Beastnaija On Relationship

1. Giving crude advice nicknames.

Anyone who has reached the age of thirty or older was not raised in the Candy Crush and selfie era. It was therefore much too awesome when you initially got this hand-held phone to come up with fun names for girls in your phonebook. At 20, it is understandable because the world kind of anticipates your immaturity. But having crude contact aliases on your phone at the age of 30 is just unacceptable. Be considerate to any potential partners.

2. Text-only communication only

In the past, the text-only guy could only be a particular type of sloth or a man who was juggling several women at once. However, recently, even the good folks are falling for this trick. I doubt it will surprise anyone. that a 2014 Gallup Poll revealed texting has overtaken all other forms of communication among Americans under 50. But what’s frightful? Even as fully “formed” adults, scientists note that habitual texting can impede your capacity to perceive nonverbal clues and has a direct negative impact on your interpersonal social skills. Yikes.

In actuality, men and women prefer to attach in different ways and communicate in various ways. Women appreciate communication, whereas males connect through activity. Therefore, even if you are unaware of how detrimental it is that you don’t contact to say hello or propose a quick Skype date so you can see her face, you are losing out on strengthening your relationship. So If you want to connect with someone more deeply, put down your phone and stop using the lovely emojis from Snapchat.

3. Excessive use of the adjective “crazy”

This term can be loosely construed to signify anything from serious neurological instability to being entirely illogical and stupid. The issue is that, for minor reasons, our culture has grown far too accustomed to labeling female behavior as “mad.” Additionally, because women detest the accusation, employing it to break a tie becomes a foolproof tactic. It is cheap and psychologically harmful to twist the facts and cause her to question her own perception.

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