iyatrustee:

A friend of mine was lamenting on how her relationship with her boyfriend of 5yrs recently ended cos she called a supposed rival of hers. It later happened the girl had nothing to do with her boyfriend and the guy took exception to it claiming she should have confronted him instead.

my question now is, in situations where you as a babe suspect your boyfriend / fiance / husband of cheating, would you call the other lady to warn her to stay clear or would you just pretend as if she doesn't exist?

iyatrustee:

but chances are, the guy would deny it

Dondav:
That's no reason to call off a 5yrs relatnshp!

omega25red:

harassing the woman makes you seem like a psycho and i probably will dump you too. I think you should have asked your man first then use the technology of three way calling and have everyone on the phone at the same time

ronkebp:

i had a similar situation, my ex, (whom i loved to pieces), had this other gal, i knew about her from the beginning but, he had me all wrapped around his fingers, all of a sudden a lady started calling me and asking me to back-off and leave her 'fiance' alone, i did not say anything to her, i went over to my guy and told him, all he said was that he was not engaged to anyone and that there was no way he could convince me that there was nothing serious going on between them. All i wanted then was assurance that all was going to be alright. No, he could not, he was tongue-tied, he could not even utter a word, i was so confused and devastated, my friends wanted to threat that babe's bleep-up, but i did not want to hurt his feelings, she kept on calling and harrassing me. On a second thought now, i should have confronted her back, even if i don't end up with him (which i did not do now) would have still been satisfied that i stood up for myself. So i do not see anything wrong in confronting that babe, only, do it in a civilised way.

iyatrustee:

A friend of mine was lamenting on how her relationship with her boyfriend of 5yrs recently ended cos she called a supposed rival of hers. It later happened the girl had nothing to do with her boyfriend and the guy took exception to it claiming she should have confronted him instead.

my question now is, in situations where you as a babe suspect your boyfriend / fiance / husband of cheating, would you call the other lady to warn her to stay clear or would you just pretend as if she doesn't exist?

Any LADY that has the audacity to stoop so low to this unquantifiable unreasonableness, is pitiably lopsided, emotionally immature, & quintessentially DUMB! Trust me, I know what i'm saying!

M M M:

iyatrustee
can i be your 2nd husband

if u re true with your husband >

FALLS FROM TREE

^hmnnnn, you sure abt dat? Well d lil time u also have posting, op uve made millions out of it

Im counting in millions already madam, aiming billions