Amya:

Oh Okay . . . So, how do you unwind?

sexkillz:

Pendo! I agree with you 100%! . . . . . . . But! It would have worked BEST for a first timer in LOVE! Very Good points and behaviors to look out for! It's gonna be really difficult for you though, because you have fallen in love before and gotten your heart shattered! Now, even if you see those traits in a guy, you'll keep asking if it is for real, or how am i sure he is not faking or trying to impress! That's what heartbreak does anyway! I like that definition of love! It is more realistic, but again not everyone is patient and willing to look out for THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS! But if you finally do, Your relationship would be very smooth and if it leads to Marriage. . . BLISS!!!

toba:

unwind? that's a jamb question. Let me say through NL, facebook and Yahoo messenger. I dont have friends its work work and work. After church i even dash to the office to do some work at times. Still at the final lap of my PHD from University of Calabar though. That's all i can say ma

pendo89:

Great.
But nope I think it works best for somebody who has been in love before because now they become wise.
First love is risky really. Its in many cases 80% blind.
For those points I highlighted,its not really hard to tell. A man is not an isolated island cz hes got friends family workmates etc.
I have my own test and lab  .I will even get into your nerves to see how you react when angry and you wont know even am testing you. Some things just manifest on their own without much effort.  . You know what I try to look out for? the humane part of you,what your heart is really like,you reaction to issues,your threshold, your patience,kindness,mercy those things that just matter to me.
I already know what you have physically and materially but thats nothing at all.
However no relationship is perfect. That's why I talked about dying to self.
I prefer taking somebody as a wolf in sheeps clothing first then take time to look for the sheep in them and vv.
I also dislike anybody who talks about my looks from morning till night! Is that all you see? am I only looks? pathetic so its both ways. 
[size=15pt]So far so good somebody is warming me up and no complains whatsoever.My senses are all alert.
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You should have said so earlier, instead of allowing me waste my little strength trying to make you see the light, when you already have sunshine in your life!

Natasha,,:

somebody help me please i'm swimming in the ocean of confusion

toba:

Aunty welcome. Missed u.