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|Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by correctbae: 7:08am On Jun 20, 2018|
Chizoba Miracle Emenaha, a single mother of one and Wig maker has taken to her Facebook timeline to reveal how her wicked aunt Maltreated and denied her of Education.
According to her post, her Dad took her to stay with her Aunt after the death of her mother to get home training. She revealed she was labeled a bad Omen after her aunt got robbed the first day she got to her house, her aunt was reluctant to register her in school, she made her kiss her exams and even refuse to register her for WAEC, giving excuses that it is not everybody that will go to school.
This for my aunt..last born to my father..
I will call her by her name because I have a lot of bitterness for her in my heart, and because of what she did..I'm yet to forgive everyone who played one or two roles in it..
De Gladys as you are called..
I will first start by telling you....
You will not MAKE HEAVEN!!!!
You say you are a Christian but you are a wicked human, soooooo wicked that even the devil is learning from you...
You see I'm writing this now because I'm free from you and everyone who would try to hold me back or punish me like you do in those days..
I will now start...
My dad brought me to your house because to him he said he wanted me to get home training.. First I was deceived into it .
I was told It was just for a holiday...not knowing you two had it all planned..
I arrived your home,
My first night in your house arm robbers visited your house..
That became the beginning of my ordeal because you won't end any of your sentence without reminding me I'm a misfortune, a bad omen whom on her first night in your house brought thieves...
I stayed with you.
To enroll me in school became a big deal for you..
Finally when you did,it was a local school in an uncompleted building attended by house helps..
Even at that you won't allow me go to school..
I will wake up as early as 4am sometimes 3am to Prepare what your kids will eat..
Go to the shop,shade your goods
Prepare your kids for school.
Take them to school..
Then come back to Go In Search of firewood I will use to cook at night ..
While you sleep..
You have the money to buy as many litres of kerosene as you want..
But because of wickedness you turned me to a slave...
Before I could finish with the day's runs..
Some days you allow me to go to school.. Other days you tell me not to go because its late that I should go to he shop and stay while you enter your room to sleep..
Is it the days you beat me at every slightest provocation..
You flog me to the extent I start crying even without been hit..
I talk to myself and lament... out of all the mothers why will it be my own mom that should die..
You made me which death for myself..
When you noticed I always talk to myself..
You called my dad and told him I was possessed...
He believed you his dearest last Born.
It it when I started growing Breast..
You noticed because I was using my scarf to tie my breast while going to school to avoid other students from teasing and laughing at my pointed nipple..
When you saw I started growing breast instead of you to get me a new bra..
You gave me one of your old red worn out bra..
The bra wasn't even holding anything..
But I have no choice.
And that was the only bra I owned..
Is it days you will starve me, when you finally manage to give me #10 fufu,you will tell me to share it the ekuke dog living with your family..
Is it the day I was to take my last exam in ss1..
You told me to take your kids for their graduation party and leave my exam..
I suggested I take your kids to school then go write my exam since my school was close to your kids school..
You insisted I forget my exam and stay with your kids at their graduation party..
Because to you my future doesn't matter...
All you know is your own kids.
Through out my stay in your house you never bought me one single dress..
Rather you gave me your oversized worn out dresses...
People around always asked if I'm sure I'm truly related to you because of your harsh treatment towards me..
When it's time for me to write waec..
You told me its not everybody that will go to school..
You knew I was brilliant..
Even with the number of days I manage to go to school I still take the second position which always leave you amazed..
But when it was time for me to get waec form..
Instead of you to buy the form for this girl who labours day and night for your family's upkeep... You told me its its not everybody that will go to school.. I should learn sowing..
Even when I agreed to learn sowing you never registered me..
You kept postponing it..
Till I received sense and found out you were out to waste my life...
I ran away..I ran for my future..
Maybe its something my late mom did to you.
Maybe she offended you and you swore to pay back.. Just maybe..
Cos till today I can't fathom the wickedness..
Or you were simply been too wicked in nature.
When I left your house You told my dad I stole from you Without pointing one particular thing I stole....
You labelled me a thief..
Well my dad believed you..
Because right from day one my dad never believed in me..
Today I found out all your kids attended and still attending one of the best secondary schools in town and others iñ tertiary institutions..
And I'm thinking.. Why didn't you enrol them in sowing training without getting their school cert just like you suggested to me..
I left your house seeing my monthly period but you never noticed, because each time I try to talk to you about something concerning my body...
You will sày I've started seeing man...
You damaged a huge part of my life and the damage hasn't left me..
Because of things I went through in your hands and more..
I begged God to keep me alive to train my kids to adulthood or take me when I haven't brought any child to this life....because I wouldn't wish want them to pass through half of what I went through as a motherless child..
If my mom was alive...
