Cutehector:
The only thing i am thinking about right now is Peter Obi winning the election. Any other thing is inconsequential.

immanuelsize:
Mind your business because if you don't, both your marriage and that of rita will crash. If you want to destroy your marriage and that of rita's, tell rita that you need to do dna test to confirm whether that child is yours. After the dna test confirms that the child is yours, know that both marriages are destroyed!

Oizee:
u are right but, there is always a consequence to our misbehaviour, we can't escape it and that's why we all need to make effort to do good things.

So u prefer the other innocent man (Rita's husband) to be raising a child that's not his? Remember that, op and Rita knew exactly what they were doing then, and they thought they were smart, they didn't make mistake sleeping with themselves.

Let them expose themselves and deals with the consequences.

immanuelsize:

do you know that one of the consequences can be the elimination of the op either by rita or rita's husband for destroying their marriage?

Richy4:
Please do not destroy someone else's relationship... While you were having sex with her,... do you think she was only speaking in tongues with her boyfriend (now Husband) during intimate moments?...Or do you think you were the only virile/ fertile man that have the ability to impregnant a woman?

She has been nice to you...Even picked a wife for you, so why do you want to encroach in their organised space?...Have you considered the fact that she was unhappy and frustrated because she might be missing the sex only?...Assuming she envisioned you as the husband she wanted to marry she would have broken off whatever engagement that was keeping her... Just store her memory in the Archive of your heart...Do not be a home wrecker..

immanuelsize:
Mind your business because if you don't, both your marriage and that of rita will crash. If you want to destroy your marriage and that of rita's, tell rita that you need to do dna test to confirm whether that child is yours. After the dna test confirms that the child is yours, know that both marriages are destroyed!

advanceDNA:
Oga Ade...Face your marriage

U want to complicate things that look simple

Cutehector:
The only thing i am thinking about right now is Peter Obi winning the election. Any other thing is inconsequential.

Middleborn:


And forget about my daughter?

Middleborn:


So the easier thing to do is forget about my daughter?

Middleborn:
I'm a married man, been married for 3 years. I'm happy in marriage with a daughter who is a year and 6 months old.

Before I met my wife in August of 2018, i was in love with Rita, a beautiful and intelligent lady. I'd known her for some years but I've never been free to pursue a relationship with her, I was engaged to another, but it didn't work out. So, by April 2018, I broke up with my fiancee. I wasn't so affected by the break up cos at that time I had understood it wouldn't have worked out between us. After the break up, i ran into Rita and we hung out. I realised to my excitement that she was sweeter than I imagined. She was a beautiful soul and we kinda fit hand in glove. The problem was, she had a boyfriend and she wanted so much to end up with him. Now, she would prefer me to him in many aspects, but he was rich and I was, well, just there. That didn't stop her from giving herself to me. We made sweet love many times, mostly in my place. I was so in love cos for the first time I met a woman who loved love making as much as I did. Everytime, we had s*x raw. She was on daily pills. We would gist after making love and get aroused again and go on and on. I felt jealous each time her boyfriend would come to town and she has to go visit him. Once she consoled me by saying when she has sex with him, she's thinking about me. The thought of her being with him broke my heart, but she says to me "just enjoy all this while it lasts".

This carried on until August, at this time I realised I have to look for a girlfriend, someone I would get married to. So one time she came to my place, after we had s*x, I told her about some girls I planned to approach. She picked one for me her name was Angel. She said I should try that one. (Angel is my wife now). So I got to know Angel, asked her out and she said yes. During the early part of my relationship with Angel, Rita and I were still banging. Once, we lodged in a hotel and slept over, the s*x was mad, so sweet, at the time, I hadn't had it that sweet before. After then we would make love only twice before her boyfriend proposed to her suddenly. Even if I was determined to pursue the relationship with Angel, I was jealous she was engaged. But a week or two before the engagement I noticed Rita was unhappy and frustrated and I asked, but she waved it off. She got married on December 22, 2018 and I became more serious with Angel and got married to her in August of 2019.

Rita gave birth to a baby girl in July 4, 2019. This left me thinking, she was pregnant before she got married. We hardly talk these days because Angel is a jealous wife. She doesn't like me to keep in touch with my female friends. So Rita and I talk sparsely. The thing that convinces me even more that her baby is mine is that, my daughter who is 1 year 6 months, she was born 8 of July 2021 looks exactly like Rita's daughter born 4th of July 2019. Both are carbon copies of my mum and younger sister. I think she knows and has refused to tell me. But why would she hide it from me? I don't even know what to do with this knowledge. This is my story. What do you guys think?

Richy4:
Please do not destroy someone else's relationship... While you were having sex with her,... do you think she was only speaking in tongues with her boyfriend (now Husband) during intimate moments?...Or do you think you were the only virile/ fertile man that have the ability to impregnant a woman?

She has been nice to you...Even picked a wife for you, so why do you want to encroach in their organised space?...Have you considered the fact that she was unhappy and frustrated because she might be missing the sex only?...Assuming she envisioned you as the husband she wanted to marry she would have broken off whatever engagement that was keeping her... Just store her memory in the Archive of your heart...Do not be a home wrecker..

Middleborn:


Does that mean that I would forget about my daughter, my flesh and blood and let her be with a man who is not her father?

Middleborn:


Does that mean that I would forget about my daughter, my flesh and blood and let her be with a man who is not her father?

meobizy:
Fake story.

immanuelsize:

don't mind that op. When he was enjoying rita via skin to skin and flesh to flesh, he was happy. Now, he want to destroy a peaceful family because of his passed mistake.

Richy4:


The vibes he will create between those couple will be horrible to imagine..
And in a case it turns out that the child was not his, he would have succeeded in indirectly reporting the woman to the husband that the wife was two timing him those days... While his wife might forgive him, Rita's husband might not..

JONNYSPUTE:
......I think you are right on this. But mind you it's not going to be an easy task for him forgetting the matter just like that.

You are correct... But If he knows how he can do it without hurting anyone, he should do it... but I can't really see an easy way here...

Even if he conducts a secret DNA, and it turned out to be his,.. will he show up at their door step and say Hi I want to take my daughter?

Richy4:

You are correct... But If he knows how he can do it without hurting anyone, he should do it... but I can't really see an easy way here...

Even if he conducts a secret DNA, and it turned out to be his,.. will he show up at their door step and say Hi I want to take my daughter?