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Re: Should Marriage End Up On The Ground Of Childlessness? by culf: 7:16pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Klass99: ahh, awesome! Learning from others mistakes saves one from painful experiences. I wish everyone will follow this path but then a lot are not. I know people that their marriage is not up to 3 years and the lady is running from one place to another, injections after another, player house to another and the funny part is the husband is not disturbing her, neither their parents. she won't listen to anything you tell her. Honestly I don't believe that a guy that genuinely love a lady will ask her to get pregnant before marriage, that means the pregnancy is the only reason for the marriage (that is if at all the marriage proposal is true) so what happens after they stopped giving birth - end of marriage certainly. Most time those guys are not sincere, even after getting pregnant it will still not work. its unfortunate some people believe that marriage is just to produce children. I have a neighbour that told me that after getting pregnant during dating, they quickly did traditional and the husband promise her white wedding after child birth. That baby is about 4 years now but no more wedding. Her dream of wearing a wedding gown is becoming like a mirage. insincere people everywhere 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should Marriage End Up On The Ground Of Childlessness? by Klass99(f): 7:32pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
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Re: Should Marriage End Up On The Ground Of Childlessness? by culf: 7:32pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Klass99: Imagine what she have to go through, she can't even say it on air, to tell you the level she had gone or what she had done. Naaaa! And some people still make this mistake, a lot of people really not just some, are still following that path. These days if a couple wants children desperately and can't wait, they are better ways to go about it but some won't even if they can afford it. God bless my bro with a child after 13years through IVF (second attempt though, first one failed), which to me is better than running from one place to another. I pray people will be more enlightened and stop all these unnecessary pressures they are putting themselves through 1 Like |
Re: Should Marriage End Up On The Ground Of Childlessness? by Klass99(f): 7:44pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
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Re: Should Marriage End Up On The Ground Of Childlessness? by GboyegaD(m): 7:46pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
The issue is different people go into marriage for different reasons and once they are not aligned, this is bound to happen. |
Re: Should Marriage End Up On The Ground Of Childlessness? by culf: 7:51pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Klass99: kai, she for no gree! its mostly scam honestly. (your choice of song though.... funny). I believe that is what they wanted, a child but had to deceive the ladies to agree. I know a seniour guy back then over 15years ago that told me if he can see a Lady to give birth to 1 or 2 kids for him, he won't marry. his is sincere about his own, till date he is not married. its better to be open to the lady than lie to then, some won't even mind (its not everybody that wants marriage) Rather than shatter someone's dream because of selfish abi wickedness self. for my neighbour, we are no longer that close like before, though its something she really want but the way it's going...I don't want to sound negative. They are even having serious issues now self. I earnestly pray God will help them to resolve their issues and bring her dream to fulfillment 1 Like |
Re: Should Marriage End Up On The Ground Of Childlessness? by culf: 8:03pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Richy4: its annoying really. I don't know why but for some reasons, I happen to know quite a number of couple married for years without any baby yet. If you see how some of these ladies stress life out of themselves ehhh, not like anyone is pressurising them. let me give you a funny one, a friend of mine, before marriage (though everything is set for marriage) was running from one place to another with fear, that all these years and during her courtship with her guy, she didn't take in for once, hmmmm come see fear. she was taking all manner of concoction, seeking help where they is none, person wey never marry self ooo. to cut long story short, in gave birth about a year into her marriage, just imagine. |
Re: Should Marriage End Up On The Ground Of Childlessness? by culf: 8:22pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Klass99: Amen oooo. for my bro, prayer houses or running around is a big NO. She won't even try it( unless secretly), he was very particular about that with her and supported her all through the way. Its Her own family that wanted to disturb but my bro didn't give them the opportunity to do so. awesome. I have seen a couple that have their child after 27 years, my lecturer then. Patience with ones partner has nothing to do with tribe, afterall its none of their fault, even if one have problem, the other is suppose to stick by. onces their is genuine love between both parties, trust me, no one can come between them. I'm happy for them too, what God cannot do does not exist. we should appreciate the wife too, some would have gone out to give the man 4 to 5 bastards already, God forgive me ooo. I love happy ending stories (testimonies) like this one. |
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