You dare not!!!
You claim to be a born again Christian, a virtuous woman..
Well laugh and I still tell you..
YOU WON'T MAKE HEAVEN..
If you could treat a motherless child the way you maltreated me..
Then Heaven is clearly not for you..
Make sure your mom reads this....
My dad will also read..
Maybe he will start understanding why I distant myself from home a times..
Things like this are what I remember and I become sad at everyone....
Goes to sleep����
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by thesicilian: 7:11am On Jun 20, 2018|
Forgive those who wrong you, and do unto others as you would them you.
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Viralkid: 7:13am On Jun 20, 2018|
I really don't understand why people bring their personal shitt on social media, what is the benefit of writing this long epistle.
She claims she is free of their wickedness, it may be true physically but it's never true in mind as long as you haven't forgiven them.
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by sagerasaq(m): 7:17am On Jun 20, 2018|
What a sad experience!!! I wonder when people will learn to stop giving out there children... The love, treatment and Care is Never d same. All in the Name of that person is wealthier than you..
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by izzou(m): 7:22am On Jun 20, 2018|
First rule of life: Nobody owes you anything
Your Aunt is actually wicked but I expect you to look at where you are now, and smile over the past, but instead, you decided to keep hurting yourself by lamenting and to worsen the issue, you had to even post it on social media.
If I was your fiancee, I would cancel our engagement just because of this singular reason. I can't afford to love someone who prefers to take personal and sensitive issues to the world
But your aunt wicked sha
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by ArinzeRaph: 8:30am On Jun 20, 2018|
izzou:Don't say what you don't know. If you were manhandled as a kid you won't have said this.
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by eyinjuege: 8:33am On Jun 20, 2018|
All the fault lies with your father.
Your father should have sent you to school, why did he send you off to become someone's maid?
Why couldn't he just face you añd train you as his responsibilty?
He played a major role in this drama, the earlier you face the truth, the better
Being a parent is more than just having s3x and borning the pikin.
You have to be ready to take up the responsibilty of raising your child, and not fob the child off on someone else. Your father is the loser here, as your wicked auntie is still living her life with all her own children educated. Your father couldn't even check on you from time to time to see how your school work was going. He has a lot to answer for.
This is not to excuse the wicked aunt, but rather to point out the root of the problems in your life.
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by izzou(m): 8:37am On Jun 20, 2018|
You maybe right
But I'll definitely not come online and type this. That,
I'm sure of
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by oluwayimika123: 9:50am On Jun 20, 2018|
sagerasaq:Sometimes, it must just happen and not necessarily planned from the scratch. That her aunt is just a wicked soul.
Let me share a little story
We ve a little cousin currently living with us.
Her mother died at birth and she's her dad's 1st born. She had to stay with the dad's younger sis 4 a while at least till she clocked 2 or 3 yrs. She later reunited with her dad but it wasn't easy cos her dad travels a lot. Down the line, her dad remarried and they were all living togeda but the new wife doesn't takia of her and most time cares less about her so she is always on her own till her dad arrives late in d nite.
Four yrs ago she and other siblings had to be brot to our Ouse cos dier dad had a serious accident dat made him stay in d hospital for about six month or more and in other for the wife to b able to stay with dier dad, dey were brot to our ouse.
When dier dad was discharged, the step mom's children was taken back home cos she said she didn't want to go back home to live with her step mom and her dad obliged without hesitation not knowing he himself had wanted a beta place 4 her.
The sad part is we lost her dad last yr to anoda accident at work wch makes her an ORPHAN now.
Since that 4 years ago that she's been staying with us, she's treated like the last born of the house and dose that didn't know our family till she came to our house have Neva doubted us when we say she's d last born of d Ouse cos she shares a little resemblance with my mom.
N.B. her dad was d one paying her skool fees until his' demise last year.
At times, it ain't really becos some parents are irresponsible but it just happen.
If u go tru dat post carefully, u will notice the father did it for a good intention perhaps he felt it would b cool if she's being brot up by a woman would make her a beta woman.
However, the father also has his' own blame for not doing necessary follow up on her wellbeing and her academic progress. My guess is he's not financially buoyant ch couldn't make him take some drastic step.
I'm actually happy for her dat she has become a beta person.
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by oluwayimika123: 9:56am On Jun 20, 2018|
I'm pretty sure u ve not been in such situation where u feel u need to write out ur deepest worries. Perhaps 4 u to b able to talk to some1 outside ur immediate circle. Most times, it's until u do this dat u become free of all ur worries.
Their are times myself would want to put something on my WhatsApp status buh I just push restrain myself from doing so. However, I type them out then munch it on my fone without putting it on my status - that way, I feel a little bit received.
