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Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by Realmi: 2:27pm On Jan 05, 2023
Wow

Please parents in the house, we need to up our games on sex education for our children....this is no longer funny.....whats all this news about children and MouthAction for heaven's sake
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by IamMobisola(f): 2:35pm On Jan 05, 2023
Firstly, try and identify the 20year old fool who turned that boy to what he is now.
Secondly, do you and your wife have kids? Or do you plan on having kids? Either ways, having that kid in your home will be the worse decision you can take. The boy’s parent are a lost cause already for not caring about what their son has turned into. If you really want to help him, do it away from your home because you and your wife won’t always be at home to supervise his movements.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by sniperr007(m): 2:35pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:
3 of my sisters children live with my mom. I'm the one in charge of their school cus their parents don't live in the same city. So I found out the last one which is about 7 years Fingered my neighbors daughter of about 3 years. The father of the girl who's a good friend of mine told me.
He said it had happened twice, first about 3 months ago and again before Christmas.
He said after his daughter told him the first time he warned the boy but the boy did it again. I asked my mom and she mom said it's a lie that the boy can't do anything like that, I even later find out that my mom told the little boy to stop greeting the man.

So I took the 3 of them to my house for holiday and after I heard the issue I promised the girls father that I would find out the truth, he told me that the boy is very smart but we need to be careful with him. And the reason he didn't take the issue very far Is because of me and I apologized to him and told him I would deal with the issue.

When we got to my house, I bought cane and I flogged the boy, at first he denied it but later confessed that he did it, that it was another boy (of about 20 years that showed him how to do it) that the boy even fingered his anus twice. I severely punished him and he promised not to do it again

Now the issue is that I don't feel like letting the boy going back to stay with my mom cus the other ones are saying it's my mom is one of the people spoiling the boy cus he's her favorite grandchild. I'm thinking of taking the boy from my mom and have in stay with Me and my wife but my wife thinks he's too small (he's just 7) she said we should wait till a bit older and we should take one of the other ones who are older.

But I feel a little boy having gone through something like this needs to be straightened out now before it's too late and I also don't want to make it an issue with my wife.
I'm scared that if the boy grows up and becomes something else knowing that I could do something when he was little, I will feel very bad because that's how them bobrisky take start

What about the 20 years that fingered him and thought him. He needs to be punished
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by GboyegaD(m): 2:36pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:


I told the mother who's my sister, she didn't feel concerned I think this is probably because they have lots of children (they have 8 kids). She wasn't even angry or showed any emotion.

I just feel this is the best thing for me to do

Oga no carry another person load for head dey drag your own for hand ooo.

If the parents don't think it needs a fix, don't bring trouble into your home. Let your mom know you are disappointed she's leading him on in the wrong way and you can get involved by visiting every weekend or every other weekend to see them and give necessary advice or discipline as the case maybe.

If yourself and your wife never had discussions around this before marriage, don't force yourself to have your way because the repercussion might cost you your home.

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Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by Bobbiee: 2:38pm On Jan 05, 2023
Wow are these sick twisted demented bastarâds that usually come up with these fake stories just to get engagement on their posts. I'm sure it's all coming from the same guy who's trying to drive traffic to his signature or something. Who ever that is, hope thunder fires that idiöt
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by backnbeta(f): 2:43pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:
3 of my sisters children live with my mom. I'm the one in charge of their school cus their parents don't live in the same city. So I found out the last one which is about 7 years Fingered my neighbors daughter of about 3 years. The father of the girl who's a good friend of mine told me.
He said it had happened twice, first about 3 months ago and again before Christmas.
He said after his daughter told him the first time he warned the boy but the boy did it again. I asked my mom and she mom said it's a lie that the boy can't do anything like that, I even later find out that my mom told the little boy to stop greeting the man.

So I took the 3 of them to my house for holiday and after I heard the issue I promised the girls father that I would find out the truth, he told me that the boy is very smart but we need to be careful with him. And the reason he didn't take the issue very far Is because of me and I apologized to him and told him I would deal with the issue.

When we got to my house, I bought cane and I flogged the boy, at first he denied it but later confessed that he did it, that it was another boy (of about 20 years that showed him how to do it) that the boy even fingered his anus twice. I severely punished him and he promised not to do it again

Now the issue is that I don't feel like letting the boy going back to stay with my mom cus the other ones are saying it's my mom is one of the people spoiling the boy cus he's her favorite grandchild. I'm thinking of taking the boy from my mom and have in stay with Me and my wife but my wife thinks he's too small (he's just 7) she said we should wait till a bit older and we should take one of the other ones who are older.

