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When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by MojiDelano(f): 8:54am On May 07, 2015
My very intimate friend was recently at the rough end of a physical assault from her husband. This has been going on for a while and as usual she found it very difficult to tell me because she knows I won't take it well. Her hubby was due to travel back to NIGERIA from the UK and as usual he was packing her designer bags as gifts to his younger sister who by the way was not on speaking terms with my friend. Her mild rejection of his plan which was all the more insulting since he did not take permission from her before just invading her closet got him mad and the beating and blows commenced.

She said this time, she was sure that he meant to kill her. He grabbed tight her throat, planning to choke her, scratched at her face all the while raining blows on her repeatedly screaming, the intervention of her kids and her father could not save her from this hell. When he was done, he left her utterly humiliated and headed for the airport.

To make matters worse, her parents not wanting the humiliation of a divorce are insisting that she should remain a good wife and even go and apologise to the beast for verbally and physically assaulting her.

I love her and remain deeply helpless as I see that this will not end. So I ask, when is it justifiable to beat up a woman or is it ever justifiable to do that?

What advise can I give her. I plan to rescue her but would she be alive by the time I am ready? I am afraid.

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Seun Ishilove TheRealMrStan, Lalasticlala

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by godoluwa(m): 8:57am On May 07, 2015
It's absolutely wrong for a man to beat his wife no matter whatever.

***FTC***
Dedicated to all men that will never beat their wife

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by agarawu23(m): 8:59am On May 07, 2015
never!!!

modified:-
the surprising aspect is the lady will later open her legs for the man who nearly took her life with beating some hours ago.

hmmmmm! marriage is strong and "third" party is not allowed.

beating your wife is totally wrong, they are other ways you can deal with her.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Bevy12(f): 9:01am On May 07, 2015
So wrong and there is absolutely no reason to beat a woman even if she offends you.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Young03(m): 9:02am On May 07, 2015
too bad not good to beat a wife Bt e good to beat a girl when she did wrong

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Young03(m): 9:02am On May 07, 2015
too bad not good to beat a wife Bt e good to beat a girl when she did qrong

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by falconey(m): 9:03am On May 07, 2015
it is so wrong, I did it 4times.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 9:04am On May 07, 2015
I just smh each time I see people talking aggressively and raining curses on guys each time a topic like this arises

Not every guy who lay hands on ladies is happy doing it. Sometimes it just happens unconsciously which might later put you in deep regrets

Sometimes, my mom can be so annoying that she stretches my tolerance to the end point that I feel like engaging in a physical combat with her, just that it's not just possible cheesy

I have never lay hands on ladies and I will never
but I think it can be justifiable depending on the context or situation

Personally, it's very evident to me that many ladies seem to take advantage of the fact that the society kicks against a guy beating a lady, therefore, they ride on you and even do nasty things that warrant beating cos they know that people will rebuke you if you dare try that

My elder brother told me that during his 100L, a lady has once registered a slap on his face in the lecture room just because he missed his steps and accidentally stepped on her sandal. She added another slap even when he said "sorry"... in that case, if he retaliated, would you call him a misogynist ?

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:06am On May 07, 2015
falconey:
it is so wrong, I did it 4times.

So ur woman beater .. I go divorce u ohh lol tongue

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by loomer: 9:08am On May 07, 2015
The moment u de ready to go jail

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Iaz93: 9:08am On May 07, 2015
The only reason you should have for laying your hands on your woman is if she attacks you. Or if your babe carry your school fee go make her hair. Any other reason is not acceptable.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:11am On May 07, 2015
loomer:
The moment u de ready to go jail

Lol innit

But it doesnt apply to nigerians .. No law .. So no jail

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by loomer: 9:13am On May 07, 2015
Lala247:


Lol innit

But it doesnt apply to nigerians .. No law .. So no jail

That's the sad part of it all.

But until such laws are put in place and implemented, it will always be a gud day to beat a woman

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:15am On May 07, 2015
If she deserve beating. I will not think twice to give her the thing. no time to play.

