Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

The asshole is an exit not an entry point. As long as you are going through the right socket with a commensurate plug, you can do any style you want. Sex is for married couples to pleasure themselves. Stop being a boring prude for the sake of your spouse.

Nothing can stop me from having anal with my wife and spilling my milk in her

The original sex style for all mammals according to Mother Nature is the dog style.

Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.

you can do anything in marriage so far the two people are cool with it...... Stop teaching people rubbish.... Where is it written in the Bible that missionary is the only permitted style in marriage mumu.

Bahamas95:
"This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.

my dear I thought it was me alone who dislike this people. Their character is disgusting. I'm a core christian and practice my religion with decency not primitive behavior

Hehehe

It is so obvious Op doesn't plan on ever getting married

Blessedmercy8:


Oh.. I see you're a cave man to know they had different styles.

Abeg, park one side. Your own no dey follow way.

just because we use garri to make eba does not mean we cannot soak it or fry it with stew. Or cooking beans, making it to moimoi, or frying it to akara, all na beans but with different taste. When you sleep with you wife, either front, sideways or doggy style etc. So long as your dick is inside the VJ, it is the same thing but with different taste.

" The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife. " - 1Cor 7:4 NLT

Whatever to do with each other's body is a decision of the couple. They are free , as long as it's not marital rape. ( Emphasis on " gives authority" showing consent. )

As long as e no do with to lick butt holes and other nonsenses.

TheirFADA:


God bless you o

like, you'll go to hell because of the style you use in knacking your wife

There's alot of ignorance in modern Christianity cos they don't study bt rather they cram what the pastors say and run with it.

All I see here is a dumb op asking a dumb question

Sex is not a spiritual thing but a carnal and fleshy thing.

Righteousness2:
When it comes to KNOWING yourselves as couples, GOD ALMIGHTY left Husband and wife to Know themselves. He didn't ask them to use this style or that style.

As long as you are legally married, Husband and wife should KNOW themselves as they desire.

As Humans, GOD gave us knowledge to know what is abnormal and what is not.
There is the right and Healthy channel to KNOWING your spouse.
However you wanna KNOW your spouse, do it through the right channel and to the Glory of GOD.

U said it all

God gave humans conscience to decide good and evil

Who even gave names to styles that couples must do in knowing themselves. Please, anyone that satisfy your spouse is accepted

❌❌They can go ahead to practice all
styles that aid procreation, but nothing
oral is allowed, because that is a wastage
of seed and the same mouth should be
used for worship, not licking pooosy ☹️☹️

In Islam, one can meet with your legitimate wife in different means except through anal...

Alhamdulillah

Perfectbeing:
Sex is not a spiritual thing but a carnal and fleshy thing.

In Islam sex don in the right way is a means of worship just like every other act...

Worship exceeds the bounds of worship places!

Yes

triple996:
Try every style u want as far as it's not anal..........islam

Ki lon je' anal ?,,,,,

Bahamas95:
"This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.

Na man you be. Just what I was reasoning going through this her ramble about Christian sexuality. Some people are just too subjective about it and try to push their own sexual preferences on others.

You said you representing youth yet you're talking like a man from 12th century. Even if the other styles e.g doggy, See-Saw etc were from mojo films, they are still the styles of the youths. You fall my hands o, no be in this world where many pastors have been caught with all kinds of styles on top other men wives? The last one was caught in vigorous doggy right inside the husband's room by the man himself. If you ask for my opinion, I'd say once you are married, you have been licensed to try all kinds of styles as long as you both enjoy it.

Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.

Who teaches and practices more sex styles than christians, in porn, in movies and in real life

Ginomel:


I want to assume you were in Bahamas in 1995 but if it was the day you were born, then you are too young for this

Too young to have sex at the my age? Do you expect me to start exploring different positions when I clock 60yrs?

Oga I got to enjoy snake in the monkey shadow and other styles now that am still young.....A time would come when I won't be able to move my waist anymore. The only thing that would give me joy then is to reminisce and smile.

Blessedmercy8:


Ok, thank you Sir.

More grace

Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.

because u re the founder and owner of christianity? That can now decide what happens in christiandom?

Question; where is it written that they did missionary sex position in the bible..

Infact if there is any style that i suspect happened in the bible days it will b doggie.. reason being.. no woman will like to take missionary position laying on hard ground.. since foam wasn't developed then..

Lastly who told u that our forefathers weren't trying those styles.. as if u were there then or have any book that they wrote it on.

Guy.. stop using ur mindset and culture to control others.. because christianity hasn't to do with ur culture, mindset but its God's word.

Starships4u:
Before nko

Is there a style mentioned it not mentioned in the Bible

How is a style godly or ungodly??

Imagine on judgement day

You get punished for doing doggy

Like angel gabriel go just cast u into lake of fire
Bcus of doggy �

For you to think that so other styles came from pornography is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard, at no point in your write up did you say anything that can be considered a rational thought, everybody is now dumber for having listened to you, I award you no points and may God have mercy on your soul.

See you. Upon all the teachings in the church you didn't see any other thing, like benefits of paying tithes, fasting and giving charitably. And you never marry o!

Go and do any style that you want. Sha, ensure it's with your wife.

Happy Sunday.

U can practice Digging deep style. Or u can pratice Buhari Style. I.e u will just stay ontop doing

Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christia
ns.

Are u christendom spokes person?