But I feel a little boy having gone through something like this needs to be straightened out now before it's too late and I also don't want to make it an issue with my wife.
I'm scared that if the boy grows up and becomes something else knowing that I could do something when he was little, I will feel very bad because that's how them bobrisky take start
What did you do about this boy that molested your nephew? If you haven't done anything yet, please take this up...the 20-yr-old idiot needs to be dealt with.

Also, the boy needs to leave that environment because he will only continue molesting the innocent neighbors. You need to handle him well and possibly find a way to keep him with you or back to his parents
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by Nobodysboo(m): 2:44pm On Jan 05, 2023
These generation go worse pass our own o
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by funkmrflexx(m): 2:45pm On Jan 05, 2023
backnbeta:

What did you do about this boy that molested your nephew? If you haven't done anything yet, please take this up...the 20-yr-old idiot needs to be dealt with.

Also, the boy needs to leave that environment because he will only continue molesting the innocent neighbors. You need to handle him well and possibly find a way to keep him with you or back to his parents

I'm still looking for the boy. He stopped living with them since last year
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by backnbeta(f): 2:46pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:


I'm still looking for the boy. He stopped living with them since last year
Good job. Please find him and let him pay for his sin
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by meraola29080: 2:48pm On Jan 05, 2023
BadBad...
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by KnowledgeIsVast(m): 2:48pm On Jan 05, 2023
Wahala wahala
Just enroll am for pornhubb Academy he got the talent shocked grin

Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by Osanoghodua1: 2:50pm On Jan 05, 2023
Get the 20yrs old arrested and charge him for sodomy and child molestation.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by RZArecta(m): 2:51pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:
3 of my sisters children live with my mom. I'm the one in charge of their school cus their parents don't live in the same city. So I found out the last one which is about 7 years Fingered my neighbors daughter of about 3 years. The father of the girl who's a good friend of mine told me.
He said it had happened twice, first about 3 months ago and again before Christmas.
He said after his daughter told him the first time he warned the boy but the boy did it again. I asked my mom and she mom said it's a lie that the boy can't do anything like that, I even later find out that my mom told the little boy to stop greeting the man.

So I took the 3 of them to my house for holiday and after I heard the issue I promised the girls father that I would find out the truth, he told me that the boy is very smart but we need to be careful with him. And the reason he didn't take the issue very far Is because of me and I apologized to him and told him I would deal with the issue.

When we got to my house, I bought cane and I flogged the boy, at first he denied it but later confessed that he did it, that it was another boy (of about 20 years that showed him how to do it) that the boy even fingered his anus twice. I severely punished him and he promised not to do it again

Now the issue is that I don't feel like letting the boy going back to stay with my mom cus the other ones are saying it's my mom is one of the people spoiling the boy cus he's her favorite grandchild. I'm thinking of taking the boy from my mom and have in stay with Me and my wife but my wife thinks he's too small (he's just 7) she said we should wait till a bit older and we should take one of the other ones who are older.

But I feel a little boy having gone through something like this needs to be straightened out now before it's too late and I also don't want to make it an issue with my wife.
I'm scared that if the boy grows up and becomes something else knowing that I could do something when he was little, I will feel very bad because that's how them bobrisky take start
that boy shouldn't be near your mother for prolonged periods for now. He needs proper discipline and close monitoring for at least the next few years and even boarding schools won't cut it. Start by restricting his access to the internet and applying parental controls and also monitor his TV viewing. You can use registration with a football academy as incentive to make him study hard thereby taking his mind off such and at the same time fulfilling the purpose of keeping his hyperactive mind busy even through play. Your sister just has to go along for the ride
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by tunapawizzy: 2:51pm On Jan 05, 2023
I get and see your effort from a good point. But then, You want to bring a damaged boy into your home but your wife dey dodge am and your wife is very correct on this. You cannot blame her. Maybe you guys have a daughter. If not, what if you have a girl child in future. This is the concern of your wife, which is very valid. Even if what you have is a son, your nephew can still influence him(do things to him or teach him how to do things to others).
Discuss other ways to help your nephew with your wife, without putting ur child(born/unborn) in harm's way. Also if the boy comes to live with you and does the same thing to your neighbour's daughter, that will be a disgrace for your family. Your wife is wise, you should learn from her, help the boy without exposing your family

