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Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(op): 9:04pm On Nov 27, 2022*

Good day Family..

Please I'll go straight and try to be brief I would be glad to have all the inputs to aid me.

I'll go straight to the point, I once dated this girl in school this year, she was a nice homely person and decent girl. It was love at first, we had a thing going for us, I cared for her we loved each other.

I noticed that she was the one that was sponsoring herself in sch she's 22yrs with little assistance from her mum she had some ideas for doing pos business(she has d machine) but not yet on full scale because she needed the right spot, funds and all those stuff.

I confronted her and she revealed to me that she had to borrow money from persons and loan apps just to meet up before, all this was before I met her. She has siblings brothers and sisters but none seems to be looking out for her.. Fast forward I lost my senior brother and I didn't seem to have her time all those while, she became arrogant and manipulative at some point.

But I only gave what I could afford to loose and kept going, the one that didn't really go well with me was when she said I should bring food stuff her because that period I was traveling(that made me very upset because of being in love that didn't exist) still I maintained my cool.

I was out for a while and I was occupied(my uncle was affected by the flood in Anambra also land dispute), we still chat but not as we used to do, so after some time of no communication I taught maybe she had moved on, I knew the relationship was hitting bottom rock not because I didn't like her again but because when I needed her she kept mute tho I kept my challenges from her I didn't want to explain myself to anybody.

She needed money for project in sch, bills were piling for her, persons she borrowed money at first before I met here were demanding for their money, I gave her 30k so she could sort herself out. Yet again she cut communication.

Maybe she wasn't interested anymore, that's was my resolve, I messaged her and simply asked if we should go our separate ways and her reply was "Yeah I'm sorry but I'm tired of it".. So I'm contemplating if i collect my funds back? I don't want to hurt anyone in anyway I understand that it's nt easy fr her nor persons out there too

Please pardon my typing and epistle, I need ur inputs NL family, thanks.

Re: Am I Wrong Here by ayoncox: 9:09pm On Nov 27, 2022

DonWest16:
Good day Family..

Please I'll go straight and I would be glad to have all the inputs to aid me.

What happened to you

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by Autobot05: 11:04pm On Nov 27, 2022

Let it go .
Learn not to give what you can't afford to let go of.
She'll come back begging later tho wink

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by Emma2Seconds: 11:17pm On Nov 27, 2022

Forget about it

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(op): 3:05pm On Nov 28, 2022

Autobot05:
Thanks man!

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by okunwaye(m): 5:29pm On Nov 28, 2022

Your typing is embarassed

Re: Am I Wrong Here by HopeNeverDies: 5:38pm On Nov 28, 2022

Brother! Just lock up about it and move on. 30k is not a total big deal. You’re gonna have much more than that…

Trust me, u guys gon jamn back again.

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by Alapojamesy: 5:54pm On Nov 28, 2022

Make she use the 30k as settlement

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by SPAMBOX7: 6:01pm On Nov 28, 2022

But I only gave what I could afford to loose

You gave out what you could afford to lose yet you still here asking if you should go take it back? Lmfao na why I no dey like advice anybody online cos too many niggas be doing the total opposite of things they type online.
Cos if you really meant the @embolden statement then why you asking if you should collect your money back? grin

That says you could be doing tough man online here but still go beg her in reality. So why advice you when your actions don't sync with your words huh

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by zed7: 7:44pm On Nov 28, 2022

Let it go, some investments are bad investments, not every investment pays off.
By the way, this is money you said you can afford to lose, so what's your problem?

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by Autobot05: 10:03pm On Nov 28, 2022

[quote author=DonWest16 post=118749015][/quote]We cool bruh .... She's gonna be back ... just know where to put her a d how to act when the time comes .. ignore the past feelings and treat her like she choosed to be treated ..

Re: Am I Wrong Here by TheboyGhost(m): 10:07pm On Nov 28, 2022

DonWest16:
Good day Family..

Please I'll go straight and try to be brief I would be glad to have all the inputs to aid me.

I'll go straight to the point, I once dated this girl in school this year, she was a nice homely person and decent girl. It was love at first, we had a thing going for us, I cared for her we loved each other.

I noticed that she was the one that was sponsoring herself in sch she's 22yrs with little assistance from her mum she had some ideas for doing pos business(she has d machine) but not yet on full scale because she needed the right spot, funds and all those stuff.

I confronted her and she revealed to me that she had to borrow money from persons and loan apps just to meet up before, all this was before I met her. She has siblings brothers and sisters but none seems to be looking out for her.. Fast forward I lost my senior brother and I didn't seem to have her time all those while, she became arrogant and manipulative at some point.

