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Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Realistt: 8:32am On Jan 16, 2023 |
I need mature advice of ways to seriously discipline and deal with a disrespectful wife without laying a finger on her with the sole aim of putting an end or drastically reducing her incessant provocative behaviour and continuous disrespectful attitude. All she does is apologize afterwards but will repeat same attitude after some weeks or months. PS: I take absolute responsibility of the financial needs and otherwise at home. I really don't know why she keeps disrespecting me at the slightest thing. |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by wordbank(m): 8:37am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Prank her with divorce papers 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Zonefree(m): 8:39am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Get yourself a brand new second wife. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by thesicilian: 8:43am On Jan 16, 2023 |
There's no way. And she's going to get worse. Won't even admit she's wrong after some time, not to talk of apologizing. You're stuck. 3 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by SWATMan: 9:18am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Realistt: The single most important choice you will ever make is whom you marry. Marrying the wrong person will ruin your life. And it will continue ruining your life until your spouse dies or you get divorced. And getting divorced is one of the worst experiences a person can suffer. It also can be financially devastating. If your gut tells you something is not quite right, listen to it. Don’t use rationalizations. Your gut is almost always right when it comes to dating. A person addicted to whatever while you are dating has not proven that he or she can break his or her addiction. If the addiction is to coffee, it doesn’t matter—or exercise, or eating well. But if the person is addicted to bodybuilding and uses steroids, addicted to alcohol, get the Bleep out. You can’t save them. Only they can do that. If a person has beaten an addiction and is/or getting help, that is a different matter. Plenty of former addicts are fine. You cannot change your partner. That is impossible. And if you want them to change, they aren’t for you. You have to be okay with your partner as they are right now. There is nothing you can do about your spouse changing during marriage. Aging and life experiences do that. You have to compromise on the effects of it if you want to stay married. That is the work of marriage. If you are already married, unless things are really toxic, you are better off staying in the marriage. There is no perfect person for you. Your goal is to find someone you love but also you can live with. That is success. You aren’t perfect. You probably have issues. So do they. The question is not about these things. The question is “can we live with each other and each other’s issues?” If the answer is yes, you will be okay. Life is about compromises. If you are a 5 on the mating market given your mix of personality, status, and looks, you are going to need to find a mate in the 4–6 zones. If you are a spender and your mate is a saver, you will have conflict. You need to work out something you can live with happily or not get married. Money is the leading cause of fighting and divorce. Adultery is the leading cause of ugly divorces, followed by money. Marriage isn’t for everyone. Don’t get married because your friends are getting married or your parents and grandparents keep bugging you. You WILL ruin your life. If you disagree about having kids, don’t get married. Don’t say, “we’ll discuss it in the future.” That is a prescription for divorce. If you both have different levels of energy, don’t get married. A person who likes to stay home and rest when not working will have conflict with a person who wants to go tailgating, partying, etc. This information believe will help you in taking the right decision 8 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by muyico(m): 9:47am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Punish her? Then u don draw d battle line bdat! Bcus women wil surely retaliate! Keep saying to ha self sebi i don begged u and u do me dis? |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Stevenbright(m): 10:49am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Realistt: Start disrespecting and disregarding her. If she gets angry and complain that you should stop it, tell her that is the same way you feel when she do it to you. She will naturally stop and both of you will regain your respects! 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Richy4(m): 2:35pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
OP, I don't really know why I find your write up a little off putting ...Seriously Discipline a wife?.. Just maybe, you can shop for a word or words that doesn't sound condescending.... like you were talking about a kid who is below you.....Words like reprimand, admonish etc. I will suggest that u do only what works for you and your family.. Do not borrow another man's ways because it might backfire...Remember, any one in a relationship is bound to encounter provocations either intentionally or unintentionally whether you are the breadwinner or tea winner it doesn't matter ... the bottom line is making up and forgiving one another...Whenever she is losing it, pause and remind her that she's starting.. and walk away.. In my opinion, The only way a man can avoid being provoked is when he is married to a deaf and dumb lady.. Whatever you say, she will not hear, She will only smile and walk away...and she will never respond, yell or scream at you...But as long as you are married to someone that hears and talks, you will intentionally or unintentionally provoke each other... 4 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by tayo60(f): 2:46pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Anytime she does that, withdrawal your attention from her ,stop doing whatever you normally do for her. 3 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Realistt: Ask her to kneel down and raise both hands Oga. Is this a master slave relationship or what? 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by satandeterrible: 4:19pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