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Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by SugarGirl44(f): 2:53pm On Jan 05, 2023
Omg! Kids are not safe again o, even little boys are not left out again.
Omo!
Pls get the 20 year old bastard arrested first beyond anything.
I can’t rest till I hear he’s in prison, if not he’ll ruin more kids lives.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by RZArecta(m): 2:53pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:


I'm still looking for the boy. He stopped living with them since last year
you really have to fūck that guy up, you'll have to embarrass whoever he stayed with in that area with the police so that they'll produce him
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by Mindlog: 2:54pm On Jan 05, 2023
Temptee101:


8 fvccking kids in today's Nigeria? shocked shocked


Some get their high from breeding like rats angry
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by Johnsown1(m): 2:54pm On Jan 05, 2023
Make your wife to see reason with you because the kid needs re-orientation. Solve the issues now before it becomes an addiction

If you have strength then you can arrest the monster that is grooming the kid
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by teemonk(m): 2:55pm On Jan 05, 2023
Your wife is looking for cheap labour to use n that's why she wants the bigger ones which eventually might become an issue tomorrow. Talk to her and make her see sense in you taking the little boy. Also, why are the kids not with their parents? Didn't hear you mentioned orphans so why? The best way to take care of someone else's child is through the owners less, one day you'll be punished for the help rendered. You can be responsible for whatever the child might need but through his parents. That way, you're safe n your wife is safer.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by monerozi5590: 3:13pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:


U are a very big goat. Idiot


Oga, look for the 20 years old boy and deal with him please. Don't waste anymore time.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by mariahAngel(f): 3:17pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:


I'm still looking for the boy. He stopped living with them since last year

In the meantime, keep close watch on your nephew.
Like one commenter suggested; treat him as you would your own son.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by Octobertwentysix(f): 3:18pm On Jan 05, 2023
Please take him in, this is the best time to straighten him out, try and convince your wife, maybe the reason why she doesn't want him is because he's small and can't do things for himself let alone help around the house, or because of what he had become,he's still your blood, do everything you can to correct him before it's too late. And the MUMU idiot that molested him should be severely dealt with.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by funkmrflexx(m): 3:18pm On Jan 05, 2023
tunapawizzy:
I get and see your effort from a good point. But then, You want to bring a damaged boy into your home but your wife dey dodge am and your wife is very correct on this. You cannot blame her. Maybe you guys have a daughter. If not, what if you have a girl child in future. This is the concern of your wife, which is very valid. Even if what you have is a son, your nephew can still influence him(do things to him or teach him how to do things to others).
Discuss other ways to help your nephew with your wife, without putting ur child(born/unborn) in harm's way. Also if the boy comes to live with you and does the same thing to your neighbour's daughter, that will be a disgrace for your family. Your wife is wise, you should learn from her, help the boy without exposing your family

How can you say a 7 year old boy is already damaged. I don't believe that. He's still young and can be straightened. I know the things I did as a little kid
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by nairamaniac: 3:26pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:


It's very obvious u don't have sense. We are talking about molestation of a little boy this is wat u can say. It's very obvious u are a fool. I bet even ur parents are fools

Old op ignore thebadpoilitician guy. It's obvious he is a full grown goat as you said.

I have highest respect for the way you handled the issue in connivance with the father of the victim.


None of you would have succeeded without the other.

Also, taking care of your sister's kids even if its financial or not, means you have a large heart.


Your reward is here on earth and in heaven.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by nairamaniac: 3:28pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:


How can you say a 7 year old boy is already damaged. I don't believe that. He's still young and can be straightened. I know the things I did as a little kid

Please the boy is not damaged at all.

He is not any worse some of the things we did as kids, even though those things may not be sexually related.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by tunapawizzy: 3:39pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:


How can you say a 7 year old boy is already damaged. I don't believe that. He's still young and can be straightened. I know the things I did as a little kid
Maybe damaged is too strong to use for a 7 year old, but i agree whatever the case He is not beyond redemption. You are right, we did things as kids. All I am saying is that the boy should be helped first before bringing him to a space where he can influence other kids negatively and that may be the thinking of the your wife. A lot of people will want to help that boy, but away from where our child can be influenced.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by dalass(f): 3:42pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:
3 of my sisters children live with my mom. I'm the one in charge of their school cus their parents don't live in the same city. So I found out the last one which is about 7 years Fingered my neighbors daughter of about 3 years. The father of the girl who's a good friend of mine told me.
He said it had happened twice, first about 3 months ago and again before Christmas.
He said after his daughter told him the first time he warned the boy but the boy did it again. I asked my mom and she mom said it's a lie that the boy can't do anything like that, I even later find out that my mom told the little boy to stop greeting the man.

