Truvelisback:
U are a SIMP. This is the SIMPest story of the week.

Obavoh:
I swear on my life, since we’ve been married I have never hit this woman. I have never slept with another woman.

I am writing this with tears in my eyes. I love and trust this woman with my soul. I have sacrificed so much in this marriage just to make her happy.

Since day 1 that we met I Always try my best to see her smile but this woman took everything for granted.

When we newly met and I was trying to get her to be my girlfriend, she refused because she was dating another man. I did not give up on her, I kept on doing everything to remain close to this woman to the extent of going to clear her father’s farm just to be on her good side.

One day she came to tell me she was pregnant for her boyfriend and the guy rejected her . She confessed she had done an abortion before and did not want to repeat it.

I decided to marry her and cover her shame because of the love I had for her. Till today, I did not open my mouth to tell anyone about it. I paid her brideprice in full and did all marriage rites.

Some months into the marriage, she lost the pregnancy. I even borrowed money to evacuate the baby from her stomach. I suspected that she drank herbs to try to remove it but I didn’t say anything.

All these years, we have not spoken about it until few days ago she asked me to help her send some money to her father.

I became suspicious because the account number she gave me was strange. I asked her about it and she lied to me it was her cousins account and they want to use the money to buy her father drugs.

I innocently sent the money. I was waiting for her father to call and thank me as usual but a week passed and I didn’t get any message from him.

I asked my wife about it and she said he told her to thank me. That was when I knew something was wrong.

I went through the new phone I bought for her last month and saw this woman chatting with the same man that dumped her with pregnancy.

He was begging her for money and they even planned to meet in her Mum’s village.
She told him she was waiting for me to receive my salary and give her money so she can travel to the place.

I felt like dying.

I showed her the message, I didn’t even wait for her to explain before beating her. I feel very bad for doing that but I couldn’t control myself.

I left the house since yesterday afternoon. I lodged in a hotel in another town. I can’t eat or sleep. I’ve just been crying.

I don’t know how to go about this. I am thinking of my children. I still love my wife. I can’t even open my mouth to tell my people. I don’t know what to do.

brain54:
Shut up…

Ishilove:
A ma daran lowo Obavoh yi ke

Ishilove:
A ma daran lowo Obavoh yi ke

GboyegaD:
This guy don come again. You dey rush am with pikin wan turn am to old woman because you know say she no too dey into you.
I wish you the very best for this matter.

Where have U been buddy happy New year...It seems that you took your time...I almost declared a searching party

Richy4:

Where have U been buddy happy New year...It seems that you took your time...I almost declared a searching party

GboyegaD:


I have been around ooo. Just having some deadlines for the 1st quarter I am trying to beat before the middle of the quarter cos it seems my workload is a bit much for this year.
The guy deserve better flogging. Rushing marriage and rushing children like say na medal so. When he no even allow the girl ready to marry.

It is the season... Go ye into the world.. marry and procreate
If the world comes to and end...and the trumpet sounds, he will praise God he didn't die a virgin

Richy4:

It is the season... Go ye into the world.. marry and procreate

GboyegaD:


I sha pray the kids don't suffer.
As for the wife, I am trying to understand why she is acting the way she is if the story is true. At 21 she has 4 kids and she isn't scared of starting all over again when the real start over she needs is how to build her life and earn a decent living for her family.
By the way, how is Oz?

We dey.. I just wished I could come home for Xmas..But .. what I read about my hometown and what my mom reports is not encouraging... So we dey like tenants way no get home town to go to during festive seasons... .. sure can't leave my family and travel alone..So yea..I dey..

1Sharon:
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Obavoh:
This is how I’ve been sitting on the floor in the hotel room. I am dying.

cococandy:
Is that photo the male equivalent of red panties and black bra that women are encouraged to wear to win back cheating husbands? Because if it is, I’m digging it.

African red panties and black bra. But only for men

superCleanworks:


yes this is the time you should show her more love than you have done before. forgive her and cry in front of her so she can see how much you love her.
as for the children, please do not doubt if they are your children.
as for the cheating, it is your fault. you better go back home kneel down and beg her.
you also need to call the guy and apologize then send more money to him every month.

1Sharon:
Were you denying her sex at home?

As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

Johnnyboy6757:
e be like say una smoke bomb, see yeye advice u de give am. Sending ur money to another man, booking appointment with him, come ask urself what would have happened if she was not exposed? Na to go Bleep another man, carry dat same body come back come sleep with u join. Dis kind yeye advice is de reason plenty ppl de father children were no be thier own. Mumu advice

It seems that you don't understand sarcasm buddy?

She was sarcastically saying/ echoing back the very words men advices women when they complained online about their husband's cheating.. ..

Most times they advised the complainant to dress sexy for him and other things so that he won't look outside