Stargurl20:

You made sense, my sis, however, physical attraction isn't the most significant, even though it cannot be overemphasized, other things are also important. Men get tired of these physical things in the long run. Even women as well

UyaiIncomparabl:


But, it's important. I can't date who I don't find physically attractive. After the peace, comes the sheets . Peace won't make me wet and long for you under the sheets.

I should be able to look at my man and get turned on. It's easier that way than marrying who is not my spec.

Mind you, it's why I said compatibility and mutual respect should be emphasised first before anything else. Should these be lacking, it's already a sinking sand no matter how curvy or handsome a man is.

Stargurl20:

But sis, unlike men, we ladies cannot always get what we want o

UyaiIncomparabl:


This is already self-limiting. You can have anything you want, but not everything and that is because human is not perfect. It's why compromise comes into the picture. We ALL will make compromises one way or another. However, that compromise should not be made on physical attraction.

Jackofall:
I have always been very attracted to women with big ass, I just can't help it. I don't know why I'm like that, I just love it.

So there is this girl I have known for long, she has big ass and we both like each other. Although there are some things about her that I don't like, she isn't intellectual, and she is religious (she is like a pastor in her church).

I know physical attraction shouldn't be the only thing I should love out for in a woman, but all the ladies I have dated, the ones I enjoyed most are those with either big ass or big boobs

Am I making a mistake? Will I regret it in future if I marry a woman because of her big ass?

Greatdand007:

Wow you really nailed it this reason I don’t date big butt ladies tho I like them

Jackofall:
I have always been very attracted to women with big ass, I just can't help it. I don't know why I'm like that, I just love it.

So there is this girl I have known for long, she has big ass and we both like each other. Although there are some things about her that I don't like, she isn't intellectual, and she is religious (she is like a pastor in her church).

I know physical attraction shouldn't be the only thing I should love out for in a woman, but all the ladies I have dated, the ones I enjoyed most are those with either big ass or big boobs

Am I making a mistake? Will I regret it in future if I marry a woman because of her big ass?

Richy4:
I double checked to see if I was at the wrong section or if it was still family section..
However,U are not making a mistake.. Go ahead and may the gods be with you

crackhaus:
Fat/thick/large bum women have what I call the grip-effect

NoToPile:

I taya honestly

Ilekokonit:

The grip effect though good, does wear out after max 2 kids unless kids were born by cesarean. In any case even if the grip lasts forever and the woman is a demon then no man will stay with such a demon for grips sake.

UyaiIncomparabl:


This is already self-limiting. You can have anything you want, but not everything and that is because human is not perfect. It's why compromise comes into the picture. We ALL will make compromises one way or another. However, that compromise should not be made on physical attraction.

Channah1:
I didn't want to contribute to this useless topic but seeing what a responsible married man commented down there about his wife. I decided to chip in this.

Now, majority of you who clamour for big bum fail to realize that they get bigger and out of shape with time. Even the small sized ones will also get bigger with time. Look at Rihanna. Just after one and she's looking this big; to think she used to look petit before now.
So if you're judging a woman by shape and size, then you're getting it all wrong because all that will change and very quickly before you know it.

My worry in this kind of thing is, it's the slim and short guys that always want the big butt women. Forgetting that it will get to a time you won't be able to satisfy her any longer as she'll become too thick for your tiny, short or slim frame. Una no dey pity una self.

A little secret here.. a big butt lady once disclosed to my elder sister that they prefer men that are muscular and strong with big gbola. Not even an average size o because it doesn't satisfy them and since then, I've been observing girls with big butt are usually selective and particular about a mans P size. So if you know you're not that strong with the right size, don't even deceive yourself because she may not even agree to marry you and if does out of desperation, she'll cheat on you without remorse. Na me tell you.

Anyways, go for it if that is all marriage is to you. However, I think you need counseling from mature and experienced people on what marriage is truly about.

Teaveapoet:
I am reading this post and am laughing � and I am trying not to believe this is true.
Haa, don't play with fire ooh. Marriage is not bread and butter, It can be frustrating at times when you can provide, and misunderstanding can happen if you're not mature to handle some intelligent conversation but getting married because of a physical attribute is a no-no. with time that buttock will not be attractive anymore... That innocent-looking church girl will turn Margaret Thatcher For the sake of your sanity. I repeat don't try it. And for the sake of your own family, don't marry because of physical features.

MadarasBlade:


Just say you don't have big bums.

UyaiIncomparabl:


This is already self-limiting. You can have anything you want, but not everything and that is because human is not perfect. It's why compromise comes into the picture. We ALL will make compromises one way or another. However, that compromise should not be made on physical attraction.

Jackofall:
I have always been very attracted to women with big ass, I just can't help it. I don't know why I'm like that, I just love it.

So there is this girl I have known for long, she has big ass and we both like each other. Although there are some things about her that I don't like, she isn't intellectual, and she is religious (she is like a pastor in her church).

I know physical attraction shouldn't be the only thing I should love out for in a woman, but all the ladies I have dated, the ones I enjoyed most are those with either big ass or big boobs

Am I making a mistake? Will I regret it in future if I marry a woman because of her big ass?

frozen70:


Honestly, there is nothing wrong with your choice of woman

God created women with different body shapes because he knows that he created men with different desires for women

tobore4u:
good morning ma!

Happy Sunday...may your week be blessed.

Karleb:


You should understand where this woman is coming from.

A lot of women will not get what they want as per physical attraction because they don't have what to attract it. At least, men can attract with money.

I'm sure a lot of people here who feel the big butt isn't important either do not have it or are married to someone who does not have it.

Sometimes I wonder why people settle for maturity in a partner, this is something a good chunk of people have. Big butt is not so common tho.

crackhaus:

Bro, don't let that chic deceive you oo...
She was obviously typing all that because she herself may not have a big bum — a very educated guess.

I can tell you for a fact that women with slim/slender frames are the ones that require men with larger c0cks.

Fat/thick/large bum women have what I call the grip-effect – more flesh on their arsé, more muscles around their pelvis, more fat around their vulva, all contribute to ensure that their püssy grip is tighter.

There may be very few exceptions to the above however.

Ilekokonit:


The grip effect though good, does wear out after max 2 kids unless kids were born by cesarean. In any case even if the grip lasts forever but the woman is a demon then no man will stay with such a demon for grips sake.