We are newly married couple ,made her feel very comfortable for some months we have been together , she knows all my accounts including password ,, she can handle all my businesses at least to a certain level , she can answer my phone if i her permit her , but she knows the password and is free to use my phone for any other purpose ,likewise me because I trust her , my wife is my most trusted friend after my sister that rise me up

Corridon:
Shatap. You deserved to be banned for life. Urchin.

I don't wrestle with a pig, lest it drags me down into Potopoto

This is purely true. If you are a man and your partner or wife hides her phone or carry her phone up and down even if she want to go to piss, know that she is cheating. I can beat my chest to that. This is how my wife started and i snooped through her phone, what i discovered almost gave me heart attack. This is someone i never believe she can do such and when she confessed, she has been cheating under my nose for a year and i didn't notice. So men wake up and stop trusting any woman that locks phone or not comfortable whenever you are close to their phone.They are cheating and have something hidden.

FuckOsuPigs:


I don't wrestle with a pig, lest it drags me down into Potopoto

Same way I don't banter with an erudite skuller lest it mine my skull.

Corridon:
Same way I don't banter with an erudite skuller lest it mine my skull.

We don't mine flat empty pig skull

It's useless

Funny I had a relationship where he hid his phone & the passcode but he had all access to mine. & I actually allowed this smh
I Couldn’t prove it but I’m sure he was cheating.

romenna:

U just joined NL abi
I've bn here since 2006

You Be Nairaland Elder

This is a bias statement though
What's good for the goose should also be good for the gander

jessylaurel:


Obviously you no get sense

i knew it, I know say na woman go first condemn that guy

FuckOsuPigs:


We don't mine flat empty pig skull

It's useless

Then focus on mining cone heads.

macho44:


How u take say say Dem KNACK Akpako? Did u join Dem for a 3sum?

The guy is talking about himself

jadyclem:
It's odd for partners in committed relationship to hide their phones from each other. It shows lack of commitment to the relationship. If I can gain access to your body easily which is your most priced possession as an individual, why should gaining access to your phone be an issue? A relationship starts failing the moment any partner starts protecting their phone like their life depends on it. Such action creates suspicion and I don't think I can be in a committed relationship with a secretive partner.

Exactly!!!! Hiding your phone up and down what are you hiding? Yet u will hear" you don't trust me? Why should I trust u when your phone is your most priced possession? How do you demand privacy In marriage? What privacy are u talking about? You shouldn't be married if you want privacy na...as far as I'm concerned my phone shouldn't be private to my spouse..he can go through my phone anyday anytime coz I've got nothing to hide!!!

Nangels:
Anybody hiding phone is cheating, both man and woman

Whatever works for u. My wife initially had access to my phone unhindered but I didn't have a rest mind. It wasn't cheating issue, it was pure financial and my former family privacy breach. She wanted to be controlling my finances and was meddling in my former family's matter. I warned her severally but to no avail before I finally chose the option of phone lock, and since then I have had my peace. She also followed suite and i am not bothered. Even if she somehow gains back-door access to my phone, there is absolutely nothing incriminating, only bank alert and siblings chats which has nothing to do with her.
But I can't say same for her

Afodot0022:
This is purely true. If you are a man and your partner or wife hides her phone or carry her phone up and down even if she want to go to piss, know that she is cheating. I can beat my chest to that. This is how my wife started and i snooped through her phone, what i discovered almost gave me heart attack. This is someone i never believe she can do such and when she confessed, she has been cheating under my nose for a year and i didn't notice. So men wake up and stop trusting any woman that locks phone or not comfortable whenever you are close to their phone.They are cheating and have something hidden.

Hmmm my wife has Jericho-wall pass words on her phone and I'm not bothered. Even before she started to lock it, I dont use to pick her phone up. E no konsine me. But if I catch her cheating, na her parents house straight! I no dey hear please

Lemme shock y'all, when love � was invented/started there wasn't anything like phone. Why forming woke with that filth called phone that won't last a year over love that's meant to be forever
Think about it.

Me oo I don't use to password phone and my wife can see anything on my phone I'm clean so nothing fit happen but me I'm not going through her phone I'll never unless she ask me too and I'm planning on marrying someone like me God help me lol . Even my sibling use to be happy if I drop phone on table they'll carry n watch IG videos. I don't have porn on phone so why hide it. The passsword irritates me cos if my phone got stolen I won't find it again so what the point

Sweetvie:
I love my privacy, i mean stay away from my phone
Am not hiding anything I just don't like been intrude. But if the husband is thinking something else i will gladly hand over the phone for him to check.
Husband can keep his phone i don't need to know what he is doing with it... Don't poke into mine and I will not poke into yours. But if you're married i think we should be free or be open minded abt it so as not to cause a misunderstanding

i really don’t understand this privacy thing with your husband ooo. Once a girl tells me her fone is private, automatically I go dey dat relationship dey find serious babe

shege45:
i really don’t understand this privacy thing with your husband ooo. Once a girl tells me her fone is private, automatically I go dey dat relationship dey find serious babe

Seriously? No nau
Privacy doesn't always mean cheating, u know
One may have some stuff u won't want anybody to see,it may not be bad but you won't just feel like letting someone see it. But if it's leading to something else i will gladly hand over the phone