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Martinez19(m): 10:01am On Jun 20, 2018|
izzou:Abegi, emotional, psychological and physical abuse is a trauma that can last a lifetime. The fact that you haven't experience it doesn't mean you should talk like a boss on the issue. Even though it has been years since the abuse, the thought of the traumatic experience still bring some victim to tears or at least invoke an overwhelming sad mood and anguish that is noticeable to those standing close by. She missing her education at the right age did not help matters as it can alter her life in a way. If the abuse was very severe, it could affect how they relate with others as they would transfer their anger and aggression to innocent folks, it could make them heartless and indifferent to people(suffering or not) around them and worse is to become serial killers (yes, you saw right). People who have been through this need emotional and psychological support.
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by omooba969(m): 10:46am On Jun 20, 2018|
This is common over there.
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Kylekent59: 10:48am On Jun 20, 2018|
I support Mourinho's decision , Rohr should learn now.
Honestly, i watched our last match and I noticed the error there.
Attacking midfielder is suppose to be sharp and fast but mikel is very slow. We need a verysharp player to play that number 10(attacking midfielder) .
Mikel should go back to number 6(defending/holding midfielder) he should use his body to defend that midfield.
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by pocohantas(f): 10:48am On Jun 20, 2018|
Her father takes most blame.
Followed by De Gladys
Then De Glady's husband.
See how the woman resemble better person. They both look alike sef. Parents born the number you can care for o!
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Burgerlomo: 10:49am On Jun 20, 2018|
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by MEDICPATH(m): 10:49am On Jun 20, 2018|
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by dominique(f): 10:49am On Jun 20, 2018|
All these for her aunt who is not responsible for her schooling but nothing for the irresponsible father that pushed her to the wicked aunt? That you lost your wife is no excuse for you to share your children to relatives and expect them to sponsor their education. I don't support maltreatment neither do I support the entitled tone she used in some parts of her write-up. You are not her responsibility, you are not the one to dictate the type of school she should send you to. That said, people need to stop treating other people's children so poorly. If you can't treat them like your kids, don't take them in at all.
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Psalm18: 10:49am On Jun 20, 2018|
What a terrible experience
And the evil woman is dressed rather piously.
I'm glad you wrote this down, writing is therapy. For those who are evil inclined, if you don't want to be written about, then don't hurt people
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by MarieSucre(f): 10:50am On Jun 20, 2018|
:Her father sha. Which one is taking her to her aunty to teach her home training? Don't ever pass on your responsibility as a parent to someone else.
The man did not even check up on her, are you saying through all those years he did not become financially responsible enough to take her back? He is truly an irresponsible man. Make trumpet just blow jare, this world is going to hell, dis on wey fatherly love no dey again for this world.
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by nnonso3: 10:50am On Jun 20, 2018|
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Bolugi: 10:50am On Jun 20, 2018|
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by kunleweb: 10:50am On Jun 20, 2018|
It' easy to say very easy
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by kunleweb: 10:51am On Jun 20, 2018|
People find it very easy to throw out words
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Follygunners: 10:51am On Jun 20, 2018|
The funny thing is, this is VERY, VERY common among most Nigerian housewives. They tend to mistreat / maltreat the less privileged children living with them while they spoil their own children.
It's become a NORM among these ladies to be wicked and heartless.
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by SheikhMuniru(m): 10:52am On Jun 20, 2018|
YOU BETTER RUN AWAY FOR YOUR LIFE BECAUSE SHE GO KILL YOU
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Nobody: 10:52am On Jun 20, 2018|
Behind this bright and beautiful face lies a terribly hurt personality.
I'm in no position to judge her aunt but the lady in question should try to see a psychologist (if she can afford it). Childhood memories (good or bad) ave a lasting effect on a person and it shapes us into the adults we become. Parents who send their kids to live with relatives are the biggest kinds of cowards.
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by McBrooklyn(m): 10:52am On Jun 20, 2018|
All these end time Aunties sef...
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by Yinxies(f): 10:53am On Jun 20, 2018|
It may not be ad bad as she is painting it. Children tend to feel maltreated when they live with people other than their parents.
I also think she is being ungrateful. No matter what, they took you in. At least be grateful for that.
The best revenge is to bevome successful in life
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|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by midehi2(f): 10:53am On Jun 20, 2018|
This your aunty looks familiar sef
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by coolfredo(m): 10:54am On Jun 20, 2018|
Ok i no get time to read ur long story abeg, ur dad took u to her good, where was ur dad while all these happened. As u condemn de woman no forget ur dad too
|Re: Lady Reveals How Her Wicked Aunt Maltreated And Denied Her Of Going To School by TroubleMaker47(m): 10:55am On Jun 20, 2018|
Blacks and wickedness sha!
Noah shoulda neva allowed dat his fuçking black son on the ark
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