Divorce him now and watch that your friend move in.
Or join him in UK. After some years divorce him now and chase him out of his house.

TWoods:


The marriage is already a goner. She should not tolerate a blatant cheat who thinks he has a right to treat her worse than dirt because he is a “tech bro”. My advice is she lays low, gets here and then tosses him out to his mistresses and find a better human to give her body to.

[/b]This is not “guys lifestyle” and millions of men are faithful in marriage.[b]

As much as you're right... No marriage is perfect
Yeah, she shouldn't tolerate rubbish in order to keep her marriage but my questions is still... Is she there? Did she see them together? Forget her friend evidence. She need to witness things herself or else the husband will still defend himself.
@bolded
I bet they are not Nigerians

Sweetvie:
As much as you're right... No marriage is perfect
Yeah, she shouldn't tolerate rubbish in order to keep her marriage but my questions is still... Is she there? Did she see them together? Forget her friend evidence. She need to witness things herself or else the husband will still defend himself.
@bolded
I bet they are not Nigerians

Not sure I read that correctly… but she has electronic evidence he acknowledged… what other questions are there to ask?

She doesn’t have to witness anything, she simply needs to get over there, get on a dating app too and find a real man. He’ll be here complaining about how “abroad” destroyed his marriage soon.

TWoods:


Not sure I read that correctly… but she has electronic evidence he acknowledged… what other questions are there to ask?

She doesn’t have to witness anything, she simply needs to get over there, get on a dating app too and find a real man. He’ll be here complaining about how “abroad” destroyed his marriage soon.

Lol
Savage
This is what japa separation do cause to marriage. it better you travel with your wife

My thoughts!!! Thank you for this comment

TWoods:


These comments are shocking.

1. Men are not wired to cheat anymore than women are.
2. The only person actively destroying her marriage is her husband.
3. Saying she should not raise the issue with her husband is the same as giving him unrestricted license to act worse than a dog.
4. Hahaha a wife is required to forgive a cheating husband but it is zero tolerance for the cheating wife?

These attitudes are why Nigerian men are all over Twitter spaces whining about “abroad” ruining their marriages. Their wives learned not to tolerate such crap.

HRprof:


Is unfair for him to do this but the truth remains that you hardly see a man who don’t cheat but that doesn’t mean they don’t love their wife , men are wired that way. I will advise you to trade with caution and stop listening to anyone with information that will destroy your marriage. Make sure you be with your husband as soon as you are done with youth service. If possible don’t discuss anything like you are cheating on me etc it will create impressions for him to start suspecting you. Is important to know that wife can forgive a cheating husband but husband can never forgive a cheating wife.
My 2 kobo

Nigerian man. Fixed it for you.

Salewabeau:
My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me

Wetin concern us for your family private matter ....ehn

Please allow us to drink in peace

ednut1:
All these men who marry young naive girls self. So you think your husband with a good job in uk will be faithful to you inside cold What a joker hahahaha

How mature....so the joker is the trusting wife , but not the husband who couldn't stay faithful to his brand new vows because of a lickle bit of cold?

TWoods:


These comments are shocking.

1. Men are not wired to cheat anymore than women are.
2. The only person actively destroying her marriage is her husband.
3. Saying she should not raise the issue with her husband is the same as giving him unrestricted license to act worse than a dog.
4. Hahaha a wife is required to forgive a cheating husband but it is zero tolerance for the cheating wife?

These attitudes are why Nigerian men are all over Twitter spaces whining about “abroad” ruining their marriages. Their wives learned not to tolerate such crap.

100%!

I wonder how such men think they will fare in "the abroad" where women have equal rights as men, and sometimes even greater rights than men in marriage.

TWoods:


These comments are shocking.

1. Men are not wired to cheat anymore than women are.
2. The only person actively destroying her marriage is her husband.
3. Saying she should not raise the issue with her husband is the same as giving him unrestricted license to act worse than a dog.
4. Hahaha a wife is required to forgive a cheating husband but it is zero tolerance for the cheating wife?

These attitudes are why Nigerian men are all over Twitter spaces whining about “abroad” ruining their marriages. Their wives learned not to tolerate such crap.

Bitter truth is always shocking, that’s the reality and is either you know the reality before going into marriage or abort the plan and remain single , you are not owning anybody apology for however you choose to live your life.
If you think is a Nigerian men problem them don’t marry Nigerian, every day we keep hearing husband cheating, side chick dis and that then you still don’t believe in the reality.

Gerrard59:

Aren't you the 40-year-old woman who planned to marry a man who earns 100K pm? How come suddenly men are not worth it? Abi your 41-year old husband-to-be no be man?

This ya vawulence no be here boss

seguno2:


This ya vawulence no be here boss

If there is one thing I dislike, it is dishonesty.

Gerrard59:




If there is one thing I dislike, it is dishonesty.

it’s called disingenuous

Salewabeau:
My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me

To avoid high blood pressure ..........

Either ignore till you travel out or seek a divorce..........