spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

Bro in all ramification it is inappropriate for your wife to still be having discussion with her ex. I beg you in the name of almighty God try as much as possible to cut off that communication and desist from allowing your wife to see him. Even Bishop Oyedepo or Baba Adeboye in their prime will not allow their spouses to have any form of communication with their exes because bygone is bygone.

MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

She should be apologising, are you sure u paid her Dowry, even during relationship, my wife never dared that.. Let alone... Ehn, u will leave my house to that man that same day.

That nigga and your wife have gbenshed or would gbensh once they meet in a private, re reserved and air conditioning place. Remember OP, her old mate's dick will slide out and she'll put it back with great moaning testaments as:

Yeah baby, I love you and I miss you.

Give it to me more than my husband Willy strokes.

I'm cumming.

I'm squirting, baby, yeah yeah yeah

Oh, you're my world, I don't care about anybody.

I'm a slave to your big black cock, so master do with me what seems right to you.

Gbensh me harder and better daddy. Yeah I love it. Yeah that side.

Go slowly. You're hitting my cervix

Go faster daddy.

Let me clean your calls with my sexy mouth. I'll lick it like a lollipop.

You need to hear this kind of ecstatic speeches during cheating when a slut-maker is making a slut to submission to his will.

OP, resign your mind from monitoring her movement, you can't watch a woman. However, once she cheats, please, don't forgive her; otherwise, you'd just die young because that'd be the beginning of your heartache and downfall. SHALOM.

MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

Be straight forward and bold. Tell her to chose between the marriage and the guy! That you don't want to see the guys number in her phone and she must discontinue the communication with immediate effect or else the marriage will be questioned! Her guts to say you are insecure!

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

No screenshot?

If she caught you doing the same with another lady, i am sure hell and brimstone would be poured on you by your wife.

So yes, give it to her full measure.

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

is she lightskin?

maasoap:


Forth and back, you're neither here nor there! What kind of private messages should husbands allow their wives to keep private and vice versa? You see messages you don't like or understand on your partner's phone, ask questions before it is too late.

Okay na... No probs... Keep on reading every single word in your spouse phone chat... Then tell me why u won't have high blood pressure....
That is to say, u can't marry a woman who has beer parlor... Cos u can't trust her and her customer...
But it's okay... It's your choice

Nursepepeye:
what kind of question is this. Maybe your wife is right anyway. You can't be around dull person and will not miss intelligent dude

Hahahhahahaha

Patrioticbreed9:

I had to login and reply to you.

You are very stupid

Hahahhahahaha

if u dont trust ur wife, why did u marry her ? My wife hugs her colleagues right in front of me several times, and i dont go tru her messages. u shud know ur wife better. i trust mine, if u dont trust urs, seek for divorce.

faithfull18:
Ordinary missing oh, OP, it's not that serious.

do that with your husband let check something

It is almost impossible now to check woman's conversations and not see something to worry about.

Only more money guarantee peace of mind for man now

spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

You are so fresh up there.
Take down yOur quote because you are misleading a few.

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

It is indecent but proper .. the jury is still out there. Listen before you, It was him. I am sure you have said the same thing to someone who Isnt your wife. Or gone down memory lane in your mind, something like... " Ah, back in the day, I remember kissing Janet under the tree and ..pondering where Janet is and who's she with etc "

You shouldn't be reading her chat on her phone so that is a breach of trust. Talk with her though and ask if there is anything between them both before it becomes something.

I can tell you from experience - I have about 5 female friends not ex's. Just friends that we never had anything sensuous however for some reason our discussions have become highly sexual, our only saving Grace is that we all are in different cities across the globe. Lagos, South Africa, London, Maryland & California. I have thought many times booking a flight to London.......

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

na from clap dance dey start

onyeego:

This is the exact words a woman will use when she wants you to allow her play around with other men.
Once she starts saying that you are insecure just know that she's feeling uncomfortable with your monitoring and wants you to let her do as she pleases.

Exactly!
Its called MANipulation 101

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

love-vendor her

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

Islam sweet, a married woman is not allow to talk or chat with a man which is not her husband

MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

Don’t fall for that useless line.

Even if u catch her on a d1ck she will tell u u are over reacting.

advanceDNA:


Something u cannot take....u are telling another person its not serious....

Says who, well, I have no idea what people mean when people say they miss people. The question is what exactly do they miss? If they were just cordial, it's no big deal.

MRAKPORS:


Detective how?

*Continue watching her ,but discreetly .
*Do not let her know that you saw anything or you are suspecting her
* This would let her lose guard more and be less careful which would enable you lay your hands on more information as events unfold .
* Do not be in a rush to catch or burst her
*Discontinue sharing this information with friends and close associate! You never can tell who else she misses and you are discussing with , untill proven innocent.

This are few ways to go detective mode gentleman

Stolen waters are sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant Proverb 9:17

I pity those guys who goes close to married women let alone sleeping with them. Only of they know that they have no more future,their future has been destroyed. Whenever you commit sin and failed to repent and stop it,your years of sorrows keep multiplying till.

temiyato:
if u dont trust ur wife, why did u marry her ? My wife hugs her colleagues right in front of me several times, and i dont go tru her messages. u shud know ur wife better. i trust mine, if u dont trust urs, seek for divorce.

E go shock you soon. Trust women at your peril

@OP It depends on the kind of relationship they had back then.. If it's not sexual, then I see no reason for you to worry.
There is one of my female friends, now married that I tell.. 'i miss you o'. We've known each other for donkey years now, from year 1 in Uni. It all depends on the kind of person she is

Always have it at the back of your mind that your partner now once had a life, had friends and crushes in the past and you'd be fine.

AMI3:


Must he die because of a woman. Woman matter need diplomacy. A lot of people do things that they don't suppose to do because of woman. If u want to live long becarful of woman.

If u are my wife I see that u fu^k up big time I end the marriage sharp sharp. For me to the follow up the check u. I don't have such time.
Whether u call it nonsense or not I have spoken mine

Ehn better he should end the marriage...your first advice only works between normal boyfriend and girlfriend not marriage

It is not bad to miss sb oo, but the suspicion is worthwhile. Let her know that, "all (old) things have passed away, behold, all (old) things have become new".

MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

if ur wife has that on her chats and willingly leaves her phone for u to read at anytime u should be grateful. Ur wife is a transparent woman and such people usually have nothing to hide because they have innocent minds.

That message cud mean something and nothing. it depends on the context around it.

Are u insecure? Yes if u are making wild assumptions rather than ask critical questions and knowing the basic facts.

Nayig:


How do men marry wives who don't listen sef? It beats me. Bro you're the husband, you spent money to marry your wife, she has to listen to your opinion. Which one be insecure? You say you no like something, she has to stop it whether she likes it or not.
All these things were evident when y'all were dating but love blind you, but it is what it is, stamp your authority on that household, you're the boss in that house, simple and short.

hmm women are not always like that. I'm sorry to say this>> sometimes you won't understand and keep asking yourself "is this woman ok?" When you say your own they mostly say their own.
A man who can't control himself will always beat his wife.

MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

wtf ,where this kain men from abeg? My gf even olosho wey I dey Bleep can't talk to any guy not to talk of openly telling another guy that she misses him. Them never born that kain hoe yet