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Is It Bad by BabyOku2022(f): 1:15am On Jan 30, 2023
Pls my bf is angry wit me 4 being friends with blacks (both men and women),why all these?
I just love Africa n its ppl since I turned 18.even is been my dream 2 open school in Africa for children n setup some business 4my guy n help.his family- all because of love.
I know also why I stopped being so close to white guys tho I have some oyibo male friends But just few.yet I have many white gal friends.
My bf complainin why I dont have male friends from usa Or Germany But all about me is black n Africa,dat Im so into Naija food,naija languages,naija music n clothes.where did I go wrong?Im faithful lover and my child is also half afro so wetin dey sup?
He also says dat all.his friends Who dey with white girls these oyibo ladies dnt even smile at anybody Or greet any1.
I remember some months back he was vex cos one girl he introduced me to said she can plait hair 4my pikin n i wanted 2 book appointment Wit d girl But my guy was so angry dat last last dat girl didnt do my child hair.
Pls.tell me what up.wit dis guy cos I didnt mean no harm,he say i only make him angry n he fails 2 understand me.so i told him dat He shuld try 2 accept d way Im instead of tryin 2 understand me cos I know he my everytin n i wont cheat But why he doin all these 2me even if I talk Or socialise with afro ladies...
Re: Is It Bad by Nobody: 1:20am On Jan 30, 2023
Not really bad
Re: Is It Bad by BabyOku2022(f): 1:21am On Jan 30, 2023
Then why he doin all these?wetin dwy sup wit dis naija boy?
He even said he will Block me everywhere n wont tell me when he jst vanish from my life outta d blue.so i told him he can do it But
It will be him Who will miss me n regret cos see,i been helping him in hardship for past 6 months.i even sent some 50usd 2 nigeria 4 his mom when she was at hospital.now plannin 2 surprise him 4 his bday abt drivin licence course paid so dat he can easily drive here I europe.
Then he was just quiet 2me...And said u r just oyinbo i neva met,u jst dey vex me
I dnt care abt d money,is notin2me cos im happy 2help him ok?but why he doin all these
Re: Is It Bad by BabyOku2022(f): 1:25am On Jan 30, 2023
I understand if he was jealous about men But about his fellow sisters?
Na wa
Re: Is It Bad by yrhuhfy113: 1:36am On Jan 30, 2023
BabyOku2022:
Pls my bf is angry wit me 4 being friends with blacks (both men and women),why all these?
I just love Africa n its ppl since I turned 18.even is been my dream 2 open school in Africa for children n setup some business 4my guy n help.his family- all because of love.
I know also why I stopped being so close to white guys tho I have some oyibo male friends But just few.yet I have many white gal friends.
My bf complainin why I dont have male friends from usa Or Germany But all about me is black n Africa,dat Im so into Naija food,naija languages,naija music n clothes.where did I go wrong?Im faithful lover and my child is also half afro so wetin dey sup?
He also says dat all.his friends Who dey with white girls these oyibo ladies dnt even smile at anybody Or greet any1.
I remember some months back he was vex cos one girl he introduced me to said she can plait hair 4my pikin n i wanted 2 book appointment Wit d girl But my guy was so angry dat last last dat girl didnt do my child hair.
Pls.tell me what up.wit dis guy cos I didnt mean no harm,he say i only make him angry n he fails 2 understand me.so i told him dat He shuld try 2 accept d way Im instead of tryin 2 understand me cos I know he my everytin n i wont cheat But why he doin all these 2me even if I talk Or socialise with afro ladies...


It's not bad but you must prove your loyalty to him often, he may have been hurt badly in the past.
Is he on this forum, so we can talk to him for you?

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Re: Is It Bad by BabyOku2022(f): 1:49am On Jan 30, 2023
10x for all these warm words.of cos I wont come alone there,im planning to go with him there as my guide.
But is like he expect me 2 be a woman Who no talk at all?
I can be submissive n humble maself if I do wrong.
Yet d same guy wuld be happy if I cook his fav food 4 him even though is not from my country
Re: Is It Bad by BabyOku2022(f): 1:51am On Jan 30, 2023
Yes.how will i prove him?we dey fucking far like 2000 km away.but is true,he has trust issues.even one of his tattoos say trust nobody.i know he was betrayed by many people b4.
So is it d reason 4 tryin 2 put me down 2day just cos I was happy?
Re: Is It Bad by Mjshexy(f): 6:09am On Jan 30, 2023
He should just have some chills, why is he behaving that way after all he is a black man. I will just advice you draw him closer and let him know this is you and you love having blacks as friends and that was why you even accepted him into your life. Your type is rare, God bless you darling

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Re: Is It Bad by BabyOku2022(f): 7:23am On Jan 30, 2023
Thx my dear,I even told him that Im one of a kind Lol...Im not typical oyinbo and 2ndly,everyone has different personality.
I have travelled across 4 continents of the world and Africa is the one I love most.Even when I was just 4 years old I had African friends in playground somewhere in Europe in a country I used to visit one of my relatives.
So I can never understand his vex.

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