12 inches!:


And what the girl he eventually falls in love in is not a virgin. Or leme ask @ranti a simple question. Can u marry or date a girl who is not a virgin? Oya answer....You people are so out of touch with reality. Typical of nigerians sha...Always paying lipservice. Get real

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He aint tellin u he wAnts ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin do or die ...cos well he can't tell ε̲̣̣̣̥ he Is ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin 'xcpt dat'. J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ kiddn aniwai..virginty Is ɑ̤̥̈̊ good fin but not necessarily ɑ̤̥̈̊ wife criteria, that was why  included 'virtous'which i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ my opinion is of greater importance.well ɑ̤̥̈̊ man marryin ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin Is majorly luck  ɑ̤̥̈̊ gift from God..whoever finds Ȋ̝̊̅† Is fortunate

onila: its a sin 2 have sex before marriage

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He aint tellin u he wAnts ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin do or die ...cos well he can't tell ε̲̣̣̣̥ he Ȋ̝̊̅s ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin 'xcpt dat'. J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ kiddn aniwai..virginty Ȋ̝̊̅s ɑ̤̥̈̊ good fin but not necessarily ɑ̤̥̈̊ wife criteria, that was why  included 'virtous'which i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ my opinion is of greater importance.well ɑ̤̥̈̊ man marryin ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin Ȋ̝̊̅s majorly luck  ɑ̤̥̈̊ gift from God..whoever finds Ȋ̝̊̅† Ȋ̝̊̅s fortunate

swiftycool: @Ranti
Oh ok I get it. From all the arguments I can deduce that virgins are urged to just protect their hymen becos society expects that of them in order to wade of stds and emotional trauma.

But riddle me this like one self acclaimed virgin on some old nairaland thread who says she gives and gets head, gets 4uckd up d arse by various guys but never let's a man penetrate her kitty; how does she escape the emotional trauma or std. She's still a technically "virteous virgin" and deserves Ranti's respect right?

Bro. I like ur point of view, but I asure u if u have seen some virgins behind d curtains like some of us guys have, I promise u would have a change of mind and agree with me Virginity is Overrated!

Ranti Fadahunsi:

Pally, a pure virgin keeps herself until marriage (herself...HERSELF - not part of herself). The ones you see behind the curtains are not pure virgins. If you have sex through the anus, you are technically no longer a virgin. In fact, that is freaking disgusting I dont want to think about it. A VIRGIN KEEPS HERSELF.

rokiatu:
You are a guy? Oh wow you just won a fan in me.

ayosmiles: my daughter will be free to decide what she wants when she is old enough whether to b sexualy active or otherwise. I don't detest virgins i just don't place a value on it. Ur being a virgin will not make me want u if u lack good manners nd stop paintin nonvirgins as indisciplined or lose. what does sex have to do with discipline. A lose girl is one with multiple sx partners nd unhealthy sexual attitudes like not usin contraceptives. U can be a nonvirgin nd be more disciplined. Its just like sayin because too much sugar causes pile u now say sugar is bad. Dude d only way u can win dis argument is to use religion nd culture, and both are created by human beings.

ayosmiles: U just won't get it. Virginity is not what makes u successful in life. Look at d most successful women in d world. Havin pleasure does not mean u are not responsible. Do hilary nd merkel have to be virgins b4 they got there. Stay there and don't live life 2 d fullest. Gals keep self servicin in ur closet while more socialy conscious folks enjoy their lives with wisdom nd live good lives. The world is changin, pls stay yoked to tradition. Just don't wake up 2morow nd say u have missed nd ur life is borin

12 inches!:


And what the girl he eventually falls in love in is not a virgin. Or leme ask @ranti a simple question. Can u marry or date a girl who is not a virgin? Oya answer....You people are so out of touch with reality. Typical of nigerians sha...Always paying lipservice. Get real

OILOFGLADNESS: my fellow babes, its a very good experience to marry as a virgin, i have heard 101 goodnews on that, your husband will give 100% respect and in turn you will ever give him 100% and love cos he is the only one that made you enjoy that which God designed for couples.

PEOPLE WHO HAS LOOSED THEI VIRGINITY WILL ALWAYS BE LOOKING FOR CONVERTS" CAUSE THEY ARE JEALOUS, THEY WILL NEVER GIVE YOU ANY GOOD ADVERSE, MEN THAT HAD DISVIRGIN A LOT WILL NEVER CHERISH IT COS ITS NEVER A NEW THING TO THEM.

