Please do most couples enjoy marriage on the average? If yes, then nowadays marriage is still very hopeful and attractive...

If you know better statistics, you can contribute

Marriage is not for "enjoy". Marriage is WORK!
That's what most people don't get

ebubeson:
Please do most couples enjoy marriage on the average? If yes, then nowadays marriage is still very hopeful and attractive...

If you know better statistics, you can contribute

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I regret getting married every second of the day!

Marriage go sweet a times and e go bitter a times but if na only bitter you dey feel. Quit. Because this life na one come.

Life is too precious to live it with someone you know longer want in your life.

huptin:
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I regret getting married every second of the day!

Brother me why na? What is the matter?

huptin:
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I regret getting married every second of the day!

There is a reason why our fathers had more than 2 wives.... Look at oni of ife

huptin:
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I regret getting married every second of the day!

You’re not alone. Like 4 of my married friends tell me same, sad and depressed.
May God console you married folks

Meanwhile, I get clean iPhone 7+ 128gb for sale. No issues at all, buy and use.

If it’s work as you say, why put oneself through something that’ll be work till one of you dies or the contract is cancelled?

PoliteActivist:
Marriage is not for "enjoy". Marriage is WORK!
That's what most people don't get

AdamuKD:

Brother me why na? What is the matter?

Can't say the reasons on a public forum suffice it to say that women will always treat a kind man badly...they prefer the bad ones.

huptin:


Can't say the reasons on a public forum suffice it to say that women will always treat a kind man badly...they prefer the bad ones.

You are very right. I am a guy of 35 years but this is my second Marriage. My first Marriage was hell. It lasted on 7 months. We did wedding and event at keffi barrack . But the lady was just too stubborn and wicked.
For the sake of my life, I ran away and married another early last year. This happened 2017. So marriage is not a do or die affairs. Already, I am happy with this one now.
The lady in question is from Kebbi state, Zuru by tribe

Marriage is a 21century scam.

PerfectStranger:

You’re not alone. Like 4 of my married friends tell me same, sad and depressed.
May God console you married folks

Meanwhile, I get clean iPhone 7+ 128gb for sale. No issues at all, buy and use.

how much is the phone?

Sunnepha:
how much is the phone?

I can give out for 70k

Timoleon:
If it’s work as you say, why put oneself through something that’ll be work till one of you dies or the contract is cancelled?

Same reason it is more satisfying to make something though it is work, than to just chill and make nothing. Same reason it is more satisfying to engage in productive work than to stay idle and just be given money

PoliteActivist:


Same reason it is more satisfying to make something though it is work, than to just chill and make nothing. Same reason it is more satisfying to engage in productive work than to stay idle and just be given money

These are mere assumptions. ASUU staff wouldn’t be asking for the salary from 8 months which they did not work. If you ask the average human that if their employers gave them the option not to report to work while their salaries remained constant, how many percent of them do you think will choose to keep going to work?
The length and breadth of Nigeria is filled with abandoned projects, you think the people who abandoned the projects and embezzles the monies feel unsatisfied?
Even your everyday artisan would spend your money without worry and leave you chasing them up and down to complete what you contracted them to do.


Honestly, your answer didn’t cut it but peace unto you. To each his own.

Timoleon:
These are mere assumptions. ASUU staff wouldn’t be asking for the salary from 8 months which they did not work. If you ask the average human that if their employers gave them the option not to report to work while their salaries remained constant, how many percent of them do you think will choose to keep going to work?
The length and breadth of Nigeria is filled with abandoned projects, you think the people who abandoned the projects and embezzles the monies feel unsatisfied?
Even your everyday artisan would spend your money without worry and leave you chasing them up and down to complete what you contracted them to do.


Honestly, your answer didn’t cut it but peace unto you. To each his own.

You don't get.
Look at it this way: having and raising a child is WORK. Having to maintain a schedule with a spouse is WORK.
It is much easier to not have to do any of these things
BUT it is not as SATISFYING.

Can you prove that it is not as satisfying?

PoliteActivist:


You don't get.
Look at it this way: having and raising a child is WORK. Having to maintain a schedule with a spouse is WORK.
It is much easier to not have to do any of these things
BUT it is not as SATISFYING.

