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What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by hotwax: 12:07pm On Nov 21, 2022
From experience, I have learned that these male bestie friendship have a lot of dark corners and secrets. I have dated around 3 girls with male besties and I found out clearly and convincingly that all of them have/had sexual relationships with their so called besties. Or will still have it in the future.

What prompted me to write this post was what actually happened to my friend. His girlfriend has been nurturing a particular health complication. It was later discovered that she did D&C abortion which went out of control in the past. Now who did she abort for? HER BESTIE. She introduced this same bestie to my friend (her boyfriend). My friend even got close to this bestie. They go out clubbing together at times. My friend even meets this bestie in his girlfriend house and he thinks they are just besties.

Now we found out they have been having it. My friend is broken now. Sad and dejected.

For God sake, someone is your best friend, you two are tempted to have sex and you mistakenly had it. Why not go into a relationship? Why not get married? Why deceive the society.

Few years ago, one of my ex confessed to me that she had ‘MISTAKE’ sex with her bestie 4 times. How can you make mistake 1.2.3.4 times?
Whenever they have ‘mistake’ sex, they will both agree it must/should not happen again, but it keeps happening. She found out it happens whenever she wears leggings or cleavage bearing dress blabulabalo blah. I was like are you guys under a curse? You people have feelings for eachother, but decided to invite a thirdparty to your hurtful game. I asked “So what stops you guys from dating officially?” She said “we are besties we can’t date”, but you can fck abi?

I had to conclude that girls keep male besties to satisfy their sexual fantasies while forming “holy thou hart” for main fiancé or boyfriend.
And funny enough, I have seen online posts in the past about how girls come out to boast about how they have besties and nothing happened between them. Now I realized they all lied. Even housewives too.

My girls all told me “NO, I should trust them…oh he is just my bestie…nothing of such can ever happen…I am not the kind of woman”
They later started saying “he mistakenly fondled my breast when we were playing”. Later it moved to “we mistakenly had sex once, but it never happened again”

Guys, run from girls with besties, that’s if you want to marry them, if not have fun and move when its time.

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Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by UnusualEmissary: 12:19pm On Nov 21, 2022
Of course, many people know by now that a girl's male bestie is a potential fvcker, especially when the girl is emotional and needs support.

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Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by hotwax: 2:12pm On Nov 21, 2022
UnusualEmissary:
Of course, many people know by now that a girl's male bestie is a potential fvcker, especially when the girl is emotional and needs support.

true that
Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by headbasher96(m): 2:14pm On Nov 21, 2022
Believe all this oloshos parading themselves as decent girls at your own peril

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Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by hotwax: 3:22pm On Nov 21, 2022
headbasher96:
Believe all this oloshos parading themselves as decent girls at your own peril

i don tire for them
Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by Aboks(m): 3:28pm On Nov 21, 2022
Is there any thing like mistake in having sex


Abi the prick fall inside her pussy by mistake
Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by marlow1962(m): 4:30pm On Nov 21, 2022
Aboks:
Is there any thing like mistake in having sex


Abi the prick fall inside her pussy by mistake
Nahh

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Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by Ballzproblem2: 4:34pm On Nov 21, 2022
BESTIE=side guy
Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by fineberry(m): 4:55pm On Nov 21, 2022
Believe the bestie thing at your own detriment, I cannot agree to be any bodies beatie bcus I know.say one.day na.one day I go Bleep you and I can't allow any.girls to tell.me one bestie crap
Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by headbasher96(m): 5:12pm On Nov 21, 2022
hotwax:


i don tire for them
i tell u
Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by yyba: 5:35pm On Nov 21, 2022
Don't believe anything like bestee oo , i was once a girl bestee and we knack anyhow. Anytime they are together with the main guy and we meet by mistake, the mumu will be happy to meet me as per bestee things chaiii

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Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by Figger(m): 5:38pm On Nov 21, 2022
Another name for "bestie" fvck mate. Somebody pls give me that bestie meme of fone and charger.

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Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by Nobody: 8:19pm On Nov 21, 2022
Op you're right, by why can't these ladies come out clean and be truthful for once?
Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by chachanga: 9:41pm On Nov 21, 2022
Even some so-called gay dudes have dogged their cis female besties here

If that could happen, I wouldn't put past 2 full blooded heterosexuals to start together for long without bonding, emotional chemistry and the urge to link genitals.

Most continental Africans aren't really too mature for that kinda stuff. They seem hardwired to see stuff too much in either black or white!
Re: What You Need To Know About Females With Male Besties by hotwax: 10:07pm On Nov 21, 2022
bukky1994:
Op you're right, by why can't these ladies come out clean and be truthful for once?

why can't they day like normal people?

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