LordErrk:


So according to you, the world is spoilt because an 18 yr old, who is an adult, is having sex and enjoying her life...but you a 26 yr old adult virgin hasn't had sex.
Is like head is paining you. Ya'll carry this virginity of a thing on your head, as if it's worth anything. Lol

Kobojunkie:
It is worth nothing.

Vijuchoco:
Lol. Na you sabi o,
I remain team ATM, abstinence till marriage whether it's worth it or not.

LordErrk:


So according to you, the world is spoilt because an 18 yr old, who is an adult, is having sex and enjoying her life...but you a 26 yr old adult virgin hasn't had sex.
Is like head is paining you. Ya'll carry this virginity of a thing on your head, as if it's worth anything. Lol

Osanoghodua1:
Sorry brother, you're totally wrong. Give advise to a young girl from now till eternity, she will still have sex and unprotected one. I have teenages coming to my backyard to have sex, I do chase them and counsel them, last week, I was going to my poultry, I saw unknown guy standing at my free water tap, I ask do you want to fetch water ne replied nay! I move forward and saw my teenager neighbor dressing up to her uniform, she have been having sex and didn't go to school and dressing up to make it look she is coming from school, dey had sex elsewhere but came here to change. The Mum has begged me to help take care of the daughter, I can't because many things are involved with her mum herself. Just pray not to have an evil child.

fkj950ax:

[b] Why is a patient case history online?
The HIPAA you signed up for precludes you from doing this. Keeping her identity out is not enough.

efficiencie:


It is a case of parenting. Many parents today are immature, childish and themselves also need training. Religious institutions ought to step in a correct this social milieu or else it will be the end of this generation. Virginity needs to be brought back to the center of marriages and intimate relationships. Religious institutions need to start emphasizing it as a requirement for weddings. We need to stop liberalizing everything and understand that there are some rules that should not be broken because when they are broken the consequences could be catastrophic. Imagine a 16 year old going for family planning. Complete madness. If that girl was informed that the moment she loses her virginity her chances of getting married would fall from 95% to 5% she will discipline herself and keep her sexual purity. This would also completely eliminate the incidence of "side-chicry". Imagine the stupid mother. Like mother like daughter. She has passed ancestral/generational curse to her daughter and now she is seeking family planning for a 16 year old.

Vijuchoco:
Na wa o. I remember how some of my classmatess in FGGC Benin use to jump fence to meet Uniben boys. After jumping, is yeye me then that will pass their bags and return to the hostel. The authorities knew people were going over the fence but rarely ever caught anybody. The annoying thing is when they start talking about those they're suspecting, my name will always be mentioned. During PTA meeting, my mother even said her daughter is most likely among them, upon how I behave myself reach

I know how that is... Just blame it on your lack of innocent face

Richy4:

I just read that and I do understand the mother's fears.....

My ethnic group has a saying that a female chimpanzee says she doesn't trust her babies except the ones in her womb...she can't even trust the one she was carrying at her back because while she was carrying it at her back, she won't know when it may have stretched forth it's arms and grab a fruit from the tree and ate...

Where I fault the mother was for not accompanying a16yr old to the clinic .... That decision was not the same like buying an over the counter medication..

I have seen wonderful and exceptional families whom you can't fault in terms of parenting yet they got black sheep in their homes.. humans sometimes should be slow in terms of criticizing and shouting bad/ poor parenting...

If there's an afterlife, honestly, I won't like to come to the world as human... I will just stay over in heaven as one of the board of directors in heaven, Helping out families...I will propose in one of the meetings that some of these babies should come with a warning label just for the parents... Many parents are really suffering and can't tell where they went wrong...

Some label would say..
<<Nomatter what u do Jane will be Jane..
<<Highly inflammable Peter
<<100% Agreeable Sam..
<<Eze, 89% Egocentric
<<Kenneth, 95% chance of being a brat
<< Worldly/ fashionable Funke 99%
<< Don't lose your mind... This is Agatha
With that, many parent will know what they were dealing with...

And when the judgemental folks came knocking, U produce their factory manual and show them so that they can give u a breathing space...

Yankiss:


We need God and prayers to guide them. Enforcement of purity is possible and attainable only with God. .

ednut1:
Na wetin make all these blacks based abroad dey fat be this in addition to food. Those family planning stuff make them gain wait. So the daughter cant use condom

NoToPile:


Interesting submission

Whatever happened to teaching abstinence, where did we get it wrong.

What I see around nowadays make me feel as if some of us were not teenagers or youths at all. What happened?

As much as I wouldnt want to ascribe all cases to parenting this particular one seems to be a parenting case.

