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Re: I Suspect My Wife by manmade(m): 11:32pm On Jan 08, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!
lolz, your wife's ex boyfriend is inviting you to bring your wife to State on his bill, hmmm ,I still remember my late grandpa common saying; "he who pays the Piper dictate the tunes" , a goat is inviting you to a feast and said you should come along with your yam, I just hope you're really in charge as you're thinking.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Deegee7788: 11:40pm On Jan 08, 2023
Una wahala too much

Pls op, don't be too pushy. It could really be harmless but still keep an eye on her and show her love more.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Sabiboy12398: 11:46pm On Jan 08, 2023
Not proper bro, them want knack your wife
Just know this and have peace

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Onyenna(m): 11:48pm On Jan 08, 2023
albanikeh001:


You are gradually eating yam that will end up choking you later on. Never have I seen a man so less of a man. undecided

It beats my imagination!

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by dontrulee: 11:49pm On Jan 08, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

You go give yourself hypertension!
I have many married women on my WhatsApp that call me darling, sweetheart and my Love. I just use to wonder how their husbands will feel like if they come across such chats??

Many married women that are caged physically become wild online especially WhatsApp. I try and avoid married women as much as possible, many of them are starved of sex and emotional Love. It's so sad

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Baronthecelebri: 12:24am On Jan 09, 2023
Divorce your wife ASAP
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Sniper101(m): 12:24am On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:


Detective how?

...watching her every move, buddy.

Infact, you shouldn't have confronted her about her chat which you saw; that was a dick move tbh.
Cos now? She'll be more careful in her games. She won't be leaving her phone lying around carelessly anymore. And she surely would start deleting her chats.

All you needed to have done was to stealthily go full time "detective" on her by monitoring her chats with that very guy; without letting her get the hint that you're onto her.


From, "I miss you. I miss you too".
What follows after a while is always...
"When are we going to see?"
"When can I see you again?"
"Make we try see one of these days nah"
"Make we try see each other again nah"
Etcetera etcetera

Seriously dude, you fvcked up
by letting her know you've seen her chats once.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Nobody: 5:30am On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

For saying this trash, she's really up to something.

You better be on your toes, least your wife will be cheating right under your nose.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Kipaji: 5:31am On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

And you also know your wife is fvcking him, right?

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Trilz(m): 6:05am On Jan 09, 2023
I'll teach you how to continue reading the WhatsApp chat at your convenience without touching her phone anymore so you can know the whole truth..

Modified: I will teach anyone who check my signature and text me on WhatsApp.

But you will have to pay me a token of 1k before we start.

cool

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by emmybodunde: 6:20am On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!
Re: I Suspect My Wife by emmybodunde: 6:23am On Jan 09, 2023
Unestly you ought to be ashamed of yourself! Another man sponsoring you and your wife to the sates I mean your wifey x! I never understood the word simp but what am just reading get as E be. Have some dignity as a man for crying out loud!

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Nursepepeye(f): 8:12am On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:


Detective how?
what kind of question is this. Maybe your wife is right anyway. You can't be around dull person and will not miss intelligent dude

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Xiaohei(m): 8:27am On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

Ask your wife about the chat. Begin from there! Good luck.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by omolasho: 9:51am On Jan 09, 2023
It normal when Oyibo decieve you to marry non Virgin.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Mercury12(m): 10:43am On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:


And what's funny
it is funny and it seams a stupid and absurd question to already enlightened people.
Don't blame him.
As for your post. Your wife is most likely to cheat on you undecided

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Patrioticbreed9(m): 11:39am On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

I had to login and reply to you.

You are very stupid angry

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Nayig: 12:08pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

How do men marry wives who don't listen sef? It beats me. Bro you're the husband, you spent money to marry your wife, she has to listen to your opinion. Which one be insecure? You say you no like something, she has to stop it whether she likes it or not.
All these things were evident when y'all were dating but love blind you, but it is what it is, stamp your authority on that household, you're the boss in that house, simple and short.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Nayig: 12:13pm On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

Shame no dey even catch you.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by jimmychang: 1:02pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

From EA e go graduate to PA grin

See bro,you shouldn't have confronted her at all.Now she will get better at hiding it.Keep calm and pretend,watch them and gather your evidence then bombard her with it.

If she says you are Insecure or flare up and blames you then my guy she is cheating.Women get aggressive when they are caught cheating.Just get better evidence next time and plan your next move.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by jimmychang: 1:04pm On Jan 09, 2023
dontrulee:


You go give yourself hypertension!
I have many married women on my WhatsApp that call me darling, sweetheart and my Love. I just use to wonder how their husbands will feel like if they come across such chats??

