Zonefree:
So, what advise do you need now?

Sadbwoy:
I honestly don't know I just wanted to get this off my chest

Zonefree:

Drink enough water, you'll be fine.

Sadbwoy:
It's just that I find it hard asking for help,I just don't want to be asking him,mind you if I ask I get little,I just wish he can be sending me even though it's10k before I finish college

Zonefree:

But, he doesn't owe you anything

Sadbwoy:
It's just that I find it hard asking for help,I just don't want to be asking him,mind you if I ask I get little,I just wish he can be sending me even though it's10k before I finish college

Whatever he gives you dear, take it with a thankful heart.. it's just the reality that he doesn't owe you anything...

He is taking care of the people he genuinely owe duty of financial help and care which happens to be your parents...so whatever he gives you is out of the generosity of his big heart

If you want to vent your anger, channel it to the Nigerian government.. they know how to get dressing allowance, make-up allowance, travel allowance and other allowances but forgets how to implement a law that can pay Nigerian students a little stipend..no matter how little, which can go a long way..

Ask questions during this election campaign process and get the information on who can help alleviate the suffering of the people just a little... I know it's difficult to solve all Nigeria problems but someone that can put a little cushion is required...vote for that individual..

The allowances the law makers are taking in Nigeria would have helped your situation... They are the ones owing you and not your brother..

Richy4:


Whatever he gives you dear, take it with a thankful heart.. it's just the reality that he doesn't owe you anything...

He is taking care of the people he genuinely owe duty of financial help and care which happens to be your parents...so whatever he gives you is out of the generosity of his big heart

If you want to vent your anger, channel it to the Nigerian government.. they know how to get dressing allowance, make-up allowance, travel allowance and other allowances but forgets how to implement a law that can pay Nigerian students a little stipend..no matter how little, which can go a long way..

Ask questions during this election campaign process and get the information on who can help alleviate the suffering of the people just a little... I know it's difficult to solve all Nigeria problems but someone that can put a little cushion is required...vote for that individual..

The allowances the law makers are taking in Nigeria would have helped your situation... They are the ones owing you and not your brother..

Sadbwoy:
Hello nairalanders,please I need you guys advice on something that's bothering me with my bro.

So I'm a college student,almost done,so it's about my bros if i ask him for money he doesn't like giving me,he makes about 400k a month and the only thing he sends for me is 2k in a month,sometimes if I'm lucky 5k,mind you growing up we were poor,he helps our parents a lot and I'm grateful for that,but I don't know why he doesn't like sending me money I hardly ask him and when I do i never get more than 5k,please I need you guys advice ,I don't who to talk to about this,wanna get this off my chest,I'm not asking for much but atleast 10k wouldn't be bad a month.i hope lalasticlala will push this front page

frozen70:


You can see he has line up of responsibilities on him, especially on your parents side

I will suggest you discuss this with your parents, especially your mum and ask her to talk with him on how less than 5k can't solve your needs

Am sure your mum will talk to him and their will be changes