FreshFarmAgro:
Where are you going to ? Let's begin from here

DCmaverick:


going to hustle na

FreshFarmAgro:



Huste is not a place. We need to ascertain your safety and all. Many have left home only to go join confrantaneties and later get killed

If what you're going to do doesnt have description and where you're go to doesn't have proper description. My friend, better stay at home

Even in US now, it's not a shame to be home to 35 plus

DCmaverick:


am actually going to a friend place

FreshFarmAgro:



What does the friend do for a living ?

What are the negative habits of the friend you are going to stay with ?

Have you considered that you both can become bitter enemies tomorrow and if you both do, on his turf, he can inflict great harm on you?

Have you not considered the idea of working with the friend from your house?


Have you considered other opportunities you can do without going to live in with a friend?

actually i havent done any transactions with him but i just think am older staying with my parent
Have you shared money with the friend before to know his behavior towards money? You do not know anyone until they have been tested with money. If you must leave,do three transactions with him before leaving. You will know whom he is truly then

DCmaverick:
Hello nairalanders

Am about to take another challenge of life( leaving my parents care), i think am about to face another aspect of life. Am still a student but i think it high time i leave their care

Please i need ur advice on this or should i rethink my decisions

FreshFarmAgro:



Go and apply for POS work. Start with 30,000 Naira salary per month. Your parents feed you and you contribute to the house. Save 20,000 Naira per month. Twelve months,240,000 Naira. After this, start your own POS business and you can make up to 60,000 Naira per month, save 40,000 Naira out of it per month, this is an annual income of 480,000 Naira


Better than taking risky moves you are unaware of its consequences

womaniser:
Like earlier said, stay at home. True independence is financial independence.

Except you have a 'consistent' source of income, you should remain under guardianship.

Without money, life will toss you like a ragdoll. You can't entrust your being to anyone, not your friends or your relatives.

Get a good job or business then get your place.

DCmaverick:


i think u are giving me the best advice i can get for this time, thanks dear

FreshFarmAgro:



I'm an oracle. I'm hardly wrong

DCmaverick:
Hello nairalanders

Am about to take another challenge of life( leaving my parents care), i think am about to face another aspect of life. Am still a student but i think it high time i leave their care

Please i need ur advice on this or should i rethink my decisions

sisisioge:
Dont go anywhere biko. You don't sound anywhere around being ready to face being on your own. Stay at home please and get a job instead. Good luck.

Sisi, How person wey ready to stay alone dey sound? At least there should be some level of uncertainty on his voice now..

That is why boarding school is never a bad idea though ...The level of independence and confidence it gives to young stars cannot be over emphasized ...

Richy4:


Sisi, How person wey ready to stay alone dey sound? At least there should be some level of uncertainty on his voice now..

That is why boarding school is never a bad idea though ...The level of independence and confidence it gives to young stars cannot be over emphasized ...

sisisioge:




Our guy here sounds innocent, not street smart and easy to influence. Let this wicked world no run am street biko. He better stay home for a bit longer, God and his parents will continue to lead his path. I dont like reading unfortunate stories fa.

FreshFarmAgro:



Go and apply for POS work. Start with 30,000 Naira salary per month. Your parents feed you and you contribute to the house. Save 20,000 Naira per month. Twelve months,240,000 Naira. After this, start your own POS business and you can make up to 60,000 Naira per month, save 40,000 Naira out of it per month, this is an annual income of 480,000 Naira


Better than taking risky moves you are unaware of its consequences

Richy4:


I would have been sounding like that when I was his age if not for my old man's foresight... may God rest his soul.. he sighted me from afar...
I won't want his friends to corrupt him...But he will have to take that baby step someday... when is he ever gonna be ready?

sisisioge:


Awww....may God rest him well.

He should be ready in another 2yrs if he actually gets a job now and starts learning unconscious independence. The world has spoilt so much that we should protect the good we have left in it. Did you read about the 19yrs old yahoo boys who died celebrating their loot? E shock me fa.

Richy4:


No I didn't read it... is the story here on Nairaland?

sisisioge:


Yes.

https://www.nairaland.com/7461795/4-internet-fraudsters-die-drug

They were still kids fa. It is well.

Richy4:


That's just one hell of sad news....I can just imagine the pain of the fathers.. especially if they were talking and the boys were not listening..

Barims:


Who will pay 30k for pos worker? Hmm not in my state

DCmaverick:
Hello nairalanders

Am about to take another challenge of life( leaving my parents care), i think am about to face another aspect of life. Am still a student but i think it high time i leave their care

Please i need ur advice on this or should i rethink my decisions

DCmaverick:


am actually going to a friend place

akwesenana:

1.) How old are you?
2.) Have you finished school?
3.) What does your friend do for a living?
Questions from one who left home at 17.

DCmaverick:


am 17
no
i dont knw, he said i should com