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| If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
Women are life givers. We v a very soft heart that can melt easily, appreciate kindness and can burn more than a volcano when it's hurt. If the world is balanced, no bad boy ll get a good girl. It irks me when I see a good woman being treated bad by her husband or partner. What about those who suffer domestic violence? The death of a popular female gospel musician few months ago is still fresh. Hopefully, our men can see that the good women are more than the bad ones. And the good women deserve the good men. A man that desire good lady must be better. You can't be a dream killer, womanizer or just one man that's incapable of starting a home and expect that you ll marry goodness. You can't plant onion and reap cassava. If I should go with the statistics of this site on how boys here treat the opposite sex with their comments, I ll conclude they can't get good wives when it's time for their marriage. So...what's the way forward. We must imbibe kindness. Men should be more loving towards women. Every woman appreciate love and multiply love. To all good people, keep sharing love. You are all appreciated. © Sweetplum. 11 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by God1000(m): 9:32pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
Being a good man doesn't guarantee you of finding a good lady. Infact, some ladies these days avoid dating good men due to some weird reasons 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Hezzyluv: 9:36pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
God1000: Lol.... @bold They like his hair colored and tattoos on his body. Sixpack, tall with long.... koboko and locks. He must have G_wagon and their papa no get bicycle. 11 Likes |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by worried222: 9:36pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
When are you going to write about women who are into hoeism today but think they deserve dowry to paid on their head. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by God1000(m): 9:40pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
Hezzyluv:can you just imagine, they see decent guys as boring and something else. 3 Likes |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by tollyboy5(m): 10:15pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
Hezzyluv:Bad boy lo jawo. Good man is boring, we were once all good men in the start  .4 Likes |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by tollyboy5(m): 10:18pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
I prefer bad girls that are disciplined. Good girls are also boring . Better still I like 'tomboy', 'alpha females'. |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Moh247: 10:19pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
 In summary, love comes with conditions for some ladies Love should be unconditional, and don't try to impress anyone Domestic violence is bad for both genders but emotional abuse is evil Both Genders can start a happy home together with love and not think anyone is responsible for the other partners happiness Honestly I agree love and marriage isn't for poor, financially unstable couple both men and women . 1 Like |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by kazyhm(m): 10:50pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
What is your definition of GOOD in this context? What about if you want a good man, be a good woman. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by muyico(m): 11:06pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
Murasi? |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Kelvin3476: 7:59pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Feminism + entitlemement mentality haf spoild everything. how can u be a feminist and stil have entitlement mentality ? what i was told abt feminsm as a boy isn't what am seeing as a man. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Truvelisback(m): 8:12pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Sweetplum:Women rarely value good men. 4 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Truvelisback:That's in the past 1 Like |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Truvelisback(m): 8:53pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Sweetplum:U dey whine urself. I can never love any woman, i may like them but would never love them. Women are majorly create for sex and for children bearing. Only very few of them are helpmate.2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Nobody: 8:54pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Truvelisback:things has changed. Relationship is now symbiotic if you meet the right person, right vibe 2 Likes |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by NikkyWis: 9:31pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
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| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Truvelisback(m): 9:34pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Sweetplum:Nothing has changed. As a matter of fact, it has worsen. Right person, lol. 4 Likes |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by saladinnoir: 7:47am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Truvelisback: Much worse my brother. Her write up is for those bad boys, she wants them to treat them better. She's complaining about bad boys because thats what she goes for while ignoring the good ones. Right person, right vibes is an excuse for their bad decisions. 6 Likes |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Treassured: 8:01am On Dec 21, 2022 |
I'm certain I will meet my other half soon. 4 Likes |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Tokskob2008: 8:06am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Na bad guys get better ladies pass, the goods guys ends end with devils in human skin.. 3 Likes |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Skodrran(m): 8:41am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Sweetplum: You didn't mention how manipulative your gender can be Nice one, what's it with the pictures |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by mrblessed(m): 9:16am On Dec 21, 2022 |
worried222:Nope, that's part of their entitlement benefit, you can hoe around and still be a "good" woman. Any talk about it is flat-out sexism. Nigerian women are innately good; Nigerian are naturally bad. Full stop. |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Nobody: 9:31am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Skodrran:When you know it's nice, why ll you describe us as being manipulative? Has any girl duped you with money and body before? |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Skodrran(m): 9:47am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Sweetplum: I don't need to get duped by a lady to prove she is manipulative, A whole lot of people even women will attest to the fact that females can be very great at manipulation  Besides not all women..... I'll say most 1 Like |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Nobody: 9:56am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Skodrran:Ok. Let's say I m not manipulative 1 Like |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by KanwuliaExtra: 10:06am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Until the good man or woman shift base to become the 'DEVIL'S RE-INCARNATE'! People can change for the WORSE at anytime or stage in marriage. Ask ANITA AND PAUL OKOYE.  No guarantees please. Just take a chance with the devil YOU KNOW. . . . .who can only become THE ANGEL YOU DIDIN'T KNOW.  Better than an angel turn DEVIL! 2 Likes |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Skodrran(m): 6:25pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by robinso01(m): 7:25pm On Jan 02, 2023 |
Average Nigerian lady will leave good guys for bad guys, and later be generalizing that all men are. I've seen a lot of women that said they prefer bad and tough guys to gentle/responsible guys. They claims good guys are too boring and over pampering. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by anthonyuncle(m): 8:12pm On Jan 02, 2023 |
if you also want a good man, be a good lady. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by faithfull18(f): 9:22pm On Jan 02, 2023 |
According to the title, I agree. Go for your kind, if you are a bad boy, go for a bad girl and leave Innocent girls alone. |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Truvelisback(m): 8:32am On Jan 03, 2023 |
Sweetplum:There are more good men than women. |
| Re: If You Want A Good Lady, Be A Good Man by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
Truvelisback:Really? Let's use those that commit crimes as sample. How many convicts are female and male. Cos I need you to gimme your statistics |
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