That aside is there something wrong with the parenting styles from the 2000s? Something is wrong somewhere.

I am a strong believer that except in exceptional cases parenting is an important factor.
It is well.

jeromestarks:


See bold.
Marry a virgin or your daughters will open yansh before they get married.
All these girls that have been fvcked by more than one man are a product of irresponsible mothers.

If you marry a non virgin, your children will also be Fvcked by many men and you might train another man's child as your own.


A virgin mother will be a mentor to her daughters. A whor3 mother is also a mentor to non virgins.
Girls are a copy of their mothers.


Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin. Nothing peace and good comes easy.

Richy4:

I don't think it's parenting honestly... A lot of parents preach abstinence at home..So kids acts like they were possessed by an unknown stuffs people can not place their hands on.

I have heard of a family, in the morning, they conduct morning devotion, pray before going out... In the night before they sleep, they pray as family before going to bed...

The parent were doing everything humanly possible to bring their children up based on the doctrine of train up a child the way he/she should go, so that when he/she grows up, they won't depart from it...

Now tell me why the second child of that family should get pregnant in such a warm family?.. Mind you, the kids doesn't lack any basic necessities...

efficiencie:


Madness. [s]I blame the churches and families that accept to make wives out of hoes.[/s] They will ask for genotype, blood group test and pregnancy test but they will not ask if the couples, especially the lady is sexually pure as a precondition for the solemnization of a marriage. Then when the couples start having sexually related issues in their marriage they will start rubbishing the marriage institution instead of calling out the fools that joined two misfits in an unholy matrimony. If every clergyman and every family enforced the virginity of ladies before marriage, this foolish mother will not allow her daughter have sex before marriage let alone going as far as recommending family planning for an underage girl and even the girl will never try any sexual nonsense knowing fully well she would be jeopardizing her chances of getting married. This will elevate the punishment for rape to capital punishment and will make rape victims easily prove their case.

Sanmel:
This happened in a well known family planning facility. We thought the young lady was lying until we asked for her mother's number and put a call through.
According to her, her daughter has a boyfriend and the boyfriend's father will soon celebrate his 70th birthday, she's not going to be there and she doesn't know how far the daughter has gone or will go with the boyfriend. She also said, she had all her children out of wedlock and she doesn't want same for her daughter, so she requested for her daughter to be counseled and a method chosen if necessary.

Just in case you're not aware, the Planned Parenthood Federation of Nigeria (PPFN) has extended it services to both singles and underage so far they're sexually active..

What are your thoughts on this topic?

efficiencie:


Madness. I blame the churches and families that accept to make wives out of hoes. They will ask for genotype, blood group test and pregnancy test but they will not ask if the couples, especially the lady is sexually pure as a precondition for the solemnization of a marriage. Then when the couples start having sexually related issues in their marriage they will start rubbishing the marriage institution instead of calling out the fools that joined two misfits in an unholy matrimony. If every clergyman and every family enforced the virginity of ladies before marriage, this foolish mother will not allow her daughter have sex before marriage let alone going as far as recommending family planning for an underage girl and even the girl will never try any sexual nonsense knowing fully well she would be jeopardizing her chances of getting married. This will elevate the punishment for rape to capital punishment and will make rape victims easily prove their case.

efficiencie:

jeromestarks:


A man simply releases sperm but a woman house the baby, feed the baby and nuture the baby inside her blood for nine whole months.

You're a copy of your irresponsible mother.


I and my family support marrying a virgin woman because my mother was a virgin when she met my dad and my dad is always proud to say it.

Can your mom say the same?
Can she proudly say that only one man has seen her nakedn3ess?

Can she say that no anyother man has touched her pvssy?

Can you make that proud statement?
Your mother can't.
You can't
Your daughters too won't be able to.

I won't be surprised if your grandma was also a cooperate whor3.

Shame on you.

Flamemignon1:

I'm so glad I was born in this century, can't even believe this is still a topic to ponder on

Sanmel:
This happened in a well known family planning facility. We thought the young lady was lying until we asked for her mother's number and put a call through.
According to her, her daughter has a boyfriend and the boyfriend's father will soon celebrate his 70th birthday, she's not going to be there and she doesn't know how far the daughter has gone or will go with the boyfriend. She also said, she had all her children out of wedlock and she doesn't want same for her daughter, so she requested for her daughter to be counseled and a method chosen if necessary.

Just in case you're not aware, the Planned Parenthood Federation of Nigeria (PPFN) has extended it services to both singles and underage so far they're sexually active..

What are your thoughts on this topic?

Richy4:


I know how that is... Just blame it on your lack of innocent face