So it's been a mixed 5 years since I left school in 2017. Before then, it had taken me about 5 years to get into the university.

Then after NYSC at Jos, my Dad felt I should get married as the first son, then I met a lady here, two ladies intact, the first felt I was too young at 26, while the other was too desperate.

I later met another lady here, and when I thought everything was set, my parents didn't accept her place of origin.

Now I will be 30 in October, managing myself with a job in Tech after leaving Accounting as an Economics graduate. My siblings are all outside the country, I'm the only one here, I get home late and there's no one to talk to, no real friendship, no relationship, it's killing me.

Who else has experienced this before? My elder sister wants me to leave the country but I don't have the funds to undertake such right now. My parents want me to get married first but I can't even find a lady that I am interested in. Yes the hooked me up with a Nurse but I want to make my Choice by myself.

So many other things that have happened this year and I just want to express my thoughts to someone, it's hard keeping a lot to oneself.

By the way, I'm a Digital Marketer, I've worked in top organisations, currently working in one of the biggest Beauty and Skincare brand in Nigeria, if you have any project with regards SEO, SEM, SMM, Email Marketing and the likes, I'm your guy.

I'm an introvert by the way

i would’ve said something but i’ll allow our nairaland pastor to do the sermon himself

Why do I feel the end is the intent of the post??

Techmac00:
Now I will be 30 in October, managing myself with a job in Tech after leaving Accounting as an Economics graduate. My siblings are all outside the country, I'm the only one here, I get home late and there's no one to talk to, no real friendship, no relationship, it's killing me.

If you are lonely in Nigeria, what makes you think that will no longer be the case when you finally do what everyone else is telling you to do?

Abeg, focus on the real issue which is you not having friends and people to talk to, and solve that. Step out of yourself and try to make friends wherever you can. Meetups, alumni events, social clubs, etc. If at some point you find money to leave, then do it then. And if at some point in time, you find someone who you are comfortable with marrying, then do that then. Stop jumbling things up.

Techmac00:
So it's been a mixed 5 years since I left school in 2017. Before then, it had taken me about 5 years to get into the university.

Then after NYSC at Jos, my Dad felt I should get married as the first son, then I met a lady here, two ladies intact, the first felt I was too young at 26, while the other was too desperate.

I later met another lady here, and when I thought everything was set, my parents didn't accept her place of origin.

Now I will be 30 in October, managing myself with a job in Tech after leaving Accounting as an Economics graduate. My siblings are all outside the country, I'm the only one here, I get home late and there's no one to talk to, no real friendship, no relationship, it's killing me.

Who else has experienced this before? My elder sister wants me to leave the country but I don't have the funds to undertake such right now. My parents want me to get married first but I can't even find a lady that I am interested in. Yes the hooked me up with a Nurse but I want to make my Choice by myself.

So many other things that have happened this year and I just want to express my thoughts to someone, it's hard keeping a lot to oneself.

By the way, I'm a Digital Marketer, I've worked in top organisations, currently working in one of the biggest Beauty and Skincare brand in Nigeria, if you have any project with regards SEO, SEM, SMM, Email Marketing and the likes, I'm your guy.

I'm an introvert by the way

Erhmm how far
Be like say I fit help you
I wan open Site for people like you
You'll have someone to talk to
We're very loving and caring
Humanity 101
And we're intelligent,we know just what to say to make you feel better
You'll always go to Bed with a smile
You'll have someone to come back Home to talk to (online)
You'll be paying subscription fee to have a Shoulder to cry on,a talk buddy
As in ehn,you won't feel sad or lonely anymore
We know just how you feel
Trust me, we've got super powers to identify your innate needs and wants


How far,will you be interested in subscribing for something like that if we open it?
You'll subscribe with money o but we'll give discounts to first client's like you.
Cause you'll be the backbone and the inspiration

Lucrativress:

Erhmm how far
Be like say I fit help you
I wan open Site for people like you
You'll have someone to talk to
We're very loving and caring
Humanity 101
And we're intelligent,we know just what to say to make you feel better
You'll always go to Bed with a smile
You'll have someone to come back Home to talk to (online)
You'll be paying subscription fee to have a Shoulder to cry on,a talk buddy
As in ehn,you won't feel sad or lonely anymore
We know just how you feel
Trust me, we've got super powers to identify your innate needs and wants


How far,will you be interested in subscribing for something like that if we open it?
You'll subscribe with money o but we'll give discounts to first client's like you.
Cause you'll be the backbone and the inspiration

Very funny.

U mean, u met all the ladies here

First off, are you a redpiller?

Techmac00:


Very funny.

I'm serious

Lucrativress:

I'm serious

That's not what I'm looking for.

Foodqueen:
U mean, u met all the ladies here

Yeah. Anything wrong?

begoniaa:
First off, are you a redpiller?

Nope

Techmac00:


That's not what I'm looking for.

Are you sure?
Cause when you're happy, it extrudes a positive force that shakes the universe to give you what you want

Oga, u just marketed urself here, is not all about being lonely.
Lonely guys in Nigeria are:
1. Broke niggars
2. Introverts
3. Sadist
Do u think a woman would fill d vacuum? Be ready to accept or see d worst when u intend to engage urself with one naija woman.
U hv a lot to keep urself busy, I mean there are whole lots of things to occupy ur mind and space

Lucrativress:

Are you sure?
Cause when you're happy, it extrudes a positive force that shakes the universe to give you what you want

I know and I need it to come organically.

