snap out of your foolishness.
the lady have support me with 500k when I have money problem
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 6:10pm On Aug 05, 2022
lyndaway:
Not good my brother,na your children go suffer the implications
the lady is very kind and helpful
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 6:11pm On Aug 05, 2022
tayo60:
Yoruba adage says " orisha je n pe meji obinrin o denu" which means no woman wants a rival in her home. Think it twice before you go into polygamy, d experience isn't always sweet.
the lady is very supportive
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Nobody: 6:11pm On Aug 05, 2022
You just sowing troubles and tribulations you gon reap in the future.... If you was my dad and tried that shit I gon blast your balls out with a pump
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 6:11pm On Aug 05, 2022
Bunnybee:
I don’t think it’s bad to take a second wife but there are rules and regulations you have to strictly follow.

1. You need your wife’s permission

2. You must keep on giving your first wife and kids the same allowance or even more.

3. You must provide equally for both wives.

4. You must love your wives equally. Treat them equally and do not make any feel less loved.

These are some basic rules and I don’t think any mortal man can live up to them truthfully.


POLYGAMY IS UNREALISTIC.
the lady is very supportive
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Nazgul: 6:13pm On Aug 05, 2022
You already have 2kids from your first wife and you're planning to marry another one.

If this new wife gives birth to 3-4 kids and your first wife add 1-2 more to the already 2 she has, you'll have an average of about 6-8 kids to cater for in this harsh economy.

Do you know the cost of training just one child from primary school to university level, Or do you want your kids to be walking about nàked looking malnourished like refugees because their father couldn't control himself? Stop being selfish and think about the future of your children before making this irrational decision.

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Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by lyndaway(f): 6:15pm On Aug 05, 2022
Trustedapparel:
the lady is very kind and helpful
will the first wife accept her?
Will your kids accept her?
For how long will her kindness last?
When real storm comes will she stand my you
brother there is more to second wife oh

My late dad had three wife I no what am saying don't start what you can't finish

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Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 6:15pm On Aug 05, 2022
lyndaway:
Not good my brother,na your children go suffer the implications
the lady is very supportive.....she has giving me 500k when I have a little issue with money

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Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Nobody: 6:17pm On Aug 05, 2022
Trustedapparel:
I am a married man with 2kids but their is one big lady that I met she loves me very much ....since I Bleep that lady I can't get my eyes of her ....I have been thinking about her since after the marathon sex we hard last month .... honestly I want to make her my second wife....she has agreed that she will b my second....but some of my family' n friends are not in support of it....she is a very cool lady and very Supportive.....
Forget all those nice words... U want to wife her because of great sex cheesy
Instead of u to dey hammer her away u want to bring her home. Someone once told me living with today's woman is like living with a dangerous snake. Now u want to make it two? Well I guess ur a snake charmer.. All the best bros grin
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 6:30pm On Aug 05, 2022
pleboi:
You just sowing troubles and tribulations you gon reap in the future.... If you was my dad and tried that shit I gon blast your balls out with a pump
take am easy na advice I want
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Nobody: 6:32pm On Aug 05, 2022
You got the advice you need... Cus if you got son's half like me then you just sowing troubles
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Medianna(f): 6:40pm On Aug 05, 2022
Trustedapparel:
the lady have support me with 500k when I have money problem
Make we do gather plenty money so that our husband will not be looking for second wife because of money.
God Abeg oo

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Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Truvelisback(m): 7:42pm On Aug 05, 2022
Trustedapparel:
I am a married man with 2kids but their is one big lady that I met she loves me very much ....since I Bleep that lady I can't get my eyes of her ....I have been thinking about her since after the marathon sex we hard last month .... honestly I want to make her my second wife....she has agreed that she will b my second....but some of my family' n friends are not in support of it....she is a very cool lady and very Supportive.....
Can u take care of both? It's not all abt marathon sex. It's abt the responsibilities waiting for u.
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by tayo60(f): 7:49pm On Aug 05, 2022
Trustedapparel:
the lady is very supportive
tell your wife about your decision, if she agrees, fine but if not, don't create problems for yourself o. There's no amount of love your wife has for you, d moment you bring in another woman, your home is divided.

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Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by tee59(f): 8:03pm On Aug 05, 2022
So if you come across another lady that can Bleep and cook best than this second wife, will you marry her too? There's no excuse for marrying her. I pity your life. If you came from polygamous family, you won't think this way. Don't create long lasting problems for your children in future because of your selfish interest. You want to die untimely? Don't try it, it's dangerous.
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by vincenteger: 8:09pm On Aug 05, 2022
Don't allow lust to take away your beautiful family. If becos of bleep you are thinking of taking a second wife then bear in mind that you are not thinking straight rather you are thinking with your d*k.
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Blunttruth: 8:38pm On Aug 05, 2022
Trustedapparel:
the lady have support me with 500k when I have money problem
So she is paying you to betray your wife. Of course she is paying you to arry her, she is desperate. YUL 2.0
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Orgasmgiver123(m): 8:40pm On Aug 05, 2022
You are about to buy yourself a first class flight ticket to the land of free hypertension, double nagging, high blood pressure and unnecessary stress

One woman = one problem
Two women = double trouble untimely death


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Orgasmgiver123(m): 8:42pm On Aug 05, 2022
tee59:
So if you come across another lady that can Bleep and cook best than this second wife, will you marry her too? There's no excuse for marrying her. I pity your life. If you came from polygamous family, you won't think this way. Don't create long lasting problems for your children in future because of your selfish interest. You want to die untimely? Don't try it, it's dangerous.
Damn... you read my mind
We should marry each other
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by isokomarine: 8:42pm On Aug 05, 2022
Nothing is wrong about it, as far you are financially and emotionally capable
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by slan87(m): 8:48pm On Aug 05, 2022
Watch your back man, KAYAMATA is real.
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 5:06am On Aug 06, 2022
isokomarine:
Nothing is wrong about it, as far you are financially and emotionally capable
thanks a lot buddy
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by blinking001(m): 6:03am On Aug 06, 2022
Polygamy is the future. So yeah. You're free provided you're financially capable of taking care of two women and their children.
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by SavageResponse(m): 6:12am On Aug 06, 2022
Trustedapparel:
the lady is very kind and helpful

Go ahead!
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by seunloveporn: 6:40am On Aug 06, 2022
Person wen dey borrow 8k from loan app wan take second wife, because her toto sweet.

Ur story self
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 8:59am On Aug 06, 2022
SavageResponse:


Go ahead!
thanks alot
Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Trustedapparel(m): 9:03am On Aug 06, 2022
isokomarine:
Nothing is wrong about it, as far you are financially and emotionally capable
thanks buddy

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