gbadexy: How does a brother get to meet good muslim lady to settle down with. or rather where is the best place to meet good muslim ladies.

olawalebabs:
Don't let Woman Human right activist see this o......

maclatunji:

To be honest, I never have. Don't paint me in bad light O- it is just a random idea that runs through my mind sometimes. I don't think I could ever do it sha... but I do think about the possibility.

Wizeboy: I hope you will invite then, to be one of your Interviewer for the SISTERS... I am ready to do it Free of Charge (FOC) for you

Maa Salam

olawalebabs: Back to the question. You can find your partner anywhere, but the place you them them will go along way to determine the success or otherwise of the relationship. Youth Forums is the most commonplace to find them sha.

eniafelamo: @Mac, Thank ur stars dat i saw ur Disclaimer, i was about bringing out my AK-47 to retaliate.
@all, Salam Alaykum, RAMADAN KAREEM.

sino: @maclanttunji you got me really laughing man, and your disclaimer, you go fear fear na


Brother not anywhere o ha, it should be a decent gathering or venues. sure youth forums are one of the common place, universities, workplace and on nairaland too.
I'll also like to add, if you are shy and cant chat up a lady, Alhamdulilah! we've got our Sheikhs, Ustaz, Imams, Amirs and Amirahs to help out, but if you get mind, you can go solo, no shaking just make your intention pure and sincere.

eniafelamo: @Mac, Thank ur stars dat i saw ur Disclaimer, i was about bringing out my AK-47 to retaliate.
@all, Salam Alaykum, RAMADAN KAREEM.

eniafelamo: @Mac, Thank ur stars dat i saw ur Disclaimer, i was about bringing out my AK-47 to retaliate.

eniafelamo: @all, Salam Alaykum, RAMADAN KAREEM.

olawalebabs:
That i why i wrote, the choice of PLACE will determine the success or otherwise of the relationship.

sino:
Yap thats true, sorry, my eyez skiped...
Hmmm just curious o, are you married?

maclatunji:

LWKMD!

Eeeeerrrrmmm. My dear sisters, my last set of posts are not meant in any manner to demean, belittle or humiliate you. They are just a comic expression of some of the random thoughts of a young man who has not met(?) his future wife. If it will make you feel any better, you too can share your random thoughts on how you think you will find/ be found by your "ideal man" as husband.

_{I had to type that before I am subjected to the hurricane of feminism}

olawalebabs: No, why do you ask? I've been hunting on this thread for more than a year. Lol

Wizeboy:
1. Pray for Almighty Allah guidance in selecting the best for you

- ISTIKHARA

3. Be a GOOD MUSLIM MAN; as good attract good and vice versa

- I should think you meant WOMAN. But for the men, it's not all about knowing the duties of the woman but your responsibilities as men.

4. Should not always take Beauty as primary reason of marrying a Lady (Beauty may be important, but should be secondary after character).

- mentioned in the hadith

6. Her knowledge about ISLAM might also go a long way in making her behave well

-her deen (mentioned in the hadith) is very very very important. Her knowledge is one thing not to toy with as it affects the man and the children especially.

Maa Salam

sino: @maclanttunji you got me really laughing man, and your disclaimer, you go fear fear na


Brother not anywhere o ha, it should be a decent gathering or venues. sure youth forums are one of the common place, universities, workplace and on nairaland too.

I'll also like to add, if you are shy and cant chat up a lady, Alhamdulilah! we've got our Sheikhs, Ustaz, Imams, Amirs and Amirahs to help out, but if you get mind, you can go solo, no shaking just make your intention pure and sincere.

maclatunji:

LWKMD!

Eeeeerrrrmmm. My dear sisters, my last set of posts are not meant in any manner to demean, belittle or humiliate you. They are just a comic expression of some of the random thoughts of a young man who has not met(?) his future wife. If it will make you feel any better, you too can share your random thoughts on how you think you will find/ be found by your "ideal man" as husband.

_{I had to type that before I am subjected to the hurricane of feminism}

deols:

and yh! I wasnt done. I just find it hard to fathom that you keep embarrassing yourself all over the forum and it doesn't help that your being a mod here makes pple add the tag Islam to your posts. So my outburst is a need that I had to fulfill. At some point I thought, if every1 kept telling you the same thing, maybe u'd change and since you havent I might just help rub it in a little more.

So, Why would you say something you thought could be seen as demeaning, belittling and humiliating with the thought that you could get away with it when you put your ridiculous grins and make everyone have a thought that 'it was a joke'?

and then it actually was a thought in your very simple mind. I cant possibly find such thoughts wrong. They probably are a result of the day to day happenings around you. Cant be too far from what obtains in your 'area' but it becomes wrong when you bring it into a public forum.Many of the people I know who are here and the ones I have known from here are self respecting, career driven, intelligent Muslim women and your 'under the roof' mentality just doesnt apply to them.

So when next you want to talk your mind, think again for I would be here to address you. have it in mind that I am being polite NOW.

and again,like How much were you talking about??

mukina2:

deols:

hehe!!



any shy man doesnt deserve d lady I cant stand shy men. on a personal level sha o.

deols:

and yh! I wasnt done. I just find it hard to fathom that you keep embarrassing yourself all over the forum and it doesn't help that your being a mod here makes pple add the tag Islam to your posts. So my outburst is a need that I had to fulfill. At some point I thought, if every1 kept telling you the same thing, maybe u'd change and since you havent I might just help rub it in a little more.

So, Why would you say something you thought could be seen as demeaning, belittling and humiliating with the thought that you could get away with it when you put your ridiculous grins and make everyone have a thought that 'it was a joke'?

and then it actually was a thought in your very simple mind. I cant possibly find such thoughts wrong. They probably are a result of the day to day happenings around you. Cant be too far from what obtains in your 'area' but it becomes wrong when you bring it into a public forum.Many of the people I know who are here and the ones I have known from here are self respecting, career driven, intelligent Muslim women and your 'under the roof' mentality just doesnt apply to them.

So when next you want to talk your mind, think again for I would be here to address you. have it in mind that I am being polite NOW.

and again,like How much were you talking about??

deols:
^^ sorry ma. can I hug you?

mukina2:
its Ramadan, let us agree to disagree na

gbadexy: I have read all the advice given, does anybody know ideal youth forums that one can go, I'm not talking of M.S.S.
I'm seriously contemplating settling down and I want a partner that would influence and strengthen my faith.
Its kind of difficult to meet muslim sistas at events and randomly.

olawalebabs: thought coming online will save me from the bullet of boko boys. Let all party ceasefire in the spirit of Ramadan.

olawalebabs: check out for NACOMYO Or MICA. They are both good fora for such