But I only gave what I could afford to loose and kept going, the one that didn't really go well with me was when she said I should bring food stuff her because that period I was traveling(that made me very upset because of being in love that didn't exist) still I maintained my cool.

I was out for a while and I was occupied(my uncle was affected by the flood in Anambra also land dispute), we still chat but not as we used to do, so after some time of no communication I taught maybe she had moved on, I knew the relationship was hitting bottom rock not because I didn't like her again but because when I needed her she kept mute tho I kept my challenges from her I didn't want to explain myself to anybody.

She needed money for project in sch, bills were piling for her, persons she borrowed money at first before I met here were demanding for their money, I gave her 30k so she could sort herself out. Yet again she cut communication.

Maybe she wasn't interested anymore, that's was my resolve, I messaged her and simply asked if we should go our separate ways and her reply was "Yeah I'm sorry but I'm tired of it".. So I'm contemplating if i collect my funds back? I don't want to hurt anyone in anyway I understand that it's nt easy fr her nor persons out there too

Please pardon my typing and epistle, I need ur inputs NL family, thanks.

Well I have said this times and times already....

Don't give to a woman and expect something in return....

Give and forget (lots of disappointment if you are expecting something in return)

If you try to get that money back, there is 89% chances you will not get it....

Just forget and move on with your lessons learnt....

I did not say our women should not be helped and taken care of when necessary...

I am only saying "whatever you do for a woman should be something you will not regret later in the future"

Just like when they say "Invest what you can lose and forget"

Re: Am I Wrong Here by ayoncox: 5:01am On Nov 29, 2022

DonWest16:
Good day Family..

Please I'll go straight and try to be brief I would be glad to have all the inputs to aid me.

I'll go straight to the point, I once dated this girl in school this year, she was a nice homely person and decent girl. It was love at first, we had a thing going for us, I cared for her we loved each other.

I noticed that she was the one that was sponsoring herself in sch she's 22yrs with little assistance from her mum she had some ideas for doing pos business(she has d machine) but not yet on full scale because she needed the right spot, funds and all those stuff.

I confronted her and she revealed to me that she had to borrow money from persons and loan apps just to meet up before, all this was before I met her. She has siblings brothers and sisters but none seems to be looking out for her.. Fast forward I lost my senior brother and I didn't seem to have her time all those while, she became arrogant and manipulative at some point.

But I only gave what I could afford to loose and kept going, the one that didn't really go well with me was when she said I should bring food stuff her because that period I was traveling(that made me very upset because of being in love that didn't exist) still I maintained my cool.

I was out for a while and I was occupied(my uncle was affected by the flood in Anambra also land dispute), we still chat but not as we used to do, so after some time of no communication I taught maybe she had moved on, I knew the relationship was hitting bottom rock not because I didn't like her again but because when I needed her she kept mute tho I kept my challenges from her I didn't want to explain myself to anybody.

She needed money for project in sch, bills were piling for her, persons she borrowed money at first before I met here were demanding for their money, I gave her 30k so she could sort herself out. Yet again she cut communication.

Maybe she wasn't interested anymore, that's was my resolve, I messaged her and simply asked if we should go our separate ways and her reply was "Yeah I'm sorry but I'm tired of it".. So I'm contemplating if i collect my funds back? I don't want to hurt anyone in anyway I understand that it's nt easy fr her nor persons out there too

Please pardon my typing and epistle, I need ur inputs NL family, thanks.

If it's a borrow collect your money back. Meanwhile except you are a low value guy yourself don't date low value ladies, you will ever regret it

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(op): 5:55am On Nov 29, 2022

Autobot05:
I appreciate this thanks boss

Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(op): 5:58am On Nov 29, 2022

TheboyGhost:
Well said, I'll implement this!

Thanks bruh.

Re: Am I Wrong Here by Kiddogarcia(m): 10:42am On Nov 29, 2022

I sincerely can't comprehend everything.
So I don't know where to come in.

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Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(op): 12:26pm On Nov 29, 2022

Kiddogarcia:
Bruh sorry for that.

At the end there was a question attached to the story, that was where ur input was needed mostly..

Re: Am I Wrong Here by emmyluizzz: 4:40pm On Nov 29, 2022

someone who cannot even write a clear simple English is looking for love and advice

op be very careful....

Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(op): 4:56pm On Nov 29, 2022

emmyluizzz:
chief, pardon my use of English.

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