A friend of mine committed incest with her kinswoman whom he cannot marry. According to him, he was seduced by the girl. He just told me this now weeping uncontrollably. Can God forgive him without having to confess to the village people? He intends to confess to his Pastor. He's been living with the guilt ever since What's the way forward or your advice for him?

no need telling anybody. He should just ask God for mercy and stop the act.

[[b]quote author=culf post=117863359]no need telling anybody. He should just ask God for mercy and stop the act.






Thank you my dear. He's actually looking at the traditional aspect of it. Does/would it have any implication?

DollarBag:
[[b]quote author=culf post=117863359]no need telling anybody. He should just ask God for mercy and stop the act.






Thank you my dear. He's actually looking at the traditional aspect of it. Does/would it have any implication?

forget traditional stuffs, its only affect those that believe in it. God mercy is all we all need.

culf:



forget traditional stuffs, its only affect those that believe in it. God mercy is all we all need.

Thank you very much dear

DollarBag:
A friend of mine committed incest with her kinswoman whom he cannot marry. According to him, he was seduced by the girl. He just told me this now weeping uncontrollably. Can God forgive him without having to confess to the village people? He intends to confess to his Pastor. He's been living with the guilt ever since What's the way forward or your advice for him?

You mean to say you committed incest?
Well you enjoy the kombi shall.
Does your pastor has power to forgive sin?

DollarBag:





Thank you very much dear

Because that's what you want to hear.
Them tied your hands and legs to where she seduced you?

You or your friend? Wether you are forgiven or not there is going to be a repercussion.

Who was it done with?? Immediate or distant relative??

The story never clear

With whom exactly

[quote author=tellsblinks post=117867074]Who was it done with?? Immediate or distant relative??

The story never clear[/quote





Distant relative dear. She's a member of his kindred. Of course they're considered as one big family. He's just telling me now that her mother was pregnant before she married her father which means that she's not the biological daughter of her father.

[quote author=Foodqueen post=117867568]With whom exactly



A distant relative dear. She's a member of his kindred. Of course they're considered as one big family. He's just telling me now that her mother was pregnant before she married her father which means that she's not the biological daughter of her father.

DollarBag:




Thank you very much dear

you're welcome

Show me your friend.........?

Ediot Keep your pen!!s one place. In a bid for free sex, some of you will soon start ynashing your mother. The repercussions for incest is Death, disease, illuck. You go explain tire to your unborn child when these curses starts manifesting in your life.

Can you cover it for long? Incest has serious implications. You may need to confess to a parental figure in your family before the consequences start raining on you and the said lady.

Incest is no joke, bro. Confess and endure whatever shameful punishment is meted on you two.

culf:
no need telling anybody. He should just ask God for mercy and stop the act.

Your head should be examined. I doubt you have read five percent of the Bible. If you haven't, let me give you an assignment. Look up these names in the Bible and find out what befell them after engaging in such sexual folly: Reuben, Amnon and Absalom.

Maybe you think incest is a joke. Dude has to confess and bear any shameful punishment that follows. As it stands, he is cursed. And that curse could open him up to sudden death, series of failures, marital failure, dysfunctional offsprings, and so much more.

If he still has parents, he should let them know. They would be able to help him make amends.

I don laugh tire, someone who is sleeping with another mans husband will come into this thread and also condemn the OP.

Black man with is black mind and hypocrisy...

[quote author=mastermaestro post=117878245]

Your head should be examined. I doubt you have read five percent of the Bible. If you haven't, let me give you an assignment. Look up these names in the Bible and find out what befell them after engaging in such sexual folly: Reuben, Amnon and Absalom.

Maybe you think incest is a joke. Dude has to confess and bear any shameful punishment that follows. As it stands, he is cursed. And that curse could open him up to sudden death, series of failures, marital failure, dysfunctional offsprings, and so much more.

If he still has parents, he should let them know. They would be able to help him make amends. [/quite]

next time stay off my mention Mr better head. Mr Bible scholar, I'm sure that you're aware that though the law is not been thrown away but we are not walking by the law but by Grace through faith in Christ. Are you also aware that mercy triumph over judgement and God can choose to be merciful to anyone He choose and that mercy supersede any judgement?
Christ came to fulfilled the law, through the law non can be righteous but we no longer live by the law but the grace through Christ Jesus.
Mr correct head, stay off my mention next time. thank you.

#op, no allow anyone put fear in you, ask God for forgiveness and try not to repeat it again. ask for God's mercy, it surpasses any judgement or punishment If God chooses to be merciful to you. fervently ask for His mercy.

Supa Tori

DollarBag:
A friend of mine committed incest with her kinswoman whom he cannot marry. According to him, he was seduced by the girl. He just told me this now weeping uncontrollably. Can God forgive him without having to confess to the village people? He intends to confess to his Pastor. He's been living with the guilt ever since What's the way forward or your advice for him?

He's forgiven already .

No need confessing to village people cos most of them have unforgiving spirit.

He's read all your submissions. He's saying thank you all. God bless you all. Keep more of your comments coming. He will read them all. Appreciations.

phemmyfour:
He's forgiving already .

No need confessing to village people cos most of them have unforgiving spirit.

He said he wants to confess to his Pastor. What about that?

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Thank you very much my dear. God bless you

DollarBag:




He said he wants to confess to his Pastor. What about that?

Sure that's cool

Believers are meant to confess their sins to one another

Confess your sins one to another so that you may be healed” (James 5:16).

Stop disguising, it’s you who committed the incest

phemmyfour:
Sure that's cool

Believers are meant to confess their sins to one another

Confess your sins one to another so that you may be healed” (James 5:16).

Thank you very much for showing concern. God bless, keep, protect and provide for IJN. Amen.

Rozross:
Stop disguising, it’s you who committed the incest

That's not a problem dear. Wether me or anyone else, it's what it's. Chill.

Rozross:
Stop disguising, it’s you who committed the incest

Don't mind the silly op. I really hate it whenever I see post like this that says it's about a friend when we all know it's them ( like the op) that the story is about.

DollarBag:
A friend of mine committed incest with her kinswoman whom he cannot marry. According to him, he was seduced by the girl. He just told me this now weeping uncontrollably. Can God forgive him without having to confess to the village people? He intends to confess to his Pastor. He's been living with the guilt ever since What's the way forward or your advice for him?

First of all it happened to you and not a friend.

When you say kinswoman, it doesn't show that the said girl is closely related. You need to be open and say whether it was your blood sister or first cousin or niece. Stop playing with us.

You committed incest.




Uhm….. you really gotta stop tho
Pussay is cheaper than pizza these days.
Don’t be unfortunate.