AsomArchitectNG:
Madam, ur story is quite pathetic as i don't know if it's true or not. Nevertheless I'll advise you give him some space for the time being, don't quite the marriage yet for the sake of ur children, you can move out of his house and get a place to stay. I'm sure he'll come around.

DWJOBScom:
You should leave and get a lawyer in your church(e get why) to handle the issue.
Have all the assets in your name or your daughters
And quit as your husband will ruin everything and of course get you infested.
Improve your business and make it bigger and move. Don't believe a line of what he says about you as you are a beautiful , successful and hardworking lady
You don't need a man to feel higher or lesser
Well done

*most men and women sometimes needs a break to have a reset or rethink

Seriously, some of the responses here will make you believe some people actually smoke lots of ganja before they pick up their phone upside down and start reading before they unleash their comment

AsomArchitectNG:
Madam, ur story is quite pathetic as i don't know if it's true or not. Nevertheless I'll advise you give him some space for the time being, don't quite the marriage yet for the sake of ur children, you can move out of his house and get a place to stay. I'm sure he'll come around.

Life2020:
Hi guys
please i need some mature advise.
since i was fifteen, i have been with my husband. we dated for 6 years before we got married because he's my first and only love, have always had a soft spot for him but now I'm officially tired.
Now i was born poor but i vow that i wouldn't die poor, since i finish my secondary school education, have been hustling. To God be the glory i have a good business that i make money from.
my husband and i married young and we promise to build each other. the problem is my husband, he attended the university but i didn't, our goal was that after he graduated, he will find a good job but that didn't work out. when he was in school, i started a farming business and like i said to God be the glory it has been successful.
since i had money, i asked him what business will he like to do, he said he wants to sell cars, the problem is i don't have that kind of money. car business is very expensive and i just finished building the little house we live in, i tried to explain to him and after much consideration he agreed, that yes the business is too expensive. he later decided in land selling, meaning he will buy and sell lands and also help people to sell lands. i had two small plots of land which i gave him to start up the business. at first everything was fine but i soon start to see a new side to him.
as the money was pouring in so was his pride. he started coming home late, cheating on me and being rude. when i discovered he was cheating on me, i stopped having sex with him because i don't want to get infected with any STD. i kept tolerating to save my marriage, his family told me he will change, i didn't want anybody to know about my marriage problems so i kept quite.
now the problem is, i have decided that i want to further my education, i want to study accounting, so that u can grow my business, now my husband is against this because he wants me bare more children. we already have twins, he said no that i should bare children first before going to school and if i do that i will have to delay my plans for another 4 to 5 years because i can't leave my baby because they will be too young.
second he says he wants to start having sex with me, i said nop, he should first do a full STD test. because of that we have been quarreling i don't know what type of lady he might have had sex with and what type of infection she might have carried. he should do test first then we start have sex.
thirdly he has started being emotional abusive, he insults my body and makes me feel useless, he usually tells me how other girls are looking beautiful and i look like a clown. he insults everything about me from my body to my face, my self esteem is at an all time low, i keep going to the gym and i have reduced a lot, people keep praising my beauty but my own husband see me as ugly.

I'm getting tired of this marriage and I'm planning to leave. I'm not happy, i feel ugly, he cheats on me, doesn't support my dreams. i don't want my daughters to grow up and think this is normal. i know that if i wasn't the quite type, he would have laid his hands on me. each time he insults me, i just keep quite, i say nothing because i know if i say anything he might beat me.
sometimes for 2 weeks or more, i don't see him. i have already made up my mind that next year I'm going to write jamb. i want to be educated.
please advise is it right to leave this hell called marriage because even if i stay because of my kids, it doesn't matter because he's never around. we rarely see him. it's like am a single mom

VictorUSA:
Why are you even advising the useless animal not to leave the man? That good man has finally liberated himself from the useless cheat. Life2020 may thunder scatter ya left yansh. You are a chronic cheat and may you rot in hell.

