This happens few 2 years ago. We were living in a compound which contains other chalet buildings. Our bedroom window faces that of a single man in our compound (although there was a reasonable distance in between the buildings). My wife cultivated the habit of dressing naked or finding an excuse to stay naked standing just in front of the window without closing the window curtains. I complained that the neighbour would definitely see her unclothedness and that I am not OK with her showing of herself to the neighbour. It went on and on till we packed out of the house. We are in a better place now though but I can't help but think my wife is showing off to the neighbour guy on purpose or that something is going on BTW the two. Now before you say I'm stupid, I wish I was stupid enough to not notice the body flashing....fact is I can't just wrap my head around it and say she's having fun or having an outside affair. Any advice is welcome.
Thanks

Two years ago? Seriously?

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Oga... Enjoy your life and don't kill yourself over what one woman does or didn't do...

Remember, when you die, it is only you that they will put in the coffin, no amount of how much your wife loves you will make them include her in your coffin... That's why you you must cultivate the habit of calming down and taking life easy.

2 years is too long for you to allow one person to live in your head rent free!

Bro u ar d head of d house, u better talk to her in way she should understand. that's just d fact

PlayerMeji:
Oga... Enjoy your life and don't kill yourself over what one woman does or didn't do...

Remember, when you die, it is only you that they will put in the coffin, no amount of how much your wife loves you will make them include her in your coffin... That's why you you must cultivate the habit of calming down and taking life easy.

2 years is too long for you to allow one person to live in your head rent free!

Easier said!

Are you married?
The way unmarried folks come here to dish advices to the married people here is appalling.

I'm married but he's saying the fact, life is flexible than holding on to your head with somethimg that happens 2 years ago

Amotolongbo:
Easier said!

Are you married?
The way unmarried folks come here to dish advices to the married people here is appalling.

Oga troway face, if you continue like this, you might have hypertension and die. Then your worst nightmare will double .


Solution

become unpredictable.

Don't expect normalcy In a world that is not. Also these crop of women are no longer traditional even tough they expect to marry a traditional man( security) hahaha

Sex controls everything in life.

If your wife is still dressing naked or having excuse to stand naked even after you'd moved out of your old neighborhood then I guess that's a habit but if she stopped immediately you people moved out then definitely she was showing that single niggar in your old neighborhood something in the middle...

2 yrs ago, you didn't address the issue.

Now that you are in a better place, it's time to look for loopholes.

U want to look for excuse to end d marriage abi

What is exactly the color of her problem? Pls sit her down and talk sense to her Incase of next time.

Anonymous0011:
This happens few 2 years ago. We were living in a compound which contains other chalet buildings. Our bedroom window faces that of a single man in our compound (although there was a reasonable distance in between the buildings). My wife cultivated the habit of dressing naked or finding an excuse to stay naked standing just in front of the window without closing the window curtains. I complained that the neighbour would definitely see her unclothedness and that I am not OK with her showing of herself to the neighbour. It went on and on till we packed out of the house. We are in a better place now though but I can't help but think my wife is showing off to the neighbour guy on purpose or that something is going on BTW the two. Now before you say I'm stupid, I wish I was stupid enough to not notice the body flashing....fact is I can't just wrap my head around it and say she's having fun or having an outside affair. Any advice is welcome.
Thanks

No advise is given. Go and love your wife more. And if you feel your brain can't deal with marriage and it's only fiction and jealousy, just divorce her. Don't kill the playful woman.
Cos if you talk say she dey naked anyhow for the new house, I for say you get reason. But now, it's your head that's playing with your destiny.

Is she doing it or not in your new place? If she's not doing it again, that mean she's intentionally doing it back then, but if she's still doing it, then it's her habit.

Hmm

Why don't u ask the neighbor if he saw anything

There is no serious and actual incident that could justify your suspicion of cheating, other than the fact that your wife likes to flash her body whenever she is certain to get a spectator. At least, she has flashed her body to two male neighbours, in two different locations, which validates her liking to express her body. You just have to continue talking to her, if possible, involve people she respects for she suffers a psychology disorder.

If she's with you right now just turn around & slap her without uttering a word.

Fear Nigeria girls oh....

Something happened two yrs ago and u're bringing it up now?

That means you'll not sleep for a century knowing that doctors examine your wife

Anonymous0011:
This happens few 2 years ago. We were living in a compound which contains other chalet buildings. Our bedroom window faces that of a single man in our compound (although there was a reasonable distance in between the buildings). My wife cultivated the habit of dressing naked or finding an excuse to stay naked standing just in front of the window without closing the window curtains. I complained that the neighbour would definitely see her unclothedness and that I am not OK with her showing of herself to the neighbour. It went on and on till we packed out of the house. We are in a better place now though but I can't help but think my wife is showing off to the neighbour guy on purpose or that something is going on BTW the two. Now before you say I'm stupid, I wish I was stupid enough to not notice the body flashing....fact is I can't just wrap my head around it and say she's having fun or having an outside affair. Any advice is welcome.
Thanks

Who is the man of the house?
Them act has one...

This is a family issue...
Call your wife to order

Eeyah


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ACiKA8EklNc

its ben 2 yrs that you left that place, let it go...

Married life no be here ooo Kai!

phorget:
If your wife is still dressing naked or having excuse to stand naked even after you'd moved out of your old neighborhood then I guess that's a habit but if she stopped immediately you people moved out then definitely she was showing that single niggar in your old neighborhood something in the middle...

wey Mr OP....

Hurry come abeg!!....yeah come right here and go through what this nigga said!!....Now this right here is the Koko!!...This right here happens to be the almost 100percent xup!!.......

Now what I wanna ask again is, the times u caught her unawares, what was her reaction?....was she sort of like shaky or shocked....or acted a bit confused?....E get why I dey ask......

Woman matter sha!!

That was two years ago guy…. You should focus on NOW!

Some people like to look for trouble when there is none. They are not happy unless there is chaos in their life. Imagine someone thinking about a 2 year old problem that has vanished. Are you working sir?

illicit:
Why don't u ask the neighbor if he saw anything

How can she parade what you paid for freely like that?.maybe another dick dey hungry am.

Well, whether it is deliberately for the guy or not, a good woman guards her unclothedness. (Same as a good man)

Anonymous0011:
This happens few 2 years ago. We were living in a compound which contains other chalet buildings. Our bedroom window faces that of a single man in our compound (although there was a reasonable distance in between the buildings). My wife cultivated the habit of dressing naked or finding an excuse to stay naked standing just in front of the window without closing the window curtains. I complained that the neighbour would definitely see her unclothedness and that I am not OK with her showing of herself to the neighbour. It went on and on till we packed out of the house. We are in a better place now though but I can't help but think my wife is showing off to the neighbour guy on purpose or that something is going on BTW the two. Now before you say I'm stupid, I wish I was stupid enough to not notice the body flashing....fact is I can't just wrap my head around it and say she's having fun or having an outside affair. Any advice is welcome.
Thanks

Women always wants attention. Though 2yrs, another abnormal behaviour. Open the door, flip the curtains and work out.

Well...Olosho still dey her eye!!

It was in your head...cos think bout it, no sane NIGERIAN wife will choose to show her nudity in front of her husband.