Mynd_44:

You have answered the question already. It is because of where he grew up. Society have big influences on our lives and they shape how we think but that does not mean all guys think like that

Lax75:

Mrs Chima, you can use pet names on me anyday, so far as I suggest them :-)

But seriously, I could give a flying porkchop if I had a girlfriend that uses petnames on other guys. It's her actions towards the guys that sends a stronger signal of what the intentions are. But come to think of it ooooo, my boss (who is a female, married and a CFO) has referred to me as "baby." I don't think that is appropriate ooo. Kai! She has even told me that I am eye candy! Dead serious! I think I should find another gig.

Mrs.Chima:

My husband has his special words that I have reserved strictly for him and hardly calls him by his government name unless necessary.  But I will call you suga in a heart beat because that what we call everybody in my hometown. I don't think there is nothing wrong with calling someone sweety or sugar in my opinion as long as it is innocent.

Now I had men call me some pet names that would make a blind man see and the lame man walk.  Now the fact your boss calling you baby and call you eye candy that a red flag!  You do not want to get involved because you don't know what you are dealing with blindly.  

Mrs.Chima:

I understand that how he was raised plays a big part of how he thinks his girlfriend should be however his girlfriend wasn't raised in the same environment as he so therefore he should have taken that in consideration.

I can understand when I hear people say they prefer to marry someone that is from the same culture as them because it is much easier however if you decides to step outside of your culture then you too have to be tolerable and understanding that the person whom you are in a relationship with may have a different cultural expectations.

What considered a sin in one culture may not be considered a sin in another culture.

Mrs.Chima:

I understand that how he was raised plays a big part of how he thinks his girlfriend should be however his girlfriend wasn't raised in the same environment as he so therefore he should have taken that in consideration.

I can understand when I hear people say they prefer to marry someone that is from the same culture as them because it is much easier however if you decides to step outside of your culture then you too have to be tolerable and understanding that the person whom you are in a relationship with may have a different cultural expectations.

What considered a sin in one culture may not be considered a sin in another culture.

Mynd_44:

^^^
Mrs Chima, its not very fun when you ask questions and you answer them yourself

5stardude:

whatever happens in vegas stays in vegas

Lax75:

^^^^ "Whareffa!" But that girl was CRAAAAZZZYYYYY!!!! Any female co-worker that tried to talk to me, it was war! And me being a private guy, I had absolutely no privacy. She knew I hated my business out there and she really spread my "gospel."