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Should A Couple With Children Consider Divorce? by Ayietim(m): 2:20pm On Jan 04, 2023
Before you reach the point of no return on your decision to seek a divorce, consider your children.

Your children may never forgive you for the rest of your life.

The roots of their concealed hatred for you, would be the deprivation of true love, real happiness, reliable security and blood bond relationship that only the togetherness of biological parents create.
Re: Should A Couple With Children Consider Divorce? by budaatum: 2:36pm On Jan 04, 2023
Sometimes, being together can be a lot more damaging to children than divorce. Like if physical and emotional abuse is present.

Children do not thrive in such circumstances, and death might be the alternative.

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Re: Should A Couple With Children Consider Divorce? by Obaaderemi2: 2:56pm On Jan 04, 2023
Ayietim:
Before you reach the point of no return on your decision to seek a divorce, consider your children.

Your children may never forgive you for the rest of your life.

The roots of their concealed hatred for you, would be the deprivation of true love, real happiness, reliable security and blood bond relationship that only the togetherness of biological parents create.

See you. You have to consider yourself first. You are with a woman who broke your heart and trampled on your love and you want to stay because of children who will survive if you die of heartache?

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Re: Should A Couple With Children Consider Divorce? by frozen70(f): 3:25pm On Jan 04, 2023
Ayietim:
Before you reach the point of no return on your decision to seek a divorce, consider your children.

Your children may never forgive you for the rest of your life.

The roots of their concealed hatred for you, would be the deprivation of true love, real happiness, reliable security and blood bond relationship that only the togetherness of biological parents create.


No one goes into marriage to divorce later in the marriage

If living together is becoming hell
Then separation would be an option

Marriage is not a place of sorrow

Divorce doesn't mean you should not provide for the children

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Re: Should A Couple With Children Consider Divorce? by Ayietim(m): 3:43pm On Jan 04, 2023
Obaaderemi2:
See you. You have to consider yourself first. You are with a woman who broke your heart and trampled on your love and you want to stay because of children who will survive if you die of heartache?

Self first? Okay, that would be convenient until you're old and need the emotional support and time of your children.

Ruling out the likelihood of death, I think some couples are always in a big hurry to take the divorce path without first exhausting elastic limits of a combination of understanding, patience, love and empathy
Re: Should A Couple With Children Consider Divorce? by Obaaderemi2: 10:11pm On Jan 04, 2023
Ayietim:


Self first? Okay, that would be convenient until you're old and need the emotional support and time of your children.

Ruling out the likelihood of death, I think some couples are always in a big hurry to take the divorce path without first exhausting elastic limits of a combination of understanding, patience, love and empathy
The man may not even grow old if fails to consider himself first. But that doesn't mean he should cut off ties with the children. A toxic home can actually destroy children.
Re: Should A Couple With Children Consider Divorce? by ImmanuelMyron(m): 10:18pm On Jan 04, 2023
Dey play!
If u know wetin dey sup for some couple roof eh, eye go turn u.

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