Life2020:
Hi guys
please i need some mature advise.
since i was fifteen, i have been with my husband. we dated for 6 years before we got married because he's my first and only love, have always had a soft spot for him but now I'm officially tired.
Now i was born poor but i vow that i wouldn't die poor, since i finish my secondary school education, have been hustling. To God be the glory i have a good business that i make money from.
my husband and i married young and we promise to build each other. the problem is my husband, he attended the university but i didn't, our goal was that after he graduated, he will find a good job but that didn't work out. when he was in school, i started a farming business and like i said to God be the glory it has been successful.
since i had money, i asked him what business will he like to do, he said he wants to sell cars, the problem is i don't have that kind of money. car business is very expensive and i just finished building the little house we live in, i tried to explain to him and after much consideration he agreed, that yes the business is too expensive. he later decided in land selling, meaning he will buy and sell lands and also help people to sell lands. i had two small plots of land which i gave him to start up the business. at first everything was fine but i soon start to see a new side to him.
as the money was pouring in so was his pride. he started coming home late, cheating on me and being rude. when i discovered he was cheating on me, i stopped having sex with him because i don't want to get infected with any STD. i kept tolerating to save my marriage, his family told me he will change, i didn't want anybody to know about my marriage problems so i kept quite.
now the problem is, i have decided that i want to further my education, i want to study accounting, so that u can grow my business, now my husband is against this because he wants me bare more children. we already have twins, he said no that i should bare children first before going to school and if i do that i will have to delay my plans for another 4 to 5 years because i can't leave my baby because they will be too young.
second he says he wants to start having sex with me, i said nop, he should first do a full STD test. because of that we have been quarreling i don't know what type of lady he might have had sex with and what type of infection she might have carried. he should do test first then we start have sex.
thirdly he has started being emotional abusive, he insults my body and makes me feel useless, he usually tells me how other girls are looking beautiful and i look like a clown. he insults everything about me from my body to my face, my self esteem is at an all time low, i keep going to the gym and i have reduced a lot, people keep praising my beauty but my own husband see me as ugly.

I'm getting tired of this marriage and I'm planning to leave. I'm not happy, i feel ugly, he cheats on me, doesn't support my dreams. i don't want my daughters to grow up and think this is normal. i know that if i wasn't the quite type, he would have laid his hands on me. each time he insults me, i just keep quite, i say nothing because i know if i say anything he might beat me.
sometimes for 2 weeks or more, i don't see him. i have already made up my mind that next year I'm going to write jamb. i want to be educated.
please advise is it right to leave this hell called marriage because even if i stay because of my kids, it doesn't matter because he's never around. we rarely see him. it's like am a single mom

Life2020:
it's like am a single mom

Just in case this story is true.

if you do not fight for yourself now that you have made up your mind, you might never get the chance to do so.
A man that shames you left and right, how can you trust his reason for telling you not to go to school?
This is your chance to receive more business and global insight through the APPLICATION OF EDUCATION (and not necessarily the certificate, it is just paper to a boss like you). Your marriage will still go on if he want it to work and it will still be a big mess if he keeps acting like a child according to your story. but If you miss this train...

AsomArchitectNG:


Easy bro. Life isn't supposed to be difficult... Marriages still works, it all depends on what we want. I quite understand that the woman has done her bit in ensuring a smooth and stress free marriage life but the man isn't coming around. Best thing is to give the man some space instead of quitting.

Zonefree:
Do you have any proof your husband is cheating on you? Don't you think you refusing to have sex with him made him to start sleeping outside?

He started coming back late the moment you stopped having sex with him.

You think writing JAMB and gaining admission will have any effect on your marriage? If you like go to Harvard or Cambridge university, it will never solve your marital problems. Sit your husband down and address the issue and stop starving him with sex. Food and Quality sex is the two ways to a man's heart.

Life2020:
Hi guys
please i need some mature advise.
since i was fifteen, i have been with my husband. we dated for 6 years before we got married because[b]he's my first and only love, have always had a soft spot for him[/b]but now I'm

VictorUSA:
Sir do you believe that crap she typed? Let's hear the man's side of the story. Women are so manipulative and good in mind gaming. Life2020 you have gotten what you want: DMs by men.

Red02:



It's like that's one of your monikers

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