So I took the 3 of them to my house for holiday and after I heard the issue I promised the girls father that I would find out the truth, he told me that the boy is very smart but we need to be careful with him. And the reason he didn't take the issue very far Is because of me and I apologized to him and told him I would deal with the issue.

When we got to my house, I bought cane and I flogged the boy, at first he denied it but later confessed that he did it, that it was another boy (of about 20 years that showed him how to do it) that the boy even fingered his anus twice. I severely punished him and he promised not to do it again

Now the issue is that I don't feel like letting the boy going back to stay with my mom cus the other ones are saying it's my mom is one of the people spoiling the boy cus he's her favorite grandchild. I'm thinking of taking the boy from my mom and have in stay with Me and my wife but my wife thinks he's too small (he's just 7) she said we should wait till a bit older and we should take one of the other ones who are older.

But I feel a little boy having gone through something like this needs to be straightened out now before it's too late and I also don't want to make it an issue with my wife.
I'm scared that if the boy grows up and becomes something else knowing that I could do something when he was little, I will feel very bad because that's how them bobrisky take start

You're only talking about the last born. I'm sure the other 2 siblings are also getting spoilt under their grandma's nose.

Let their own parents come for them. Raising 3 kids together these days is not an old woman's job. undecided

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Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by emanobis(m): 3:42pm On Jan 05, 2023
Bros, please never allow that small boy to go back to your mum.
Find a way and make Ur wife see reasons for your decision.
You should also let your mum know the truth and bring it to her consciousness dt she's the one spoiling the child.
That child had the boldness to learn such frm that stupid guy coz he knows within him that someone (your mum) is alwys there to defend him at all time

God bless
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by decent2(m): 3:43pm On Jan 05, 2023
Just find that 20years boy and deal with him
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by funkmrflexx(m): 3:44pm On Jan 05, 2023
decent2:
Just find that 20years boy and deal with him

I'm still looking for d guy. I go beat am die
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by SaLongs1(m): 3:50pm On Jan 05, 2023
funkmrflexx:
3 of my sisters children live with my mom. I'm the one in charge of their school cus their parents don't live in the same city. So I found out the last one which is about 7 years Fingered my neighbors daughter of about 3 years. The father of the girl who's a good friend of mine told me.
He said it had happened twice, first about 3 months ago and again before Christmas.
He said after his daughter told him the first time he warned the boy but the boy did it again. I asked my mom and she mom said it's a lie that the boy can't do anything like that, I even later find out that my mom told the little boy to stop greeting the man.

So I took the 3 of them to my house for holiday and after I heard the issue I promised the girls father that I would find out the truth, he told me that the boy is very smart but we need to be careful with him. And the reason he didn't take the issue very far Is because of me and I apologized to him and told him I would deal with the issue.

When we got to my house, I bought cane and I flogged the boy, at first he denied it but later confessed that he did it, that it was another boy (of about 20 years that showed him how to do it) that the boy even fingered his anus twice. I severely punished him and he promised not to do it again

Now the issue is that I don't feel like letting the boy going back to stay with my mom cus the other ones are saying it's my mom is one of the people spoiling the boy cus he's her favorite grandchild. I'm thinking of taking the boy from my mom and have in stay with Me and my wife but my wife thinks he's too small (he's just 7) she said we should wait till a bit older and we should take one of the other ones who are older.

But I feel a little boy having gone through something like this needs to be straightened out now before it's too late and I also don't want to make it an issue with my wife.
I'm scared that if the boy grows up and becomes something else knowing that I could do something when he was little, I will feel very bad because that's how them bobrisky take start
Pls plead with your wife to take the boy as her own because many kids got lost for lack of mentors and as for your desciplining him don't let worse befall him later by leaving a void of strong mentorship.
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by onyeego(m): 3:50pm On Jan 05, 2023
The boy probably agreed that he did it so that you will stop flogging him.

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