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Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by phatnpretty(f): 5:14am On Jan 06, 2023 |
Hope you don't have kids yet cos the boy will still carry out the act on them. Why would the parents leave their kids to be trained by their granny. Grandparents of nowadays are too soft unlike ours that handled us with iron fists. The boy's parents should take up the responsibility of raising their children. If you bring the boy home, get ready to guard any kid around you. That 20years old guy, na God go punish am. The truth is that once kids learn this dirty habit, to stop am na by God's grace cos there are kids around to try it out especially at school. You have to instill fear and discipline on that boy before he can be able to stop the act. |
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by BlueAir: 5:15am On Jan 06, 2023 |
Geez. Did u catch the small boy red handed after taking him to ur house? Cos I only read u took him to ur house,bought cane and extracted guilty confessions by caning after d boy said no. To me,guilt admission that comes after denial in a torture environment isn't admissible.and children can say anything slanderous without knowing d full implication. So if it's by caning him without catching him red handed then this is very wrong |
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by jaxxy(m): 7:21am On Jan 06, 2023 |
Mindlog: The only difference btwn what I'm saying and u are saying is ure making ur formal why mine is doing same thing informal. This is not a new case or a case that has never happened in homes in different forms and shapes which are addressed or corrected without all these formal setups and public embarrassment to a young kid. Infact if not done privately enough it can backfire and lead to suicide in some case labelling and exposing a kid as a public sex offender. I understand ur concept of organised society bt even then parenting is the first line of correction not abrogtating ur responsibility to strangers like teachers or professional counsellors once an issue comes up. Why are u a parent then? The problem of such organised society is the don't punish their kids like Africans do and treat young kids like adults which is good bt also bad In some cases. There was a kid that went on to commit suicide after he was made to attend professional counselling at skol for some abnormal behaviour. Where are his parents and did they consider the sensitivity of the issues when getting a counsellor? that's is hoping they had taken initial parenting steps b4 getting a professional. |
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:53am On Jan 06, 2023 |
Please don't let the 20yrs old go free for this. He corrupted the poor kid and the poor kid corrupted another kid and the 3yrs old girl night corrupt other kids curtsey of the 20yrs old adults. Whenever i hear kids doing things like this, i always know that it's either they learned it from home or someone somewhere is teaching them. Don't beat the boy again infact sit him down and talk to him. He's very young and will listen and learn. Tell him not allow anyone male or female to touch his private part. For God's sake these things should be thought in nursery schools because kids are no longer safe from adults. If you have your own kids and they have started talking, tell them not to allow anyone touch their private part. I really pity the little boy. |
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by Mindlog: 9:45am On Jan 06, 2023 |
jaxxy: Who is "labelling" and "exposing" a kid as a public sex offender? The law even protects a minor who is a perpetrator, as his or her identity must remain anonymous. How do you think the 20 year old gay paedophile got to the level where he is now or you believe his family didn't know about his problematic sexual behaviour right from the onset? Parenting on two levels have already failed the child, his birth parents and his granny who all do not see anything wrong in his behaviour. That boy needs help but not bringing him into a home that may likely have younger ones, it is not wisdom When therapy/counseling is to be offered a minor (anyone) under 18, there is must be signed consent form by the parent(s)/guardian and the first therapy/counseling session must have the parent(s)/guardian in the room to help transition the minor into building confidence in the process where the certified child therapist/counsellor has to exude congruence, empathy, unconditional positive regard and confidentiality which I very much doubt was the case of that SA kid that committed because I can somehow connect to what he might had felt as I did feel so diminished after my encounter with our so called school counsellor in my secondary school days who was also a subject teacher. In retrospect, I can confidently confirm she was so unqualified to handle sensitive issues of young persons. Let us not deceive ourselves into believing that in many African homes, that a lot of sexual deviancy noticed during childhood was corrected, many were treated with lack of appropriate seriousness as the boy's birth parents and granny just exhibited. |
Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by enonche85(m): 11:43am On Jan 06, 2023 |
funkmrflexx: Start by reporting the matter to the parents first. Your wife should calm down, why does she want an older person?, is she looking for who will help her do house chores or to help save someone's life?. |
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