This is another series of the "stop blaming other people" (SBOP) series.

For a long time, there has been this acceptable narrative among women that all men are scum often commonly compressed as "menascum"

This is merely a blame game, a way to think that you're perfect but every other person is imperfect.

But the truth is as a woman, the man you have been with, are with and will be with is your own decision.

You choose the man.

It's like going to the market. You see various smartphones in the store. You saw itel, tecno, iPhone, Samsung xiaomi and so on.

It's your money to buy whichever phone you feel like to buy. The seller will never force you to pick a particular phone you don't like.

The dating pool is large commodity market. Men come to you through various ways. Some through your dm, others through your streets and some through friends.

Some of these men are players. Some are irresponsible. Some are good and some are scum.

No one is perfect, but everyone got reputation.

As a lady, it falls on you to make your choice.

Making your choice to go with a reckless guy is your decision. If it backfires, then you should most likely be ready for the consequences.

Stop labeling all men as bad. There are many out there who will love you and take care of you if you can change your taste.

There are lot of good and bad men out there,it is left for you as a lady to pick the one you want.
You can't pick the one that is so glaring to be bad one and be expecting good result.

I m here to read

Hmmmm

But what I keep seeing on this forum is "all women are useless", I hardly see a woman saying all men are scum. You just chose to be selectively blind

You men on here nag too much. Pussies!

robinso01:
There are lot of good and ban men out there,it is left for you as a lady to pick the one you want.
You can't pick the one that is so glaring to be bad one and be expecting good result.

tell this also to your brothers here who label all women useless.

Crystalom5:
This is another series of the "stop blaming other people" (SBOP) series.

For a long time, there has been this acceptable narrative among women that all men are scum often commonly compressed as "menascum"

This is merely a blame game, a way to think that you're perfect but every other person is imperfect.

But the truth is as a woman, the man you have been with, are with and will be with is your own decision.

You choose the man.

It's like going to the market. You see various smartphones in the store. You saw itel, tecno, iPhone, Samsung xiaomi and so on.

It's your money to buy whichever phone you feel like to buy. The seller will never force you to pick a particular phone you don't like.

The dating pool is large commodity market. Men come to you through various ways. Some through your dm, others through your streets and some through friends.

Some of these men are players. Some are irresponsible. Some are good and some are scum.

No one is perfect, but everyone got reputation.

As a lady, it falls on you to make your choice.

Making your choice to go with a reckless guy is your decision. If it backfires, then you should most likely be ready for the consequences.

Stop labeling all men as bad. There are many out there who will love you and take care of you if you can change your taste.

Same thing is obtainable in ladies too, those that keep shouting Nigerian girls are useless be guided

Finitin:
tell this also to your brothers here who label all women useless.

You are right. I do tell my friends that not all women are useless, there are lot of women out there that are very responsible and useful. I don't support the saying that women are useless. Not all men are scum nor all women are useless.