ojun50:
Start praying harder befor you self start drying up, was he rich befor yr mum sickness?

orohbiro:
My mum has been sick the doctor said she have cancer.
My Dad is very wealthly who owned 2 filling stations and a hotel. My mum is drying up . I also have a brother who look very sick he is drying up too. My mum had a confrontation with my Dad recently asking him why is she reducing ? He also accuse him of cultism . my mum told me that my dad told her not to mention her ailment to anyone when she discovered she had cancer . my Dad is someone that is very high temper who flair at any slight opportunity but I expect all hell to let loose by my mum accusation rather he become more caring to her . he has been avoiding another quarrel since then .

Richy4:
U actually expected your dad to flare up on a sick woman?... Your Dad is smart..He understood the meaning of having a spouse who is suffering from cancer, so he kept his emotions in check..
Things are no longer the same that's what that character he exhibited means..

What you should be doing now is brainstorming with your dad and the doctor on how to save your mum and sibling... Not dwelling on a vulnerable statement of your sick mother..

orohbiro:
someone who take quarelling and flaring with my mum as is daily meal someone who like taking about family issues outside suddenly now said this should be secretive some one who sleep with different young ladies up till this moment boss I don't hate my Dad but I have to check what has been killing our goats before the thing kills me too . we just killed a bat in our sitting room a month ago despite the windows and doors were lock

orohbiro:
yes he was bolut what I notice his siblings are dying every 3 years. Me my self I was terribly I'll by 2017 that I was literally carried to the hospital I could sleep for 5 days good days during that sickness it was very horrible . the point on ground is that nobody is taking my mum serious including myself cause my Dad is holding a position in our church. We confuse

orohbiro:
yes he was bolut what I notice his siblings are dying every 3 years. Me my self I was terribly I'll by 2017 that I was literally carried to the hospital I could sleep for 5 days good days during that sickness it was very horrible . the point on ground is that nobody is taking my mum serious including myself cause my Dad is holding a position in our church. We confuse

Richy4:

<<The doctor diagnosed your mum of having a cancer with medical evidence, Why do you want to toss that fact aside and decide to go with an unfounded and baseless statement?

<<You typed very well.. that shows u were educated... While you were studying in school, and writing assignments, do you provide evidence and facts that convinced your lectures or do you just go ahead and make things up...thing that is unfounded and unconfirmed?...

<<I guess the reasons why people score higher marks in schools was because the lectures knows the proven facts students were presenting before them? They have examined it and knows that it's true... How come the doctor said something with scientific evidence and u decide to take your mother's version?

<<Please try and apply some of the things u learn in school to your everyday life... It will help honestly...You can't say because a bat flew into your home, it was the reason for your mum's illness..you can't know or say when the door or any window got opened... U are not monitoring the opening and closing of every doors and windows in your home 24hrs.. anyone can leave it open within 2mins.. and bat can enter within that 2mins.. it doesn't require ceremony...

<<As for your dad, have you approached him and ask him like a good daughter should Something like dad..; how are u doing ? with genuine interest... He is programmed to tell you that he is fine but... When u say I know you are fine but how are u holding on..?

<< If he's the emotional type, he might burst into tears... Every one expects him to be strong, macho etc.. but what u might fail to know is he's dying inside... He is human...Genuine conversation with your father might actually explain the reason(s) why he chose to keep it hush-hush...

orohbiro:
yes he was bolut what I notice his siblings are dying every 3 years. Me my self I was terribly I'll by 2017 that I was literally carried to the hospital I could sleep for 5 days good days during that sickness it was very horrible . the point on ground is that nobody is taking my mum serious including myself cause my Dad is holding a position in our church. We confuse

chigoziri2403:

During your own illness, what did you do to solve it

orohbiro:
during when I was sick if I told u what happen to me u will think am lying sir in my sick bed a big ant was always beside me anytime I close my eyes fire is what am seeing for before God and man four days in a row I couldn't sleep hospital drugs couldn't heal me. Until my dad came the fifth day to advise me to drink a rich tea that was when I feel asleep for the ist time in 5 days in my dream I saw an angel killing the ant that is when my recovery started. My dad told my mum is family sickness that she should keep it a secret. My mum has Been praying for the past 3 months fervently. After my mum accuse my dad of occultism and accuse him of the cause of her ailment I expect my Dad to either burst out tears and tell we d children what is going on he just kept mute. Mind u my dad is d kind of person who can't even keep d slightest secret

chigoziri2403:


Can't you give your mum the same tea?

If your dad is non responsive, what of your extended family members, someone might be of help

orohbiro:
Sir she can't she might get her self into deeper shit even my immediate ones are not believing her they taught she is going mental but even me too but y will my dad told her no one must hear abt the sickness? Why did he tell her is family sickness? No of us the children is progressing in our family my dad is the only one making it even at old age. Pls I think we need prayers

chigoziri2403:

Who diagnosed your mum of Cancer

orohbiro:
my mum elder bro is a doctor he was d one he is a surgeon

chigoziri2403:
what's your dad's input concerning her health

orohbiro:
always telling my mum.she is getting thin I still feel the sickness is spiritual rather than natural my elder brother who is not in good talking terms with my dad is suffering the same ailment

orohbiro:
always telling my mum.she is getting thin I still feel the sickness is spiritual rather than natural my elder brother who is not in good talking terms with my dad is suffering the same ailment