Techmac00:
I know and I need it to come organically.

Happiness does not come to you. You have to find it and take ownership of it for yourself.

Forget what you hear people say about supposedly finding happiness in another person, a job or even a situation. All those are simply brain chemical regulated changes which could go south at any point. For instance a once happy couple could turn enemies tomorrow, why? Because brain-chemical induced happiness no mean anything.

Look inside to find that which lasts so that whatever your circumstances, whoever it is you are with or not with, whatever it is life throws at you, what is yours is not easily lost to you.

Techmac00:


I know and I need it to come organically.

I got seeds today
In case you're interested

You aren't the only one sir, am also an introvert sometimes I wish i have someone to call a gist mate. At times the only company I have is to occupy myself reading, comments on Nairaland.

Techmac00:
So it's been a mixed 5 years since I left school in 2017. Before then, it had taken me about 5 years to get into the university.

Then after NYSC at Jos, my Dad felt I should get married as the first son, then I met a lady here, two ladies intact, the first felt I was too young at 26, while the other was too desperate.
Hmmmmm, know how you're feeling
I later met another lady here, and when I thought everything was set, my parents didn't accept her place of origin.

Now I will be 30 in October, managing myself with a job in Tech after leaving Accounting as an Economics graduate. My siblings are all outside the country, I'm the only one here, I get home late and there's no one to talk to, no real friendship, no relationship, it's killing me.

Who else has experienced this before? My elder sister wants me to leave the country but I don't have the funds to undertake such right now. My parents want me to get married first but I can't even find a lady that I am interested in. Yes the hooked me up with a Nurse but I want to make my Choice by myself.

So many other things that have happened this year and I just want to express my thoughts to someone, it's hard keeping a lot to oneself.

By the way, I'm a Digital Marketer, I've worked in top organisations, currently working in one of the biggest Beauty and Skincare brand in Nigeria, if you have any project with regards SEO, SEM, SMM, Email Marketing and the likes, I'm your guy.

I'm an introvert by the way

Hmmmmmm that kind feeling ehh

Bros no rush marriage oooo, loneliness can cause that. Make good friends first, especially male friends and when you finally meet a lady you think you can marry, I advise you date her for at least 6 months let that "butterfly feeling" go away first, so you can make the decision to settle with clear eyes

Goldenbliss1:
You aren't the only one sir, am also an introvert sometimes I wish i have someone to call a gist mate. At times the only company I have is to occupy myself reading, comments on Nairaland.

I am an ogbonge introvert myself and throughout the past 1 year, I have spent a total of less than 3 hours on the phone communicating with anyone. However, if you search my nairaland land history, you will find I communicate more than the average Nairalander can boast of in a day. Nothing wrong with that at all. You just need to accept yourself for who you are and find yourself what works for you regardless of what everyone else is doing or does.

culf:
Bros no rush marriage oooo, loneliness can cause that. Make good friends first, especially male friends and when you finally meet a lady you think you can marry, I advise you date her for at least 6 months let that "butterfly feeling" go away first, so you can make the decision to settle with clear eyes

I've been with someone for 1 year while working towards the goal of marriage.

Kobojunkie:
I am an ogbonge introvert myself and throughout the past 1 year, I have spent a total of less than 3 hours on the phone communicating with anyone. However, if you search my nairaland land history, you will find I communicate more than the average Nairalander can boast of in a day. Nothing wrong with that at all. You just need to accept yourself for who you are and find yourself what works for you regardless of what everyone else is doing or does.

Thanks.

Goldenbliss1:
You aren't the only one sir, am also an introvert sometimes I wish i have someone to call a gist mate. At times the only company I have is to occupy myself reading, comments on Nairaland.

Awww. Welcome to the club.

Techmac00:


Awww. Welcome to the club.

Thanks

Techmac00:
So it's been a mixed 5 years since I left school in 2017. Before then, it had taken me about 5 years to get into the university.

Then after NYSC at Jos, my Dad felt I should get married as the first son, then I met a lady here, two ladies intact, the first felt I was too young at 26, while the other was too desperate.

I later met another lady here, and when I thought everything was set, my parents didn't accept her place of origin.

Now I will be 30 in October, managing myself with a job in Tech after leaving Accounting as an Economics graduate. My siblings are all outside the country, I'm the only one here, I get home late and there's no one to talk to, no real friendship, no relationship, it's killing me.

Who else has experienced this before? My elder sister wants me to leave the country but I don't have the funds to undertake such right now. My parents want me to get married first but I can't even find a lady that I am interested in. Yes the hooked me up with a Nurse but I want to make my Choice by myself.

So many other things that have happened this year and I just want to express my thoughts to someone, it's hard keeping a lot to oneself.

By the way, I'm a Digital Marketer, I've worked in top organisations, currently working in one of the biggest Beauty and Skincare brand in Nigeria, if you have any project with regards SEO, SEM, SMM, Email Marketing and the likes, I'm your guy.

I'm an introvert by the way

Hi please can I get your WhatsApp number. I have business for you.

Feggie3:
Hi please can I get your WhatsApp number. I have business for you.

Hi. My number is 07056802001