THEY WILL ALWAYS TELL YOU THAY YOU ARE DECEIVING YOUR SELF, YOU ARE WAISTING YOUR TIME, YOU ARE NOT GETING YOUNGER, YOU ARE MISSING A LOT,BLA BLA BLA BLA, BLAAAAAAAAAAAA........., ALL LIES DONT MIND THEM, THEY ARE JUST JEALOUSOOOOOO.
KEEP IT, GUIDE IT, DONT TAMPER WITH, SO THAT IT WILL BE VALUED AT THE RIGHT TIME, CHEEEEEEEEERRRRRRRRRRRSSSSSSSSSSSS
tnks lady!

swiftycool:
Hahahaha so my argument is right u could get married to a virgin who is exactly like the one I described and there is NO way on Earth u can check, after all the precious hymen is there, ur not thinking about it doesn't let the fact go away!

Virginity doesn't prove sh*t because most are secretly PROMISCOUS VIRGINS! Who are involved in stuff as I described and if u found out this about them won't u rather prefer an honest "virteous" non-virgin to that?! If u think am lying get to find out if the virgins who have boyfriends around u or if their bf wud confess. Remember spermz can enter a woman by 3ways not just 1!

Yes there R some all round good ones but many more are not worth it cos even though their hymen is intact they R sluttier in every other way than many non virgins which u cannot check, therefore I still maintain my argument- OVERRATED!!!

OILOFGLADNESS: my fellow babes, its a very good experience to marry as a virgin, i have heard 101 goodnews on that, your husband will give 100% respect and in turn you will ever give him 100% and love cos he is the only one that made you enjoy that which God designed for couples.

PEOPLE WHO HAS LOOSED THEI VIRGINITY WILL ALWAYS BE LOOKING FOR CONVERTS" CAUSE THEY ARE JEALOUS, THEY WILL NEVER GIVE YOU ANY GOOD ADVERSE, MEN THAT HAD DISVIRGIN A LOT WILL NEVER CHERISH IT COS ITS NEVER A NEW THING TO THEM.

THEY WILL ALWAYS TELL YOU THAY YOU ARE DECEIVING YOUR SELF, YOU ARE WAISTING YOUR TIME, YOU ARE NOT GETING YOUNGER, YOU ARE MISSING A LOT,BLA BLA BLA BLA, BLAAAAAAAAAAAA........., ALL LIES DONT MIND THEM, THEY ARE JUST JEALOUSOOOOOO.
KEEP IT, GUIDE IT, DONT TAMPER WITH, SO THAT IT WILL BE VALUED AT THE RIGHT TIME, CHEEEEEEEEERRRRRRRRRRRSSSSSSSSSSSS

ayosmiles: perhaps u do not know d meanin of virtues. A virtue is a positive behaviour connected with a deep,good, basic quality. Love, faith, honesty, paitience r all virtues because they are constant positive qualities. Any attitude that proofs any of these is also a virtue. Virginity does not proof that u have any of these virtues, it doesn't even proof u are disciplined cos u can leave ur hymen intact nd be recievin joysticks in ur mouth nd behind. Please use ur head, its meant 4 thinkin.

ayosmiles: perhaps u do not know d meanin of virtues. A virtue is a positive behaviour connected with a deep,good, basic quality. Love, faith, honesty, paitience r all virtues because they are constant positive qualities. Any attitude that proofs any of these is also a virtue. Virginity does not proof that u have any of these virtues, it doesn't even proof u are disciplined cos u can leave ur hymen intact nd be recievin joysticks in ur mouth nd behind. Please use ur head, its meant 4 thinkin.

justsmile:

my dear....... so enjoying life and having good pleasure is all about sex?!!! ..... hmmmmm.... if u say so! but jus tnote that there is far more to life than sex!!! just b'cos a single says no to sex does not mean that his/her life is boring! enough said!

ayosmiles: u got me wrong. Living a good life is not connected to virginity just as its not dependent on sex alone. I did not imply dat life is all about sex.

itunu_07:

Well, only ɑ̤̥̈̊n easy fool would believe such ɑ̤̥̈̊ woman Is still ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin D̶̲̥̅̊☺n̶̲̥̅̊'t forget its not confirmed unless its broken.if ɑ̤̥̈̊ woman can have sex i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the ass or mouth i seee no reason why she can't do Ȋ̝̊̅† i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the right place, just dosnt make sense cos there aint no sense of moral i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ her. ☺n̶̲̥̅̊ this point Is where i readily disagree with Ranti ' virgins Är€ not necessarially the best people around'. Frankly  kinda prefer ɑ̤̥̈̊ couple of my non-virgin frinds Τ̅☺ some virgin ones for some reasons. What we should celebrate i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin aint the presence of the hymen, but the drive, attitude, απϑ vigour that propells such decisions like rising above societal pressures απϑ the rest..