There is no point in reserving something someone deserves.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by OohMpa: 9:16am On May 07, 2015
There are only 2 instances you have to beat women or you not a man angry

1) When she giving you the double jerk and suck combination and you got one eye closed and the other looking ceiling and floor same time. You come dey viblate like Nokia 3310 about to lerease akamu and she remove mouth sad
The black eye must be veli veli permanent angry angry

2) When she on top riding with that big batty. You beat nyash, left right, left right. Yummmm Yummm angry

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by dejt4u(m): 9:17am On May 07, 2015
falconey:
it is so wrong, I did it 4times.
pls neva do it again..

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:17am On May 07, 2015
The woman believes she is a good wife by chopping nonsense, obeying her parents. How can you be good to others and bad to yourself?

I guess spanking is ok if the woman likes it.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by dejt4u(m): 9:19am On May 07, 2015
tosyne2much:
In as much as I have lay hands on ladies and I will never

That aside, I think it can be justifiable. Many ladies seem to take advantage of the fact that the society kicks against a guy beating a lady

During 100L, my brother told me a lady have once registered a slap on his face in the lecture room just because he missed his steps and stepped on her sandal. She added another slap even when he said "sorry"... in that case, it can be justifiable if the guy retaliate
lol @ d bolded.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:20am On May 07, 2015
loomer:


That's the sad part of it all.

But until such laws are put in place and implemented, it will always be a gud day to beat a woman

Before that type of law would happen .. First running tap water, electricity, good roads... They wont think women getting beat up is top on that list so i doubt it .

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by loomer: 9:22am On May 07, 2015
Lala247:


Before that type of law would happen .. First running tap water, electricity, good roads... They wont think women getting beat up is top on that list so i doubt it .

Lol, that is if they even have a list self

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:23am On May 07, 2015
Bevy12:
So wrong and there is absolutely no reason to beat a woman even if she offends you.
may i know why?

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:29am On May 07, 2015
loomer:


Lol, that is if they even have a list self

Lol i tire for our ppl sha
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by loomer: 9:31am On May 07, 2015
Lala247:


Lol i tire for our ppl sha

Anyway, I no see reason why a man should hit a woman.

While growing up, I no ever see my papa hit my mama no matter the provocation, and me don ask God to give me the grace nevr to hit a woman.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by TheSonOfMark(m): 9:33am On May 07, 2015
Bevy12:
So wrong and there is absolutely no reason to beat a woman even if she offends you.

Miss, for all the chivalrous attributes I possess, if a woman hits me first I'll hit her back in the same way she did to me. No apologies whatsoeversmiley.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:37am On May 07, 2015
MojiDelano:
My very intimate friend was recently at the rough end of a physical assault from her husband. This has been going on for a while and as usual she found it very difficult to tell me because she knows I won't take it well. Her hubby was due to travel back to NIGERIA from the UK and as usual he was packing her designer bags as gifts to his younger sister who by the way was not on speaking terms with my friend. Her mild rejection of his plan which was all the more insulting since he did not take permission from her before just invading her closet got him mad and the beating and blows commenced.

She said this time, she was sure that he meant to kill her. He grabbed tight her throat, planning to choke her, scratched at her face all the while raining blows on her repeatedly screaming, the intervention of her kids and her father could not save her from this hell. When he was done, he left her utterly humiliated and headed for the airport.

To make matters worse, her parents not wanting the humiliation of a divorce are insisting that she should remain a good wife and even go and apologise to the beast for verbally and physically assaulting her.

I love her and remain deeply helpless as I see that this will not end. So I ask, when is it justifiable to beat up a woman or is it ever justifiable to do that?

What advise can I give her. I plan to rescue her but would she be alive by the time I am ready? I am afraid.

http://josephedgarng..com/2015/05/when-is-it-justifiable-to-beat-woman.html

Seun Ishilove TheRealMrStan, Lalasticlala
when she stops being a woman
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by falconey(m): 9:39am On May 07, 2015
Lala247:


So ur woman beater .. I go divorce u ohh lol tongue

I was.

No be only you get nyash and breast.........my market go sell.

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:39am On May 07, 2015
When it is justifiable to beat your MOTHER!!!!

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by DonaldGenes(m): 9:39am On May 07, 2015
...When she you cums before you twice

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by sammieguze(m): 9:39am On May 07, 2015
Self defense only. IMO

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by kayboy4y(m): 9:40am On May 07, 2015
It's not justifiable at all. Beating your wife is a sign of irresponsibility. #NOTOBEATINGWOMEN

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Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by WisdomCanada(m): 9:40am On May 07, 2015
No time

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