The problem is not exactly in how Anambra man treats women.

The real issue is in his reason for and timing of treating women that way.
Whether you're from Anambra or not, as a rule, you're meant to reward a woman for being good, loyal, submissive and committed to you AFTER SHE HAS DONE ALL THESE.
But the typical Anambra Man tries to buy/get a woman to be his girl, to be good to him and be loyal and Submissive to him BY DOING EVERYTHING HE'S SUPPOSED TO DO AFTER SHE HAS DONE HER PART.

Do you see where the problem is?

An Anambra man puts the cart before the horse instead of the horse in front of the cart so that the horse can pull the cart.

THIS IS WHAT MAKES YOU THE SIMPING CAPITAL OF THE WORLD.

You think you should buy/pay the girl into dating/
marrying you instead of giving her more of these things AFTER she has already become yours and made sacrifices to show that she's interested in making a relationship/marriage with you to succeed.

An Anambra man does not understand that even after rewarding her with his marital commitment, her continued enjoyment of his provision and protection should be contingent on her continued loyalty, Femininity, submission and complete commitment to him.
While you were dating her, she was a good woman and that's why you offered her your commitment. In marriage, she should maintain the same good behaviour that earned her your marital commitment so that she'll keep receiving/enjoying the benefits you offer her.
Simple.

Let me summarise it again for those konk-head Anambra Men who think AllaKaduna hates them

1. She must earn your commitment before you marry her and she earns it by being feminine, loyal, submissive and fully committed to you her man.
2. After marriage, she must continue to display those traits that made you marry her. In fact, she should become better at them. This is the reason you should continue offering her the value you have for her.

These are rules for all men, not just Anambra man
But no, because you have the Spirit Of Anambra
- You think you're lomantic because you can buy 12 cars for a woman who does not even rate you?
- You think you're a man if you can build a house for a random girl's mother within the first one month you met the girl just so that she will accept your dating proposal?

This is what makes you a fool. Doing the most to beg a woman to date you.

Conversely, if you do these things for her or her family AFTER she's proven her loyalty, submission and full commitment to you, that's what actually makes you a king. Not doing them before.

What exactly do you do or have you done for a woman that more sensible men haven't done 200 times more for their women?

You think bragging that you spent 100 million to marry a streets girl you met yesterday is a flex and makes you an odogwu?

I laugh when I hear an Anambra man saying he's a good husband because he spent 5 million Naira to woo a retired hookup queen who still runs her hookup business from his house.

Fool, stop!

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The problem is not exactly in how Anambra man treats women.

The real issue is in his reason for and timing of treating women that way.
Whether you're from Anambra or not, as a rule, you're meant to reward a woman for being good, loyal, submissive and committed to you AFTER SHE HAS DONE ALL THESE.
But the typical Anambra Man tries to buy/get a woman to be his girl, to be good to him and be loyal and Submissive to him BY DOING EVERYTHING HE'S SUPPOSED TO DO AFTER SHE HAS DONE HER PART.

Do you see where the problem is?

An Anambra man puts the cart before the horse instead of the horse in front of the cart so that the horse can pull the cart.

THIS IS WHAT MAKES YOU THE SIMPING CAPITAL OF THE WORLD.

You think you should buy/pay the girl into dating/
marrying you instead of giving her more of these things AFTER she has already become yours and made sacrifices to show that she's interested in making a relationship/marriage with you to succeed.

An Anambra man does not understand that even after rewarding her with his marital commitment, her continued enjoyment of his provision and protection should be contingent on her continued loyalty, Femininity, submission and complete commitment to him.
While you were dating her, she was a good woman and that's why you offered her your commitment. In marriage, she should maintain the same good behaviour that earned her your marital commitment so that she'll keep receiving/enjoying the benefits you offer her.
Simple.

Let me summarise it again for those konk-head Anambra Men who think AllaKaduna hates them

1. She must earn your commitment before you marry her and she earns it by being feminine, loyal, submissive and fully committed to you her man.
2. After marriage, she must continue to display those traits that made you marry her. In fact, she should become better at them. This is the reason you should continue offering her the value you have for her.

These are rules for all men, not just Anambra man
But no, because you have the Spirit Of Anambra
- You think you're lomantic because you can buy 12 cars for a woman who does not even rate you?
- You think you're a man if you can build a house for a random girl's mother within the first one month you met the girl just so that she will accept your dating proposal?

This is what makes you a fool. Doing the most to beg a woman to date you.

Conversely, if you do these things for her or her family AFTER she's proven her loyalty, submission and full commitment to you, that's what actually makes you a king. Not doing them before.

What exactly do you do or have you done for a woman that more sensible men haven't done 200 times more for their women?

You think bragging that you spent 100 million to marry a streets girl you met yesterday is a flex and makes you an odogwu?

I laugh when I hear an Anambra man saying he's a good husband because he spent 5 million Naira to woo a retired hookup queen who still runs her hookup business from his house.

Fool, stop!