itunu_07:

Well, only ɑ̤̥̈̊n easy fool would believe such ɑ̤̥̈̊ woman Ȋ̝̊̅s still ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin D̶̲̥̅̊☺n̶̲̥̅̊'t forget its not confirmed unless its broken.if ɑ̤̥̈̊ woman can have sex i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the ass or mouth i seee no reason why she can't do Ȋ̝̊̅† i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the right place, just dosnt make sense cos there aint no sense of moral i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ her. ☺n̶̲̥̅̊ this point Ȋ̝̊̅s where i readily disagree with Ranti ' virgins Är€ not necessarially the best people around'. Frankly  kinda prefer ɑ̤̥̈̊ couple of my non-virgin frinds Τ̅☺ some virgin ones for some reasons. What we should celebrate i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin aint the presence of the hymen, but the drive, attitude, απϑ vigour that propells such decisions like rising above societal pressures απϑ the rest..

Ranti Fadahunsi:

I agree. Being a virgin does not mean that you are humble, nice, kind, etc etc. But means you respect yourself not to go about messing up your life, toying with unnecessary risks. When I say they are the best I mean it from the point of view that though they are not perfect and nobody is perfect, they have a solid foundation of discipline and self control (in spite of societal pressures that they can build on. Proverbs 16:32 says Better to be patient than powerful; better to have self-control than to conquer a city. A babe who has self control is the best because though she is not perfect, when she learns new habits, new approaches, new ideas, her self control and discipline will help her use them effectively. Nobody is perfect. But if you have the right potential, you can keep on growing. I still maintain virgins are the best. Give me a virgin and I will teach her new and biblical wisdom, and I guarantee you, she will be second to none. Keep your virginity babes till you marry . You will never regret it.

El Guapo: In movies and even in conversations between friends there is a lot of debate about whether or not one should attempt to sleep with a virgin, or even seek them out. Men are generally much more interested in the experience than women are, but there are a lot of people who are interested in sleeping with someone who is not at all sexually experienced. Before you seek out someone who is a virgin you should consider some reasons that you may not want to have sex with someone who is a virgin. While it might seem like a great idea right now, after you consider these facts you might want to think again or at least think about who it is that you are considering sleeping with.

1. They are not sexually experienced. If you like good sex you may find that sex with someone who is not experienced is not at all good. The reason for this is that they don’t have the experience that is needed to be a good lover. While they may have good intentions you may find that their movements in the sack are pretty darn awkward.

2. There is the potential for them to freak out a bit. Losing your virginity is a pretty big deal in the eyes of most people, and for this reason you may want to avoid sleeping with someone who is a virgin. They may have a little emotional melt down before, during, and even after the sexual experience. If you don’t want front row seats to such a freak out, you are better off leaving all of the sexually inexperienced alone!

3. Chances are that the person that you sleep with who is a virgin will become attached to you. Unless you are serious about this person and don’t mind them becoming emotionally attached to you, you should probably avoid being the person that they lose their virginity to. Not only will they become attached to you, you will always have 1st place in their sexual history.

These are some pretty important reasons that you shouldn’t sleep with a virgin. At the very least, you should look over these facts and really consider whether or not being with someone who is a virgin is the right move for you, and them. When you are dealing with someone who is just not all that experienced with sex it can just cause a lot of different problems. You may find that there is a whirlwind of emotional and physical things to deal with that you just aren’t ready to deal with, at least not with this specific person. Think before you act, no matter how cool the idea seems to you.

itunu_07:

Well, only ɑ̤̥̈̊n easy fool would believe such ɑ̤̥̈̊ woman Is still ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin D̶̲̥̅̊☺n̶̲̥̅̊'t forget its not confirmed unless its broken.if ɑ̤̥̈̊ woman can have sex i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the ass or mouth i seee no reason why she can't do Ȋ̝̊̅† i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the right place, just dosnt make sense cos there aint no sense of moral i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ her. ☺n̶̲̥̅̊ this point Is where i readily disagree with Ranti ' virgins Är€ not necessarially the best people around'. Frankly  kinda prefer ɑ̤̥̈̊ couple of my non-virgin frinds Τ̅☺ some virgin ones for some reasons. What we should celebrate i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ ɑ̤̥̈̊ virgin aint the presence of the hymen, but the drive, attitude, απϑ vigour that propells such decisions like rising above societal pressures απϑ the rest..