SWATMan:Very rubbish and stupid writeup. Shame on you. Nonsense and ingredients. |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by satandeterrible: 4:21pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Skyview01: You perfectly understood the OP. Stop with your dumb deflection. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by satandeterrible: 4:22pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Richy4: You have a low IQ. What sort of foolish submission is this? How does this address the fact that the OP's wife is disrespectful? This is not about occasional provocations so stop with the stupid deflection of yours. 3 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Richy4(m): 4:26pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
satandeterrible: I don't speak to online lunatics... A reasonable individual can not roam all over the thread insulting people the way you were doing... I don't know if lunatics do have good days... But have a good day 6 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by yemmit90: 4:35pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
tayo60: Op, please follow this advise, this is only way you can correct such a woman. You don't need to abuse her or talk back at her, just withdraw your attention and act as if she does not exist. She will read the message, and when she finally open up for apology, let her know your action was a result of her disrespectful nature. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by satandeterrible: 4:36pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Richy4:You need to check yourself in a mental hospital. Don't worry, I'll pay the bills. What kind of foolery made you to write rubbish in the name of dropping a comment? You just disgraced yourself and your family. Not me. I'll be praying for you. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by satandeterrible: 4:38pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
yemmit90: Facts. And if she persists, you must then divorce that bitch and find yourself a homely, young, respectful woman to marry. Anything other than this is digging your own grave. |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Richy4(m): 4:47pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
satandeterrible:I have given you enough attention already..U can now run along.. I don't know if you were always this stupid or today is a special occasion... But whatever it is,.. I can't come down to your level.. This would be my last reply... But as a lunatic, u are free to have the Last word... 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by satandeterrible: 6:34pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Richy4:Get behind me, Satan. |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by RZArecta(m): 6:56pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Keep up your good work as a husband and father, don't bother exchanging words with her anymore even if she insults you. Spend some cash to upgrade your wardrobe, buy some stuff for the kids too Chill out regularly even if it's a joint near your house After two weeks, get a girl even if it's a colleague to call you at home when your wife is around, use some soft words to receive the call. Your wife will start shouting but ignore her till she calms down Tell her she pushed you out with her madness. She'll cry Enjoy the rest of your marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by SWATMan: 10:27pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
satandeterrible: My write up was not meant for an oaf like you. Sensible people know the content and "ingredients" of my post. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
satandeterrible: I do not "Perfectly" understand the OP, stop with the DUMB assumptions. |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by frozen70(f): 10:42pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Realistt: Idleness at home can lead to any nonsense from your spouse So I think she needs to be busy as in trading or getting a job in the school So when age goes out and come back full of stress she won't gave time to create problems |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by JeffreyJunior: 11:13pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Speak less, stop complaining and stop demanding apologies. Reduce your attention and availability and if you can't take it anymore, opt for separation. What I've learnt in recent time is that some things are never meant to be but we humans keep forcing it which is why we continue to have issues. No marriage is perfect but never settle for someone who never appreciates you, someone who belittles and disrespects you even at every small mistake you make. 4 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Vision101(m): 1:54am On Jan 17, 2023 |
Very simple: screw up everything. Stop asking for sex Stop eating her food Lock up your pocket Talk to her minimally Refuse to sleep on the same bed with her. Finally unscrew when you are very sure that she has totally changed 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Fiscus105(m): 2:11am On Jan 17, 2023 |
Apart from few sensible advice they have offered you before now. If she refused to stop disrespectful. You can stop eating her food. It's only a satanist wife will not back down. After that, u can sleep outside.(though, I'm not praying to reach this level) 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by satandeterrible: 3:21am On Jan 17, 2023 |
JeffreyJunior:Facts |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by onumadu: 5:11am On Jan 17, 2023 |
SWATMan: You are as wise as Solomon. Thanks for an EXCELLENT comment! He (or she) who has ears ... |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by cococandy(f): 5:16am On Jan 17, 2023 |
Why are you mentioning finances? Realistt: 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Nobody: 5:21am On Jan 17, 2023 |
Bleep her forcefully and be aggressive with it The more aggressive you're the more she's going to love and submit to you wholeheartedly |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by onumadu: 5:26am On Jan 17, 2023 |
@OP, One question: Do you share a bedroom with her? If you do, you would be wise to stop that first... Living in a different room will at least give you some space to rebuild your -re-la-tion-ship (that is HOW YOU SEE ONE ANOTHER). Sharing a bedroom is one of those lies that came from abroad which subtly transmogrifies a MATING relationship into a SIBLING relationship. Once she starts seeing you as a "brother", and not a MATE (someone she has sex with), anything can start coming from her. Women often don't respect their brothers as much as they respect their husbands. FACT. BTW I'm assuming you are not a S-IM-P. I can't explain it all in a post here, but try it. |
Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by SWATMan: 6:22am On Jan 17, 2023 |
onumadu: Thank you. |
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