Many married women that are caged physically become wild online especially WhatsApp. I try and avoid married women as much as possible, many of them are starved of sex and emotional Love. It's so sad

Caged physically? What sort of dumb assumption is this.You people will be supporting irresponsibility grin

You will get married and your wife go dey call people baby,love for your presence lemme see how you will react.

When you know that women can never be satisfied and will always be loyal to their feelings or emotions and not to your sacrifices you go wise up.

Give her all the freedom in the world,she will misuse it.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by jimmychang: 1:07pm On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!


Bro you think you are in control grin. My guy you are not.He is the one in control.Your wife even respects him more that you.Deep down i know your wife wished they were still together.

Playfully ask your wife If her ex ask her to see him and you tell her not to go who will she listen to?


If you get the answer get back to me grin cheesy grin

This one wife don use this one brain do moimoi grin

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by BigYash: 1:11pm On Jan 09, 2023
ifihearam:
If your ex or old classmates tells you they miss you and you reply back with " miss you too' does that mean your wife should be worried?

If she had ulterior motives she would have deleted it.
The next time now she will start deleting the chats,and if op catches her again,she will have a private sim for the game.. That's how they upgrade. So,when you suspect,you don't just start reacting. You're to wait ,be in detective mode,and gather good evidences. Her answer to you ,when you asked her about the chat means a lot. Ordinary sorry baby,and blocking the idiot missing someone's wife in your presence, would have saved us this noise. Who even know,if she told him,she was still single

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by jimmychang: 1:17pm On Jan 09, 2023
BigYash:
The next time now she will start deleting the chats,and if op catches her again,she will have a private sim for the game.. That's how they upgrade. So,when you suspect,you don't just start reacting. You're to wait ,be in detective mode,and gather good evidences. Her answer to you ,when you asked her about the chat means a lot. Ordinary sorry baby,and blocking the idiot missing someone's wife in your presence, would have saved us this noise. Who even know,if she told him,she was still single

Exactly, just gather a lot of evidence and shut her up with ot when she wants to gaslight him and form there he knows what to do.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by evwodere(m): 1:24pm On Jan 09, 2023
Autobot05:
Tbh it's not bad if she misses an old schoolmate or old friend ... but since women are not to be trusted you have every right to suspect her

Go full detective mode cool
Supported
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

Chai omo...that man dey give your wife mad back shots...sorry man

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 1:56pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

embarassed embarassed embarassed

That guy will soon knack your wife. Check her chats well she's probably knacking other guys. You married a slut.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 2:00pm On Jan 09, 2023
onyeego:

This is the exact words a woman will use when she wants you to allow her play around with other men.
Once she starts saying that you are insecure just know that she's feeling uncomfortable with your monitoring and wants you to let her do as she pleases.

That's the word they use when they want to become manipulative and play the victims card. That guy should be smart before he starts raising someone else children!

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 2:05pm On Jan 09, 2023
Softmirror:



grin LOL...SEE WHAT THIS ONE IS SAYING?! IT'S NOT MATURITY BUT STUPIDITY OF THE HIGHEST ORDER. D

IT IS VERY CLEAR THAT YOU DON'T TRUELY LOVE YOUR WIFE AND YOU ARE A VERY WEAK MAN. IS IT YOUR WIFE'S EX THAT ALSO PROVIDE FOR YOUR FAMILY THROUGH YOUR WIFE? WOMEN LOVE WEAK MEN LIKE YOU!!!

He's not even ashamed to say it out publicly.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 2:11pm On Jan 09, 2023
Graficient:


Bros them go lash your life last last. But I know you don't really care, what you are gaining is more important to you


That guy go dey knack him wife and this simp Will be happy because the rich dude is feeding him!

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by kingPhidel(m): 2:11pm On Jan 09, 2023
They might literally misses each other as mates probably some good positive memories. But my take is, once one is married there are some words you avoid using them not because they are bad but to avoid unnecessary questions of suspicion and all that. I deliberately trained myself not use words like darling, dear, missing you, et al to female friends or colleagues knowing that I’m married and I don’t want my partner to have emotional distress because of suspicions. If you balance your emotional quotient then all this will be avoided both guys n ladies.

I advise you to have a clear talk and boundaries so that “ DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WILL WANT THEM DO TO YOU” will not hurt any. Therefore, she either want to ignite an old affair for pleasure or she meant no harm with the choice of her words.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 2:12pm On Jan 09, 2023
manmade:
lolz, your wife's ex boyfriend is inviting you to bring your wife to state on his bill, hmmm ,I still remember my late grandpa common saying; "he who pays the Piper dictate the tunes" , a goat is inviting you to a feast and said you should come along with your yam, I just hope you're really in charge as you're thinking.

He's clearly a weak man!

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