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ninety5:
First off, please disregard any previous post I had made, I am not married, just wanted to know how people just sit and compose a lie without a single remorse, you could sense the sacarsm in my voice. Regret it though, I can't delete the posts.

Why I am here, and please pardon the word "oddball" if you are like me and it strikes you differently.

I just clocked 30, been told I am different for most of my adulthood, but don't see it that way, I just think I don't always follow the masses some of the time, at the end of the day, we are all different to some levels.

Some of these supposed differences are,
1. I am an apatheist, don't give the slightest fork about religion, but I do respect everyone's religion, and will have a meaningful convo with you if you are willing. This has a lot of effects on me as a person, don't trouble no one and would take no trouble from anyone, a reason I don't want to have children, just me and my partner. Still choose not to end up with a religious person though, I might be sure not to cause a religious war, I don't know about her. Not like a real religiou war, like atheists vs christians or musilims vs ifa worshippers, I mean family religious war.
2. I am a die-hard introvert, a bigger reason people like me can't find a compatible partner, I might be wrong anyway. Wouldn't say shiit in public. Believe that every relationship should be meticulously gone into, no matter the type.
3. I try my forking best to make sense of almost everything, so I tend to daydream a lot and do what makes me happy.

With stuff like these, I don't always get to meet people like me, how do you do it?

Stephen0mozzy:


You've technically just described me 95% [excluding the vulgarities sha] - still I have one of the most amazing partner (we ain't married yet tho).


Irrespective of your personality type... Being real will always attract someone who will understand you.... Also, be respectful about your stance on such things as faith/belief. My lady knows I have a kind of religion in me.. But not as she'll want me to.... However she sees how I treat her and other people.. So religion is hardly a discussion.

I can tell you where you'll not meet the kind of people you want....
Your kind of partner is not in the club/bar/camera-freak-thusiast

They could be at conferences/seminars/online spaces where intellect dwarfs b00ty....

lebuhsi:
so basically you're telling the world you're a sigma male ai?

Templee333:
You can as well 4get abt marriage & spare urself some stress. Marriage is a very old institution,it's not for the modern world!

ninety5:
Lol, or better still I could just stop putting on clothes since it is a social construct rather than a basic need to survive.

Lilsameey:
You just described me . It's just hard sha, fr, I don't even bother looking for a partner except she's someone like me, And the mentality of most people out there made things worst, The work I do too contribute mostly to my introverted nature.

ninety5:

Just hearing of this for the first time and after some research, I found out that it virtually describes me.

Templee333:
oh yea! Absolutely,that would help a lot.Hope u understand that apes don't wear clothes but they live.