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Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by faithfull18(f): 1:38pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
SocialJustice:Have you thought about the fact that some of those who have less than 500k in their accounts may have landed properties and investments worth millions 38 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by HomoSapiien: 1:39pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Every one of your relatives, even the distant ones wants to associate with you and call you their family members once they see you have money and doing well. If you’re miserable, even your siblings will not want to associate with you in public. Life’s hard and that’s the way it is. B 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by SyrusdeHansome(m): 1:39pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
De way pple de beg 4 9ja sometimes i de wonder whether we no de shame 4 dis we country. Even 4 dis nairaland u go see different monika begging 4 money like say some pple get minting machine 4 auz. We knw that things r hard but at least don't be a burden to another person. Mek we de get shame small. I get many relatives abroad but the funny thing is that i don't even have any of dia numbers talkless of begging them 4 help. I can't even beg my own father 4 financial help even when i was still a teenager. Back then if i had issue financially the only person i had the boldness of telling was my mom 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Wickedfact: 1:39pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
phorget: He is a damn idiot. That's how he was running around early last year because his younger brother's family wanted to relocate to the UK. He was the one who sponsored 80% of their trip. His brother claimed he didn't have enough money. You don't have money, you are going to the UK for Masters with your wifen. 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by phorget(m): 1:39pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Kala! Daju! Hu'wa-Ika!... My motto for 2023. Make everybody learn to hustle by themselves. 6 Likes |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by oluwaseyi0: 1:40pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
doesn't matter what you do for them they will come back for more you got to know when to stop don't fight them just tell them you have a massive loan you are repaying 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by lagonovo: 1:40pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Hendrixky:Good idea but easier said than done. You go weak when relatives tell you working is not their talent, keep making money make dem dey help you spend am na their own destiny lol 9 Likes |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Lance00009: 1:40pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Sometimes does you are busy killing yourself for thinking you playing your part are perfectly waiting for ur funeral 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by fitinwell: 1:40pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Irupetepete: |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by SirLakes: 1:41pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Aareakinwunmi: 1 Like |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Kobicove(m): 1:41pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
If you don't know how to say no sometimes just be ready to die under the weight of constant billing 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by olus01(m): 1:41pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
A rich person in the minst of 5 poor people is also poor Being rich or not the people you are reponsible for their reponsibilities is your imidiate familiy members, the na wish 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Damaria2: 1:41pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Irupetepete: It's so tiring. You get to be the one who call the shots every time. Everyone will try to hold back from telling you the truth when you're doing wrong for fear of being shunned or not making you feel offended. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by ImoleNaija: 1:42pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Well, the Yorubas are right when they say, "Olowo kan, otosi mefa, otosi ni gbogbo won". May God bless us all. 10 Likes |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Lance00009: 1:42pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Nolevel666:You can only make your sibling a millionaire when you are a billionaire 1 Like |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by leocollins(m): 1:42pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Make I buy space |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Evii: 1:43pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
When God blesses you, the first thing you should do is to light up the candle of your family members and closed friends, so that when your candle goes off they'll return that same gesture. Else there will be total darkness. 14 Likes
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Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by ZINNYBANKS: 1:44pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
The problems in Nigeria is three much . and our country ain't helping . if one person in the family is the only rich person with billing here and there he/she will later go broke ... |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by TruthNigeria(m): 1:44pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Yes, They all have sense of entitlement. If you are blessed, stay low key. If you have #10,000,000. Tell them you have only #150,000. I have been there before, its not easy. They all want to take from you. They don't care! Even inlaws will come with their problems. I know what I'm saying Everyone go SURVIVE 39 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by GoodCane: 1:46pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Hendrixky: Bitter truth |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Briller: 1:46pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Hmm, whether you are the richest relative or not, God help all who are in the middle class. Everybody wants something from you, even those who are better than you. I personally feel angered when people who are young and strong go around begging. I can understand if the person is asking for capital to start off a business to support his/her self but not when they keep asking in the name of being Smart. Many people feel entitled and come with the expectations that you would take up their responsibilities and woe betide you if you turn them down. The good news is, you need not give in to the threat of being harmed whether physically or spiritually. Know where your strength/ protection comes from and be still. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by sgtponzihater1(m): 1:46pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Nigerians are mostly entitled people. My money is to take care of my Children and parents. I can support my siblings but no urgency with this. When I climb up the ladder, I can provide ladders for others to climb. If I try to pull many people up the same ladder I am climbing, then we will nearly all fall off. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by smiliyB(f): 1:48pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Nah you Biko, that's a smart way to solve the problem. Make them no kee you before your yime 1 Like |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Irupetepete: Someone once said: "You've become sensible and reasonable when you no longer entertain family members and friends who've zero ambition in life" 15 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Wickedfact: 1:49pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
EmahBoss: He is beyond foolish. Bros, this guy has debts lined up 6 months in advance. Not for him, not for investments, for family. When he got this new job, his mother decided build a bigger house and build another in the village (father is late). Na this mumu dey foot majority of the bills. As he is, he has uncompleted projects opening mouth to swallow his money. Do you believe that this fool sponsored his gf abroad? Meanwhile, he has a brother who is also doing well. That one doesn't answer them. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by brain54(m): 1:49pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
13 million…? You shouldn’t be worried about people sharing their experience here… You should be worried/concerned about your brother becoming bankrupt and being able to afford ticket to return! Person suppose know when to stop… even Dangote no do reach this one! 5 Likes |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by SocialJustice: 1:50pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
faithfull18:Property is not money. You can't put it in your pocket to buy food stuff at the market. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Akadombas: 1:50pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Please, always pray for God to raise your siblings along with you otherwise billing go kill you. I’m talking from experience. If not for God I almost drove my mum out of my house because of the weight of the billing. 18 Likes |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by justmondris: 1:51pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Hendrixky: It’s wise to set up somethings for your parents and siblings to be earning from than sending them money regularly. Sending them money regularly will make them to depend on you like air and that’s very bad and dangerous for your financial and marital lives. Furthermore, if anything happens to your source of income, their lives will turn upside and none of them will be able to give you a helping hand because you gave them fish instead of teaching them how to fish. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by konvicted77: 1:55pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I practically don't have anything to say because i was not coerced into doing anything against my wish. but ikegwuru. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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