PoliteActivist:
Marriage is not for "enjoy". Marriage is WORK!
That's what most people don't get

Marriage is for enjoyment oga.

Timoleon:
Can you prove that it is not as satisfying?

For the MAJORITY of people (not everyone) it is more satisfying to have a family you have to cater for plus the societal recognition and "belong" that comes with it, than to keep your money and enjoy it as you wish.

Michelle70:
Marriage is for enjoyment oga.

If you want enjoyment and freedom, stay single.
If you want WORK and the satisfaction that comes from work and societal recognition and "belong", get married

Marriage can be hell when you marry a stranger. But above All, the character of a woman makes the house to be what it is

You are still making blanket statements. What experiments back up these claims? What’s your proof?

PoliteActivist:


For the MAJORITY of people (not everyone) it is more satisfying to have a family you have to cater for plus the societal recognition and "belong" that comes with it, than to keep your money and enjoy it as you wish.

Wotoporiously speaking

No, they enjoy constant availability of sex only

This days 90-95% of marriage's are only enjoyed online.

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Timoleon:
You are still making blanket statements. What experiments back up these claims? What’s your proof?

Common sense and people's experience. Otherwise no one would get married nor have children. How is being tied to one person by a vow and having children to raise, how are those things not added responsibility and burden??

Of course they are added responsibilities and ultimately a burden which gave birth to my question if marriage ultimately brings about a burden, why bother?

PoliteActivist:


Common sense and people's experience. Otherwise no one would get married nor have children. How is being tied to one person by a vow and having children to raise, how are those things not added responsibility and burden??

Timoleon:
Of course they are added responsibilities and ultimately a burden which gave birth to my question if marriage ultimately brings about a burden, why bother?

Which brought about my answer:
For most people a burden coupled with societal recognition and "belong" is more satisfying than a burdenless life.
This quote sorta captures it:

huptin:


Can't say the reasons on a public forum suffice it to say that women will always treat a kind man badly...they prefer the bad ones.

You are the one who deliberately or ignorantly went for bad women when you wanted to married and stop generalising pls. (Provided ur woman is even at fault)

AdamuKD:

You are very right. I am a guy of 35 years but this is my second Marriage. My first Marriage was hell. It lasted on 7 months. We did wedding and event at keffi barrack . But the lady was just too stubborn and wicked.
For the sake of my life, I ran away and married another early last year. This happened 2017. So marriage is not a do or die affairs. Already, I am happy with this one now.
The lady in question is from Kebbi state, Zuru by tribe

When you married right you will enjoy marriage and wen u married wrong u will regret the marriage, no other definition for that.
I'm very sure, you carefully went for good character after ur failed marriage, what happened to you is what is happening to many guys/ladies wen they married in their first attempt.

Many married wrong person mainly cos of physical attraction they had for each other and not good character, they believe things we changed after marriage, but instead, it continuing agravating, meanwhile, most are unfortunately to have opotunity to remarry as u did.

Ok

PoliteActivist:


Which brought about my answer:
For most people a burden coupled with societal recognition and "belong" is more satisfying than a burdenless life.
This quote sorta captures it:

Fiscus105:



When you married right you will enjoy marriage and wen u married wrong u will regret the marriage, no other definition for that.
I'm very sure, you carefully went for good character after ur failed marriage, what happened to you is what is happening to many guys/ladies wen they married in their first attempt.

Many married wrong person mainly cos of physical attraction they had for each other and not good character, they believe things we changed after marriage, but instead, it continuing agravating, meanwhile, most are unfortunately to have opotunity to remarry as u did.

You are right. I later connect to my former girlfriend when I was in my 2year. She too married but it didn't work she came out of the marriage we connected and married. I would say I am the luckiest guy because we separated like 11 years ago but fate still brought us together. Now I am enjoying my marriage with my baby on the way in few weeks from now. We didn't have problem connecting because we dated for 3 years then. And we have both learnt from our past marriage mistakes. Everybody dey respect himself now because experience is the best teacher. How did you meet your wife? And which tribe are you?