Is unfaithfulness a justifiable ground to divorce your spouse?

Sure if it's the female that is unfaithful, but if it's the male,it's not a justifiable ground cos the other guy you'll meet may even be worse. Sad tale but that's how it works in this part of the world.

Even the bible Endorses it!

The bible buttresses that, that is the only one reason or count in which the bible says one can divorce, whether man or woman

Arkhin:

Sure if it's the female that is unfaithful, but if it's the male,it's not a justifiable ground cos the other guy you'll meet may even be worse. Sad tale but that's how it works in this part of the world.

Can u imagine, so men have 4 heads abi?

Unfaithfulness is about the only reason why you can divorce your spouse. That said though, if it is something you can and both willing to work on I.e getting counseling etc then, you can try doing that first.

@ Arkhin,
Because the God of women is different from that of men, abi?  
Anyway, the unfair treatment to women 'cos of adultery started from the bible ,however, nobody was clean enough to throw first stone.
@ poster
Biblically, it's justified.But the truth is, it's uncommon to divorce a man on the basis of unfaithfulness, the woman always bears the brunt. It's a man's world, they'll claim. So also is it difficult to call a man a prostitute, even  though it takes two to tangle.

But if you divorce on this ground, you'd better remain single 'cos the next person is likely to be worse, if you care so much, protect your spouse from wolves.

rose~75:

@ Arkhin,
Because the God of women is different from that of men, abi?  
Anyway, the unfair treatment to women 'cos of adultery started from the bible ,however, nobody was clean enough to throw first stone.
@ poster
Biblically, it's justified.But the truth is, it's uncommon to divorce a man on the basis of unfaithfulness, the woman always bears the brunt. It's a man's world, they'll claim. So also is it difficult to call a man a LovePeddler, even  though it takes two to tangle.

But if you divorce on this ground, you'd better remain single 'cos the next person is likely to be worse, if you care so much, protect your spouse from wolves.

@bold
There's no protection you can give to a man who wants to be unfaithful. You'll just go hyper.

Some people have spoken the truth here. If you can, work at it and stay, if you can't cope, bow out. If it's a one-off thing and the man is repentant, then one may consider rebuilding but if you know it's a continous thing, then it's good to choose one of the two options asap.

Arkhin:

Sure if it's the female that is unfaithful, but if it's the male,it's not a justifiable ground cos the other guy you'll meet may even be worse. Sad tale but that's how it works in this part of the world.

See fear mongering.