It's so unfortunate, when single, one desire a beautiful home with a loving partner, where you both will hold each others hand and be living in happiness and love. But in life, things happens.
Bad attitude, character or wrong upbringing may become a total turn off and may push away happiness, joy and love in a marriage, thereby resulting to loneliness or creating big empty space in the home.

Apart from your children, where else do you derive joy and happiness? What activities, lifestyle do you engaged that really brings you happiness?
Pls, share to inspire.

My husband’s caring attitude, the romance/sex….

Jesus gives everlasting happiness and joy though

Not married, not in a relationship.

Right now it is success and alcohol that give me happiness.

🍾🍾🍾

Peace....peacefulness. peaceful habitats. Peaceful relationships. Peaceful jobs. Peace within one's soul. Peace infinity. Once you have peace, every
Other thing is secondary fa.

Lamanii22:
My husband’s caring attitude, the romance/sex….

Jesus gives everlasting happiness and joy though

Lucky you.

Righteousness2:
In this world of anxiety, fears, troubles, etc Having JESUS Christ gives me Joy, assurance, boldness and Happiness that I can't describe.

I Draw Joy from the Word GOD,
I Draw Joy from communicating with GOD,
I Draw Joy from Fully Depending on GOD to take care of my needs.

And I tell you it works. No matter how things are looking like, do all you can to Draw closer to GOD. Walk with him. Talk to HIM. Belive and Trust in HIM .

The way ALMIGHTY BABA does things is beyond Human imaginations. But you need to Walk with HIM and TRUST in HIM.

You're right Sir. Thanks for sharing

SodiumValproate:


Not married, not in a relationship.

Right now it is success and alcohol that give me happiness.

🍾🍾🍾

The success part very interesting.

sisisioge:
Peace....peacefulness. peaceful habitats. Peaceful relationships. Peaceful jobs. Peace within one's soul. Peace infinity. Once you have peace, every
Other thing is secondary fa.

Sure. Just that it's not really easy to achieve peace in many situations around though

Your happiness should always come from within. Work on yourself and make yourself proud.

There's no guarantee that your spouse or kids will continue to give you joy. Like I always say, anybody can raise god fearing toddlers because of their innocence. But children will not remain toddlers forever. Your spouse may not remain loyal forever. So, you owe yourself a sustaining and assuring happiness.

all4zionlover:
Sure. Just that it's not really easy to achieve peace in many situations around though

Oh dude, it could be made easy by yourself. You sit in the realm of your life and take the wheels. You do the driving and call the shots. Yes, a lot of other road users who know you or never even met you may do things intentionally/unintentionally to throw spanner in your wheels o but you dont let them take away your peace. You guide it with jealousy! Even when it looks like they've succeeded in grounding you here and there, you dont relent, you look inward for that peace. Lordylordy....it takes a lot of gut to insist on having your peace fa

Acidosis:
Your happiness should always come from within. Work on yourself and make yourself proud.

There's no guarantee that your spouse or kids will continue to give you joy. Like I always say, anybody can raise god fearing toddlers because of their innocence. But children will not remain toddlers forever. Your spouse may not remain loyal forever. So, you owe yourself a sustaining and assuring happiness.

Very right Sir

sisisioge:


Oh dude, it could be made easy by yourself. You sit in the realm of your life and take the wheels. You do the driving and call the shots. Yes, a lot of other road users who know you or never even met you may do things intentionally/unintentionally to throw spanner in your wheels o but you dont let them take away your peace. You guide it with jealousy! Even when it looks like they've succeeded in grounding you here and there, you dont relent, you look inward for that peace. Lordylordy....it takes a lot of gut to insist on having your peace fa

Thanks

Being with a sane, honest woman who loves me just as I love her makes me so happy.

Money.

Good music and beautiful women make me happy

Once I'm down or unhappy,I listen to 90's r&b or start looking at some beautiful women's pics or videos.

mrrobz:
Being with a sane, honest woman who loves me just as I love her makes me so happy.

In the absence of her, what else?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Money.

