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Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 6:25pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Hello nairalanders, am searching for a job,am yet to see one as i want to be financially stable.my mom came and ask me this question about my suitors,am like marriage is the last thing on my mind now.what do you guys think. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Unzerious: 6:27pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Depends on your Age but, nice choice 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by HRHQueenPhil(f): 7:46pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Yemialade: Why wld u tell ur mother dat? Pls stop dat U are getting married this December 2022 so prepare urself and start making preparations spiritually and physically and mentally
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Re: Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 7:53pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil:i just told her right now its a job i need. Abeg i no wan marry this december o |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by HRHQueenPhil(f): 7:55pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Yemialade: So if Holy Spirit brings the two together nko..are u saying u can't handle it.., I don't like how u're underestimating GOD..mind yaself |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 8:04pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil:lolz If holy spirit bought the two together i go handle am with my full chest.2 in 1 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Kobojunkie: 8:19pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Yemialade:Please do not let anyone blackmail you into getting married without first having your feet set squarely on the ground. Your mother wey dey talk, na she go come bail you out when your suitor-turned-husband starts treating you as though a liability? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 8:27pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Marriage na turn by turn sef,i dont want to be pressured into it.i feel lyk my friends are getting married but i know what i want as i would want to support my spouse financially also. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Kobojunkie: 8:31pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Yemialade:Support your spouse financially or contribute financially to your marriage and family? Marriage is best when planned well by both man and woman from the beginning. So many allow their hormones and urges drive them into marriage only to find themselves stuck trying to make the best out of what was a terrible decision from the beginning. Don't end up like them and don't be deceived by how nicely they look from the outside, more than half of those in marriage are living miserable existence but will rarely utter a word about it for shame. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 8:43pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:one pattern i saw was people got married get kids and go into debt borrowing loans to suistain d family. |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Kobojunkie: 8:54pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Yemialade:.... and then the expectation is that somehow those kids will grow up and help pay off all those debts. Essentially, they are birthed and enlisted as slaves in the process that is called marriage. Please make better decisions so you don't end up another statistics in your own life. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by baralatie(m): 8:55pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Make sure you have suitors o! Meanwhile it is not a pressure something At the same time it is not when you have become a millionaire before you start planning for a home Prayer is key 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Acidosis(m): 9:12pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Yemialade: There is no link whatsoever between your need for a job and your desire for marriage. Is there any law that says you can't get a job once you're married? Stop putting the two needs (if at all you need both) on the same scale. Job will always come and go. A job is nothing but a means to an end and not an end in itself. And what is this thing you guys call "financial stability" sef? Do you know what is means to be financially stable? Having a job (or job security) is not the same as being financially stable. How many Nigerians can survive a year without their salary? That's how to know those who are financially stable and those who aren't. So ask yourself; are you willing to go through the process of financial stability before you consider the need for a spouse? 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 9:17pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
baralatie:am not waiting to be a millionaire,before i start accepting suitors o. |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 9:22pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Acidosis:True talk.thanks.i have a business online though. |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Acidosis(m): 9:23pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Yemialade: You mean this online business on your profile? I help small business earn $1000 within 30days |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 9:25pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Do u mean they pay the parents loan? i dont get |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Kobojunkie: 9:26pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Yemialade:Look around you here on nairaland at all the stories of parents not meeting their obligations to their ward. |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Lonestar124: 9:35pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
I will advice you to accept any suitor that come your way, this life is mysterious, you may not understand now until you learn a lesson... Listen to me and your mother that are talking from experiences.... Every customer that come to patronize your wares at the opening of your shop, should not be allow to leave the shop, you must try much to compelled him to buy from you at that particular time..... 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 9:52pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Acidosis:Yea affiliate marketing. |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Rubbiish(m): 8:10am On Aug 30, 2022 |
Lonestar124:@ Yemialade listen to the bold words This is where a lot of girls miss it. Once u miss that particular suitor, u may get a good job but find it hard to get a suitor. I know someone suffering from this. It is better to get married as a lady & continue searching for job, than to get a job & continue searching for suitor. Listen to ur mom. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Ego2(f): 8:40am On Aug 30, 2022 |
@op listen to your mum, jobs will come and go but loneliness will be outta or for you.. good thing you've got your business and you could get something else doing.... trust me you don't want to experience the true meaning of loneliness . Wish I had listened to my mum . 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by boxer022(m): 11:56am On Aug 30, 2022 |
I am not discouraging you from trying to achieve your goals of getting a job before settling down, but I want to ask a very important question. Don't get me wrong and don't be annoyed oh, but do you have a boyfriend or in a serious relationship? If yes, what is he talking about marriage or haven't you discussed the future with him? If on the other hand you are single and searching or not searching, you need to ensure that suitors are coming your way. My reason for saying this is so that you will not regret your decision or get gainfully employed and not been able to find a good home for yourself. Thanks. |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Esthered: 2:45pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
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Re: Marriage In This Economy by Channah1(f): 2:46pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Lol.. marry na!!!.. I just see the way some girls itch for marriage like it the next best thing. If there's money, fine but if not, mhennn marriage is not rice and beans o. Serious work. Apart from the financial responsibilities which is already draining on its own, The demanding aspect of it both physically and mentally will leave you wondering if you made the right decision. I still believe marriage should be throughly given a serious thought through and through before diving into it. One must be very ready, financially, physical, mentally and emotionally otherwise it'll look like a difficult task. Iv been observing a lot of marriages these days and they don't seem interesting. Just a bunch of responsibilities and piles of duties. Don't let anyone push you into what you're not ready for. Not even your mother. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by crackhaus: 3:00pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
You guys are funny. Here's a young woman who desires to have something doing for herself before venturing into a marriage and becoming a burden on a man, and y'all are encouraging her to not have personal ambitions. Na wa... 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Acidosis(m): 3:05pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Esthered: Thank you, mama. Please check your email. |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Yemialade(f): 3:34pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Thanks everyone,each comments meant a lot,i aspire to be like beyonce,that is the cecebrity power couple i love and want something like that too .beyonce put her marriage together and builds something beautiful yet still her marriage and career grew.been a wife and mom does not stop her from her dream. I want to be ready mentally,emotionally,pychologically,spiritually for marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:55pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Acidosis: Would you marry a jobless woman without a penny of her own? |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Kobojunkie: 4:08pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
crackhaus:Na wa ooo!! Aren't these some of the same folks who condemn women for entering into marriage as liabilities, the Nairaland "What do women bring to the table" gang? |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Acidosis(m): 4:37pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Sure ...as long as she has education/skills and a CV. |
Re: Marriage In This Economy by Helpout12345: 8:11pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
OP, please stay off marriage biko with that your altitude towards your own father. If you can disrespect your father, you will even beat up your mother or father-in-law. |
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