Yes. Money really does

all4zionlover:
■ It's so unfortunate, when single, one desire a beautiful home with a loving partner, where you both will hold each others hand and be living in happiness and love. But in life, things happens. Bad attitude, character or wrong upbringing may become a total turn off and may push away happiness, joy and love in a marriage, thereby resulting to loneliness or creating big empty space in the home.
■ Apart from your children, where else do you derive joy and happiness? What activities, lifestyle do you engaged that really brings you happiness? Pls, share to inspire.

1. Interesting! Searching for happiness in others has always been a terrible idea from the get-go.

2. So what happens to that joy and happiness when those children disappoint you? You are best finding yourself so you can be happy no matter what life throws at you— and what others around you do. Ideally, this should be something one should attain before marriage and having kids, but it is never too late to search for and find yourself so you can experience the best of life even through the worst of times. Go jogging, lose weight, and visit yourself by walking through your thoughts and memories for answers to why you ended up where you are today, who you would rather have become, what you would have done differently, and how you can do things differently even now in order to achieve that same goal you probably once had for yourself as an individual. The only way to grow stronger mentally and as an individual is to flex your mind muscles. Wisdom might also come along as you do that to help guide you toward making better decisions from there.

sisisioge:


Oh dude, it could be made easy by yourself. You sit in the realm of your life and take the wheels. You do the driving and call the shots. Yes, a lot of other road users who know you or never even met you may do things intentionally/unintentionally to throw spanner in your wheels o but you dont let them take away your peace. You guide it with jealousy! Even when it looks like they've succeeded in grounding you here and there, you dont relent, you look inward for that peace. Lordylordy....it takes a lot of gut to insist on having your peace fa

You CANNOT control PEACE with the millions of Evil Spirits around as NO Human can fight them except God Jehovah through our Savior Jesus Christ.
A "Simple" mosquito can torment your peace for hours.

Who says children bring happiness?
Pray you don't encounter some 'bitter-kolas' in human skin.

Please. . . . THE ONLY THING THAT CAN GIVE HAPPINESS IS PEACE OF MIND. . . .my personal opinion.

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Kobojunkie:
1. Interesting! Searching for happiness in others has always been a terrible idea from the get-go.

2. So what happens to that joy and happiness when those children disappoint you? You are best finding yourself so you can be happy no matter what life throws at you— and what others around you do. Ideally, this should be something one should attain before marriage and having kids, but it is never too late to search for and find yourself so you can experience the best of life even through the worst of times. Go jogging, lose weight, and visit yourself by walking through your thoughts and memories for answers to why you ended up where you are today, who you would rather have become, what you would have done differently, and how you can do things differently even now in order to achieve that same goal you probably once had for yourself as an individual. The only way to grow stronger mentally and as an individual is to flex your mind muscles. Wisdom might also come along as you do that to help guide you toward making better decisions from there.

Thanks for sharing.

Do children really bring joy or they just add more burden and stress?

I mean I've seen a lot of people who started looking a lot older than their age immediately after having children.

all4zionlover:
It's so unfortunate, when single, one desire a beautiful home with a loving partner, where you both will hold each others hand and be living in happiness and love. But in life, things happens.
Bad attitude, character or wrong upbringing may become a total turn off and may push away happiness, joy and love in a marriage, thereby resulting to loneliness or creating big empty space in the home.

Apart from your children, where else do you derive joy and happiness? What activities, lifestyle do you engaged that really brings you happiness?
Pls, share to inspire.

Samantha123:
Do children really bring joy or they just add more burden and stress?

I mean I've seen a lot of people who started looking a lot older than their age immediately after having children.

To me, my children gives me joy.
Well I'm sure stress set in when one start having too many of them and means of survival becomes difficult.

Being old without any child of your own could be more worse. I'm sure

all4zionlover:
In the absence of her, what else?

Fwb 😆

But when you have money, it can't be that worse.

all4zionlover:
To me, my children gives me joy.
Well I'm sure stress set in when one start having too many of them and means of survival becomes difficult.

Being old without any child of your own could be more worse. I'm sure

Samantha123:
But when you have money, it can't be that worse.

Sure